Hopeless. Helpless. Useless

Scotland~INFP

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cursed image

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you can only reblog chicken noodle melon today reblog any other day and you fucking die

[saitamas-hoodie]

i want to die

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thenoelmiller: Codella gets his groove back

[noelmiller]

[Cody laughing offscreen] 

[femininedaniel]

kelsey knows what’s up

[noelbisexual]

CODEL IS BACK

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( ･_･)♡

[catchymemes]

[ngalitzine]

[thefatfuck-irl]

why do i keep seeing “jokes” like “lol if you’re ‘touch starved’ you’re just horny lmao”

like

it’s not a sexual thing and is actually pretty important since humans are social creatures

“Human touch has been proven to be vital to emotional, psychological, and physical growth in infants and to some extent in older children and adults.”

“Skin hunger is your body’s reaction to lack of physical touch and it affects an increasing number of Americans while being a non existent phenomenon in more touch-happy countries like France. The problem that we’re learning is that without skin-to-skin touch (might we add that it doesn’t have to be sexual), your body doesn’t produce the hormone oxytocin. Without that natural chemical, adults are more susceptible to depression and infants can have developmental problems or even die.”

“Hugs have also been shown to increase the production of oxytocin in humans; this is the hormone that positively influences our bonding and nurturing behaviors.”

hello???????????

[bipolar-bubbeleh]

Uh

[dynamite5ftjewishbitch]

One of my clinical instructors told me that most people need seventeen touches a day to feel nurtured.

[austerejester]

Does it have to be human touch or is this why I subject my poor dog to being picked up and cuddled at random throughout the day? Because Its been 84 years since I physically touched another living human with my skin

[actuallyfuckamatonormativity]

Pets count!

[sheepgirlwizard-deactivated2025]

humans are social creatures who bond well with other social creatures so ya pets count

[star-anise]

Touch starved people often benefit from massage therapy, manicures, getting their hair done, social dance, and team sports. It doesn’t have to be intense and intimate!

[sallychaosaura]

Personally I’m fond of neck/shoulders/back rubs.

[brightlotusmoon]

This might explain why I’m both touched starved and wary of people touching me and how I will hug my cats until they’re the ones who squirm.

[naamahdarling]

Saying touch starvation = horny is what leads to people who can’t tell the difference and that leads to bad sex, sex that is bad FOR you, and pushing other people to have sex with you when neither of you really want it, you just need to feel close to someone. (Specifically, this is one of the ways toxic masculinity hurts men, who deserve better and deserve to experience platonic, friendly touch because it is wonderful.)

[acoolguy]

you ever have to shake your leg because there’s a rock in it?

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thats your bones

[acoolguy]

every day i learn some more

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[catchymemes]

[weloveshortvideos]

when a baby is crying in the background and you use slow it down on snapchat

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FUCK

[pugmancer]

this is my favorite post on this god forsaken website

everytime i fucking see this i lose my shit

[valtsv]

“that sounds like a you problem” is literally one of the funniest ways to respond to criticism

[bourtange]

straight people should have to wear “VISITOR” badges when they go to gay bars

[ginger-ale-official]

You will respect black cats or you will respect these hands my friend

[chewbacca]

Sabrina the Teenage Witch (1996 — 2003)