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I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

loversmore

i had a feeling so peculiar this pain wouldn’t be for e v e r m o r e.

#taylor swift

jakeyp

color palette meme • shiv roy + moms wine glass requested by @daptainholt (insp.)

#succession #shiv roy #love of my life

imissthembutitwasntadisaster

*watches a fictional man bloody, bruised, beaten, and dying* ahh yes the female gaze

yassifiedinformation

fagsromana

i may not have fucked that old man but by golly i sure have sexualized him

janinegregory

#shivy

#succession #shivy my baby

bob-belcher

“The Night Before” — Derry Girls (3.01)

holygraund

Hell was the journey but it brought me heaven.

cowboy

If coffee isnt fully black even when you hold it up to the sun and isnt thicker than water then why even make coffee. Go throw a coffee bean into some hot water if you want stupid coffee bean tea I want that real shit that gives you psychosis