Pick A Pile: This is how your lovers see you ⋆˚꩜
୨ৎ About this reading: In this Pick-a-Pile reading, we will see how your lover sees you when they’re in love, what it feels like loving you, we’re diving into their eyes and heart, seeing YOU from their point of view when you’re in love. This is applicable for your past lovers, current partners, or even future spouse.
୨ৎ Pick a pile: Take a deep breath, clear your mind, and look at the images above. Which one pulls you in the most? Trust your gut! Once you choose the image, the number below your chosen image is your pile. If more than one catches your eye, that just means there’s extra tea for you, go ahead and read both!
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Okay sooo, starting with your reading, I don’t even know how to explain this but the moment I started pulling cards, I immediately got this cute energy 🥺 like this very giddy, smiley, wholesome vibe. I legit started smiling without realizing it lol. It felt like all those silly little “butterflies in my stomach” type moments started playing in my head. So you definitely give off that whole “new crush, giddy stage” energy, especially in the beginning of your relationships. And honestly, it’s adorable. Like I love when my friends in real life do that when they’re in love, so I know that’s kinda your vibe too!! But okay, later on, things do get a bit more complex with you, and I’ll explain what I mean in a second, but that initial cuteness is literally unmatched. 💖
Now from your lover’s perspective, I’m seeing they might sometimes think you’re… lost in your own world. Like you’re there, but also not there at the same time 😂. And no, it doesn’t mean you’re always melancholic or sad, but it’s more about how your resting face or your eyes come across. Maybe you’ve got “resting bitch face” or that serene but kinda tired eyes thing going on, where people think you’re not interested, even when you are. And your lovers especially get this vibe that there’s always something about you they’ll never fully understand.
They really find you mysterious. Like even if you do share all your secrets, there’s still this “something” about you that feels hidden. Almost like a dream-like aura. And because of that, people, especially lovers, get a little obsessive about you. They’re pulled in without even knowing why. You might even feel like, “Ugh, why does this happen to me since I was a kid?” but yeah, that’s literally your aura. You’ve always carried that mystery. Alsooo, your partners feel like you’re reliable, dependable even, but at the same time unreachable. Like, they want to lean on you, but they’re also like, “Wait, am I putting too much on them? Am I pressuring them?” So they hold back sometimes.
And let me just say this, your lovers, They 100% put you on a pedestal. Like WAY above them. To the point where they’re like, “Oh my god, how do I even talk to them without embarrassing myself??” Even if they’re already your partner, they still have those little insecure moments. And honestly It’s kinda funny 😂 because I keep seeing this image of them finding a meme or a song that makes them laugh but then hesitating to send it to you like, “Wait what if they think it’s cringe?? I have to look cool, I need elite taste to impress them.” LOL. You just give off such regal vibes that people literally wanna improve themselves just by being with you
Now let me pause here, because honestly, your energy while I was doing this reading had me all over the place. I literally had to stop and restart because my words weren’t coming out right 😅. Seriously i felt like im just blabbering and making no sense so i had to clear it all up and rewrite it AND that in itself was a sign, because that’s exactly how your lovers feel. CONFUSED. Like, “How do I even make them happy? How do I show them they’re valued?” Because you’ve got this independent, self-sufficient aura. And as much as they admire that, it also makes them second-guess if what they’re offering is “enough.” And omg, this word EXTRA literally popped into my head while reading. Your lovers sometimes feel like they’re just an extra in your story. Like you’re the main character and they’re standing there going, “Wait… am I important to them? Do I matter this much in their life?” That’s something they wrestle with a LOT.
Okay, three words I kept hearing over and over: Unforgettable, Unreachable, Obsessive.
Unforgettable because something about you, your style, your vibe, your energy, even just the way you exist, or maybe yall have some kind of quality, maybe something physical which sticks in people’s minds. You’ve probably got one of those features or quirks people never forget. But it’s not just superficial, your lovers really look at you as a soul, not just looks. Of course, physical attraction, Yeah, that’s ALL there. Like 100%. But it goes way deeper.
You also bring this spark of playfulness and innocence sometimes. And it’s funny because you probably see yourself that way, playful, adventurous, curious, but you feel like people always notice the “serious” side of you first. BUT Your partners adore that silly, spontaneous side of you, though. That’s what keeps them hooked. Like, every day with you feels new, unpredictable, exciting. You keep the spark alive without even trying.
Another big thing im seeing is that you literally transform people. Even in past or future relationships, your partners will change after being with you. Like people around them notice it too: “Wait, they’re so different now. What happened?” And it’s always for the better. You don’t even realize it, but your presence alone makes people want to improve themselves. That’s how deep your impact is.
Oh, and lol this is random but I kept getting K-pop girl-group, lessarafim energy, you know that whole fierce girlboss concept but with a soft, silly side too, evne through that might not be the prominent part of their concept but it’s still present there. Like that’s literally how you come across. Kazuha from Le Sserafim even popped into my head because she had that immediate “obsessive energy” reaction from fans. That’s the kind of obsession you pull from people too. And okay, a little spicy detail… you probably don’t even try, but in bed, you naturally come off more dominant. Like, that’s just the energy here. If you’re laughing rn, you KNOW I’m talking about you 😂.
you’ve got this faith. Maybe in manifestation, the universe, a higher power, or a specific God you pray to. Not all of you, but a good chunk of this pile has that. And what’s interesting is that some of your partners, who didn’t believe in that stuff before, end up influenced by your faith. Like they start believing too, because of you. That’s powerful.
That’s it for your Pile 1 reading 💕. I LOVED doing this for you. Honestly, even I was intimidated at times channeling this energy, because it reminded me of powerful women I’ve seen who have this soft, hidden side only their partners ever get to see. So yeah, that’s you. You’re unforgettable, mysterious, and transformative, and your lovers can’t help but see you as someone way above the rest ✨.
Hope you enjoyed this pile 🥰💌 see you next time!!
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Okay, pile two people. The first word, literally you won’t believe it, the first word that popped in my head was worship. Yeah. Worship. And then “spirituality” and then “floor” (😭 like the floor you walk on). Your lovers would WORSHIP the floor you walk on. They see you as their peace, their comfort, their safe space. You’re the first person they run to no matter what’s happening. It’s like you’re this warm hug in human form!!! AWWWWW
And omg, while I was channeling, I looked at the clock and it was 3:33. Basically, ig, That’s confidence, positivity, chasing your goals, creativity… which makes so much sense because that’s exactly how your lovers view you. Like, SUPPORT is the word I keep hearing. They feel like they can’t even exist properly without you around. Honestly, some of them probably feel like they’d combust if they weren’t near you (okay exaggeration lol but still). The vibe is very empathetic, very soft. Like picture those anime moments, when a guy with this tough, confident personality suddenly sees the person they like and instantly turns into a tomato 😭 eyes wide, stammering, totally flustered, That’s literally the kind of image I kept seeing. Ignore the gender, this is just how your partners’ energy reacts to YOU.
They look at you with sooo much compassion and stability. It’s powerful. They’re like, “How can someone be this empathetic, this kind?” They admire and adore that about you, they worship it. And they also know, deep down, that you’ve been through betrayal. This kindness and compassion u carry had People testing your boundaries, taking advantage. But you still stood tall. And that, more than anything, makes them respect you even more. Respect is HUGE here.
Now sadly, I don’t see every partner respecting you properly (only a smaller number, touch wood for those of you who did ✨), but the ones who do, They’re like, “Why do they even doubt themselves???” Like seriously, your lovers mentally scream at you: WHY DO YOU have self-doubts when you’re literally perfection in human form? At least in their eyes, when they’re in love with you, you’re the most perfect person they could imagine.
There’s also this whole mix of obsession + cuteness + aggression + worship going on in their heads when they’re with you. Past lovers, future lovers, even a future spouse, it doesn’t matter. The reaction is the same. They’re obsessed. They don’t see your weaknesses as flaws. The things you call insecurities? They don’t even register them that way. And here’s the thing: your person CANNOT get enough of you. Like, I keep getting attachment energy here. For some of you, either you or your partners have attachment issues. It’s very “I can’t let go of you, I’m entangled with you emotionally, mentally, spiritually.” Once they start dating you, that’s it, they’re locked in. Some of you might’ve already experienced partners like this. It can be overwhelming at times, but some of you also kinda like that “I’m scared to lose you” energy because it makes you feel wanted.
But because you’re SO compassionate, SO kind, soooo polite, people do take advantage. They take it for granted. And it leaves you heartbroken. Over time, though, it’s shaped this dignified version of you where now. You walk away quietly when something doesn’t serve you. No drama, no chaos, just peace. And that’s something your lovers really admire. They’re like, “How do they do that?? How do they walk away so gracefully when I would’ve exploded?” You’ve probably even heard people say that to you in real life.
You do second-guess yourself a lot. But omg, when you DON’T, When you finally stop hesitating? You start achieving milestone after milestone. Just how they say, It’s literally like climbing the first step is the hardest, but after that, you’re unstoppable. That’s how your lovers see you too. Like you think you’re not enough, but the second you give yourself a chance, you start hitting shot after shot. And your partners watch in awe, like, “Yep, that’s the person I fell in love with.”
There’s also this dreamy, halo-like softness around you. Maybe it’s the way you dress, or your features, or just your aura, but your lovers pick it up hard. They see you as angelic, otherworldly even. It’s the whole “when you’re dating someone, they’re the most attractive person in your eyes” thing That’s you for your partner (dw lovely, im def not jealous). In their eyes, you’re the most beautiful, magnetic, radiant person in existence.
So yeah, pile two, you’re worshipped. Like legit, WORSHIPPED. Your lovers see you as their peace, their obsession, their teacher, their safe space, their dream. They respect you, they admire your compassion, they get attached to you, and they never stop seeing you as someone way too good to be real. That’s the impact you leave in their hearts 💕.
That’s it for your Pile 2 reading 💕Hope you enjoyed this pile 🥰💌 see you next time!!
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Okay Pile 3 babes, LISTEN the very first word that popped into my head when I started your reading was… SEXY. Like straight up SEXY. Y’all are literally the definition of “sexy energy.” That’s how your partners (past, present, future, even future spouse) have seen you. There’s this HUGE theme of attraction around you, it’s not subtle at all. People are drawn to you physically, magnetically!!!
And honestly, let me warn you right now lol, this pile is NOT PG. Nope. So yeah i thought i should let yall know that before (although I already know the under 18 crowd is not gonna listen anyway -) but even if you’re not thinking about it in a physical way, the energy you give off is just… intoxicating. People you date (or who crush on you) can’t stop staring, can’t stop imagining, can’t stop being wrapped up in the way you carry yourself. You don’t even notice it sometimes, but wow, if you leaned into this more? Like made it your aesthetic or fashion, You’d be unstoppable. TRUST ME AND TRY IT.
Now, you attract partners with… let’s just say some toxic streaks. Doesn’t mean every single one of them is a red flag factory, but there’s always something a little obsessive about the way they get with you. Like it goes from attraction to INFATUATION real quick. They get overwhelmed by you. And honestly, part of that is because you have this commanding energy, you’re not the follower, you’re not submissive, you’re the one with the upper hand. You’re the bigger spoon, emotionally, mentally, even romantically. People see you as the one in control, and honestly, You ARE. Your relationships tend to be super intense. Like… people don’t just “date you.” They EXPERIENCE you. The emotions are extreme, the attraction is extreme, the fantasies are extreme (yes I said fantasies). Even before some people dated you, they probably already had you in their heads like this dream figure, and then when it actually happens it’s like BOOM, obsession. And ngl, I’m jealous, because y’all are such a whole package.
Like, you don’t just “light up the room,” you light up the BED 💀🔥 (don’t come for me, that’s literally the vibe the cards are screaming LMAOOOO). It’s that alluring, magnetic, hot charm that makes people lose their sense of chill around you. And sometimes that level of sex appeal feels deceptive to people, like they can’t tell if you’re being genuine or if you’re playing a game. That’s how powerful your energy is, they don’t even know how to process it.
Some of your partners definitely felt overshadowed by you. Like they look at you and think, “This person is way out of my league, I’ll never fully ‘have’ them.” And honestly, that just makes them chase you more. You’ve got this aura of LUXURY, like they can’t “own” you. They don’t feel like they could ever fully possess you, and it drives them insane. It makes them competitive, insecure, but also… completely obsessed. And oh my god, people COPY you. Like even in relationships, partners start picking up your mannerisms, your fashion choices, your little habits. Same with friends tbh, your energy is contagious, and people want to mirror it. You set the tone, pile 3. ✨
But, under all that sexy, dominant, “hard to read” aura, there’s a softer warmth. You do have this bright, joyful energy that’s a little more reserved, like not everyone gets to see it. But those who do? They’re DONE for. Like they thought they were obsessed before? No. Once they see your warm, playful side, it’s game over. And let me just say this, you remind me of early 2000s Britney Spears energy. That mix of hot + untouchable + magnetic + secretly soft. People see you and immediately build fantasies in their heads, but then when they actually connect with you, they realize you’ve got this balance of light and dark, soft and powerful.
OKAY, totally out of context but im seeing that Your lovers often end up being people with HIGH standards, like they either already achieved a lot or they’re very ambitious. And dating you makes them feel challenged. Sometimes that’s good (motivating), sometimes it triggers their insecurities, but either way, you change them. You’re the kind of person they never forget. You’re the story they tell years later, like “yeah, I dated them once…” and everyone’s jaw drops like “YOU DATED THEM??” That’s the kind of mark you leave.
That’s it for your Pile 3 reading 💕Hope you enjoyed this pile 🥰💌 see you next time!!
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