A different type of bonding
"Beep beep!" a loud honk screamed for the 1000thnd time, followed by a sudden about- turn of the Tuk- Tuk and strong nausea from my part.
The other bus is roaring quickly past us, shortly before we arrive the curve bedded in the valleys of Northern Laos, leading me to squeeze my eyes shut.
"Well, that was lucky, we almost crashed" were my thoughts, disapproved by the frequent repetitions of the same procedure. This was rather the combination of pure driving skills and the driver´s confusion of the road with a rally than luck.
My plan was to go to Laos and teach Buddhist monks in English and here I was now, finding myself in a Tuk- Tuk with Keanu, one of the monks I am teaching, on a four hours ride through remote jungle villages followed by children running after us and screaming "Farang", the Lao description for white foreigners, while pointing at me. Keanu has asked me to accompany him to visit his family, which he has not seen since one year, as monks are not allowed to possess money, hence could not afford transportation.
Feeling like the protagonist of someone else´s book, we arrived in a little village embedded in rice patties and surrounded by mango trees. Keanu directed me into a tiny house where people were kissing him and smiling at me welcomingly.
"They are very glad you are here, some of them never saw a foreign person, my aunt just walked seven hours from her village to see you", Keanu stated.
Big brown eyes staring at me with a combination of fascination and confusion while smiling confirmed just that.
Everyone sat around now in a circle and commodities, like money, sweets and more were passed around in order to sacrifice and generate luck for everyone participating in the ceremony. Carried by the positive attitude I found myself in front of a whole glass full of 80% rice liquor.
"To purify the soul" Keanu stated.
"Well, how could I say no to that" I responded, not adding "at 11 in the morning!!".
Needless to say that I was quite tipsy when a whole cooked chicken was passed around.
Everyone had to rip off and eat something. The person before me opened the mouth of the cooked chicken, pulled out its tongue and was eating it with pleasure.
"I am really sorry, I am sure this chicken must be delicious but I am vegetarian," I said, which was actually not just an excuse.
"No problem at all, so you can smell the chicken" Keanu assured me confidently.
Well, so I smelled the chicken and everyone seemed relieved.











