how the signs fuck and fight
*this applies for sun and/or mars*
for more on the sexual side of mars, check this link, this link and this link
fucking - fiery; pounding, hair pulling, good, solid jackhammering. pure adrenaline and naked amoral lust. will wear you out, the type most likely to have angry sex/sex after fighting and take their aggression out on their lover’s body
fighting - bullies; highly aggressive and confrontational, there is only one ‘right way,’ and that way is determined by their point of view. they’re very “my way or the highway” types. definitely ones to yell to get their point across
fucking - physical and tactile; scents, licking, caressing, ass slapping, pounding and touching. also relies on traditional gender roles where the man initiates and the woman serves the intimacy and affection. good with their hands. revels in the sensuality of it all
fighting - silent sulking; quietly absorbs the heat of the conflict yet will either make his or her displeasure known by a refusal to communicate openly, often to the point of not speaking at all. then when least expected, they explode and get very mean and inconsiderate
fucking - suggestive and experimental; also very good with their hands. will ask a lot of questions about what their partner likes, what he/she wants more of, and definitely ask about what sexual fantasies their partner has. likes to experiment with different sexual positions in a session. most likely to use toys
fighting - feigned indifference; whether they feel differently inside or not, they pretend they don’t care about whether they win or lose and can actually win an argument by acting as if they are giving in without really agreeing, which robs others of power or influence by their “playing dead” posture
fucking - emotionally expressive; the stuff of movies and love songs-vibrant, playful, erotic, high sex energy. uses sex to heal emotional conflicts, are experimental and take sexual risks, and has sexual fun and intensity.
fighting - passive-aggressive; they want power and control but they don’t go about obtaining it openly. plays games and often employs a submissive façade during the conflict and then employs vengeful tactics and harmful tit-for-tat payback games
fucking - direct and bossy; they’re straight forward about their sexual desires, and they’re be straight forward about their sexual limits or lack thereof. very much alpha males/females. likes to show off sexually and be adventurous and uninhibited. will do it almost anywhere luxurious and exotic. most likely to fuck in public
fighting - dominating; they want only their opinion to be heard. rather than resorting to open abuse, they need to win and will aggressively maneuver and compete to ensure that opposing points of view are quashed by utilizing powerful verbal and nonverbal behaviour to maintain control in the fight.
fucking - hidden sluts; will be restrained at first, but with the right partner and in the right situation will be as primal and intense as the most depraved scorpio…more on this here
fighting - compartmentalizing; in general, anger is beneath them. relies personal logic and facts and put conflicts neatly in a mental shoebox. but if pushed, they can be like a snow-covered volcano, coldly scathing and vicious
fucking - companionship-based; very intimate and erotic but only within a relationship with a person who leaves them feeling accepted and loved for who they really are (warts and all). needs to maintain a secure bond so they can be powerfully validated emotionally and sexually. very idealistic
fighting - avoidant; they simply don’t like becoming unsettled. they commonly shut down and close off to emotions, disagreements, and situations that might involve conflict and will do nearly anything to avoid fighting openly
fucking - primal; passionate, and intense. sexually raw and emotional, spontaneous and unpredictable. they pounce when the time is right and they will push your boundaries. can be too much emotional and sexual drama
fighting - savage; bullies similar to aries, but far pettier. they thrive by controlling and dominating others. will use name-calling, threats, demeaning jabs, and sarcasm are tools commonly used. gets power in underhanded ways and are very toxic
fucking - spontaneous; needs the randomness and excitement of having sex at the drop of a hat. will try any and all positions they can think of and have sex in the weirdest places. the less planning, the better. very vigorous, casual, and fun
fighting - exploratory; they don’t mince words and can be very fiery blunt and hurtful, but they utilize conflict to keep relationship dynamic and strong. the point for them is understanding and growth and they view healthy fighting as an educational experience.
fucking - bosses; either an alpha male who indulges his depraved side behind closed doors, or a business-minded female who longs to be ‘taken’ by a man and ravished like it’s the last time on earth that two humans have sex. either way, they’ll get down to business like no one else except for aries and scorpio. very elemental and raw
fighting - cool calm and collected; like virgo, they can be generally even keel, but when pushed, power at all costs is the name of the game for them and they can be incredibly abusive and will attack where it hurts. not above giving people the silent treatment and ignoring their very existence
fucking - very hot and cold; interrupts the seduction pattern by teasing, sexual experimentation to the 9th degree. dirty talk; turns their partner’s mind on and gets into their head with all sorts of erotic imagery and promises of sexual savagery
fighting - invalidation; when they feel attacked or unnerved, they fight back by challenging and devaluating any reasons the other partner has for feeling the way he or she does.
fucking - connected; very intimate and romantic. sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses. either very vanilla or very exploratory. loves to please their partner
fighting - victimization; they take whatever is dished out instead of speaking out or standing up honestly and assertively, they deny, make excuses, or blame others to avoid responsibility. they also often display emotions (e.g., crying out of frustration, hurt, and shame)
