I found my home

Have you found yours?

[dniudsnf]

i’m a big fan of stars, kisses, and letters

[mara-smith]

My home will be a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no name calling, shaming or blackmail. My home will be gentle, it will be warm. It will keep my loved ones safe. No fear, no hurt and no worries.

[photografya-deactivated20230917]

[ayengmyalways]

Paisa lang ako

Nakakainis yung mga kaklase kong natatawag to read the slide tapos akala mo hinahabol sila ni kamatayan pag nagbabasa. GRRR!

[ayengmyalways]

Maybe if we chose to grow despite all the shortcomings, difficulties, and setbacks, we’d be able to grow and move forward.

But then, choosing to grow is hard (for most people) thus instead of choosing to grow, we choose to stay and focus on what we’re feeling in the moment. And that’s okay. This is not a race nor a “best in” contest. 

WE’D JUST HAVE TO TAKE AND DO EVERYTHING IN OUR PACE. 

(Cause people’s opinions has no importance.)

[ayengmyalways]

I’m gay. 

[ayengmyalways]

Growth

I always tell my partner that, “I’m happy that you have grown through me, with me, and because of me.”

Growing is scary. Growing is different. Growing is something that usually don’t happen (or something we do not usually see). But, growth is beautiful. Growth is also ugly.

Growth is beautiful because, we change. We change for the good. We grow out of the ugly things before and now we’ve grown. Growth is realizing that our past habits is not actually good for ourselves. So we grow to what is good and beautiful for us.

But then growth is also ugly. It is ugly when the person we love grew and realized that they do not need us anymore. A hard truth we cannot just run away from. Growth is also ugly when they grew and forgot their priorities. 

But in its whole being, growing is good. Growing is inevitable. Growing is beautiful for ourselves. Choose to grow for yourself. Always always choose to grow. 

[birdasaurus]

[ayengmyalways]

Beauty of a woman is unexplainable. 

[ayengmyalways]

Hi! I’m from the Philippines.

I have a question... can a real man raise voice to a woman he loved?

Hi! I’m from the Philippines, too! <3 Well, I believe that if a man truly loves a woman, he can never hurt her. He will always want the best for her. So raising his voice to a woman he love, that’s a red flag. Its bad for your health and may cause trauma.

But there are instances where raising his voice would be an exception, for example if he really didn’t mean to; like out of his control and/ or emotions. 

Thank you dear! Nice to meet you!

[destroymylife]

[understands]

[ayengmyalways]

You deserve someone who accepts you with every flaw and ugliness you have.

You deserve someone who understands you with every cry and madness you have.

You deserve someone who hopes with you that there is always a chance to be better. To be better with you. 

[ayengmyalways]

Today is a brand new day

Good morning! (Good afternoon to some, or even good evening)

I know that you have dreaded that yesterday be done already. I know that its been hard lately because of school, work, pandemic, money, and everything else that bothers you. Its natural and its okay.

What I always do when I feel like this is, plan what I can do and what I can adjust tomorrow. I always believe that there is always a brand new coming. I always try to see that, even though I failed this day, there is a brand new day to make things right, to make things possible, and to make things change. 

[ayengmyalways]

I just want to tell everyone that my blog, my ask box, my reply area is a safe place for you. I will be ready to listen and to understand you. I am willing to give my time for you, if you need me.  I am here.

[konoko]

[ayengmyalways]

Question I’d like to ask celebrity stylists:

1. How do you make someone look beautiful in clothes they don’t usually wear?

2. How do you balance style and comfort?

3. Do you consider their opinion when you style them?