Nothing makes you look less prepared and more amateur to your position than when a guest or associate walks in and you simply stare at them with no way to "break the ice" or make them comfortable before getting down to business. Likewise, nothing makes an enemy feel less welcomed than when they know you have something to offer, but you don't offer it to them. Here is a list of ten must-haves to be the best host (or least welcoming nemesis) you can be.
Minibar or Bar Cart - You'd be surprised how many guests arrive thirsty. Have they traveled far? Do they need something to curb their nerves? Who knows -- but offer them a drink!
Cigar Box - You might also be surprised how many guests relax once given something to smoke. Include in this a cigar cutter, cigarettes, and some good loose tobacco for the pipe or hookah smoker. Make sure to invest in the best, because that is what you are striving to be.
Umbrella Stand - Who carries umbrellas? Still, this is a great place for your guests to stash their walking sticks, staffs, or any weapons you don't want to see haphazardly leaned against your walls.
Console Table - "Would you like to lay aside your gloves?" Gesture to a beautiful entry table and they'll be sure to oblige. It makes shaking hands a lot more valuable, and offers your guests that much more comfort.
Coat Rack - Naturally, visitors and guests will need a place to hang their cloaks, capes, and coats; and what is more hospitable than asking if you can take their coat for them?
Brass Candleholders (or Crystal Candleholders) - First of all, it can be quite awkward to suddenly realize you are sitting in a dark room with your guest. Secondly, a good hefty pair of candleholders make excellent impromptu (self-defense) weapons in the event that the visit does not go as planned. (Brass is preferable as it is less breakable in the unfortunate event of an accident.) Be sure to add candles!
Table Lighter - Both a decorative piece and a practical, alluring solution to getting caught in a darkened room or finding your guest suddenly looking for a way to light that cigar you offered them.
Hall Mirror - The first thing you look at before answering the door and the last thing your guests glance at before leaving your company. It is also good to avoid that awkward hat or helmet hair guests might have upon arrival. This piece is often hung above the aforementioned table.
Leather Chair - Never underestimate the power of a comfortable -- but not too comfortable -- chair. Guests should feel welcome, but not so relaxed they fall asleep or wear out that welcome.
Clock - It is preferable to have a clock that chimes, as it can be so easy to lose track of time when in good company ... or because it will remind unwanted guests of just how long they have overstayed.
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