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Lullaby by older child

Nowadays, a lot of talk about the lullabies sung by his mother to the child. It is through the lullaby established a close relationship between mother and child. Much is said about the importance for the child's contact with the mother.

But life, unfortunately, is far from ideal performance of a lullaby his mother also affects her emotional state, formed by many factors.

This can be jealousy and envy on the part of older children: "I also want to sleep well!". Austerity by my mother's parents, for example, the child's grandmother, the mother of his mother, could chastise her for being too from her point of view of the care and concern, because she is afraid that her daughter will spoil the child. Reprimanded by their parents killed tenderness and affection in the mother under their constant pressure. Negative factors affecting the process of lulling a baby with a lullaby, abound, but let's see another example:

Imagine a situation familiar to me firsthand: Baby loves to rock and cradle! Not just love and adore! Presented? And it is - your child! Those who once rocked and cradled you yourself! And now, one day you will know that you are pregnant again ...

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The first days of stay of the newborn in the family, which has an older child may be bitter and difficult for the latter. He also wants, as you take care of the baby. When you shake the baby, the child may wake up in a keen sense of jealousy - not to have the baby, and the baby to you.

This also sometimes happens: the child begins to be jealous of no parents to the newborn and the newborn to his parents. In this case, do not push the eldest son or daughter, are not excluded from the care of the baby. It is better to explain to the child how to properly swaddle the baby, how to give him a pacifier or bottle, and teach him to change diapers or diaper and wash away the newborn, to soothe a crying baby, and of course, put him to sleep.

Best of all, if you go with your child to the courses for pregnant women, where you will learn to swaddle the baby and tell how to properly handle it. This does not mean that your eldest son or daughter will learn to put the baby to the breast, just beyond these purely women's knowledge, he will get and the lessons that it manageable, for example, how to soothe a crying baby.

If you have not lost swaddling skills since the first child was born, share them with the older, teach him what to do when something with himself. Then, when a new baby is born, your eldest son will be happy to help you, and even be able to swaddle your own brother or sister.

From time to time, let the older child cradled the newborn and sing a lullaby. The most important thing is to know and understand the older child when novorozhdёnny would be in his arms - that's what a baby - not a toy and not a doll, but a real living creature, it can be painful or uncomfortable.

Teach your baby how to hold a baby in her arms, take him in his arms. At first, give him a child, and keep, as he holds, in time and gently corrects, and tells him to explain all the details of the treatment of the baby. Let the eldest son or daughter a little shake crumbs and sing him a lullaby.

Do not forget to praise the older child for success and for their help, if he is good at. For example, your oldest son, the first-born shook newborn baby brother, and he sweetly asleep. In this case, tell him what he is clever and well done, take the baby out of his hands and gently put to bed, and if the child himself dealt with this, doubly praise.

If you take care of the little brother, will be mainly the older your child, you will be able to fully trust him this case, the benefits of this will be for you and your child, and newborn. You will have more free time for myself, and motherhood will not weigh you.

Sleepless nights disappear if the child is older he will wake up to a crying baby, to comfort him, change diapers, diapers, bottle feed. Himself a child feel like an adult and responsible, and will be around to imitate their parents. For example, if you are angry with the younger child of leprosy, he in the same situation, too angry at him. If junior hit and burst into tears, and you reassured him, then a senior will calm him down in the same situation.

Meaning of lullabies performed by the brothers and sisters.

So you imagine that your older child loves to rock and lull. And now, just talk about the meaning of the lullaby executed child brother or sister.

Do mothers singing lullabies to a newborn, are set in the future a more affectionate relationship with their children. Premature babies gain weight faster and strength; while singing moms normalizes the rhythm of cardiac activity and blood pressure; the kid who sing lullabies, before beginning to "crow", and, therefore, to exercise their vocal cords.

But from the above Dear Natalia Melekhova does not mean that you can not sing a lullaby brothers and sisters! In older children, singing lullabies to his brother and sister, no less than that of mothers, hereinafter set affectionate relationship with his brothers and sisters.

Maybe in children and there are no problems with blood pressure and heart rhythm, but once again the unfortunate lull and soothe the baby will not hurt them as well. In addition, in this case, there can be no question of sibling rivalry in the form of aggression older child in relation to the newborn.

But that is not all. When the eldest child sings a lullaby to his little brother, he is distracted from his problems, from stress and trouble, all without the rest being given to singing, soothing the baby. He has a feeling of peace and tranquility, especially if sung a lullaby - the same that my mother sang to him in infancy. He plays as if her mother's tone, conveys all his tenderness and affection little brother or little sister. This is very useful for both.

If a baby has established a close relationship with your eldest child than with you - do not be jealous. Jealous kid to the eldest son or daughter, you are like the firstborn, who is jealous of her mother to the newborn. In this case, you should explain to the older child, the younger will continue to take his example, and that it is now the responsibility is the same as on the parents themselves. What he is much older, and this attracts the corresponding requirements. If, moreover, the youngest child will listen to the older brother or sister, a parent is removed shoulders part of the responsibility for his education.

The reasons why a child like to sing lullabies, can be different.

The child wants to convey to someone that he received from his parents when he was very lulls.

Maybe he wants to be rocked again, rocked and sang him a lullaby, and it operates on the principle of "love to ride - love and sleigh to haul!" And he loves to rock and lull the little ones.

The child may be innate tendencies and inclinations nurse, and his love for children is a swing of their manifestation.

Then follow the recommendations on education of future nurses and tutors, may be out of your kid an excellent nanny, which will be in great demand, and that will recommend all agencies like the best of the best. Read tips on how to raise a child from a real nurse.

Tips for moms of children with elevated inclinations babysitting.

Tips how to sing a lullaby addressed to mothers, will also be useful and older child. On this subject there is a separate article, be sure to let it read your child and teach him to represent and reproduce the "soft ecstatic breath caressing mouth, the so-called whisper of breath."

In order to feel it, let him try to breathe warm air into his palm and remember this feeling, teach him this. Two - three times a day immediately after feeding the baby put the older child in his arms and let him sing him lullabies, and shake for 10 minutes.

Never force the older child by force, otherwise you whacks any desire to help care for the baby, it is better unobtrusively and gently induce, it must be for him a joy, not a burden.

Do not yell at the child, do not scold or punish him when he was busy with the baby, on the contrary - if the eldest child in something guilty, to punish use only the time when he is free from the younger brother. Removal from the care of the baby can also be used directly as a punishment. Be sure - an argument between your children would then be excluded!

Example lullaby as a child bedding eldest child.

If your little one remembers those lullabies that you calmed and laid him to sleep - is ideal. Let him sing them and their little brother or little sister. If you expand his repertoire of the night, for example, allowing to listen to Russian lullabies performed by Eugenia Zaritskaya or giving books with lullabies, this is nothing wrong will not happen.

For the execution of the youngest child to the eldest child of songs, pick those lullabies, which does not indicate the status of the baby in relation to the shakes, or there is the possibility of replacing the status of his brother or sister, for example:

Kotja-kotenka-Kotok,

Kotja - gray hvostok,

Come Kotya, sleep,

Mahwah brother swing

Oh, how I told you, the cat,

For work pay,

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Dame jug of milk,

Dame a piece of cake,

Bai, Bai, bye-bye,

You sobachenka not barking,

Snowshoe, do not whine,

Brother Misha did not wake.

Dark of The Night without sleep,

Dear brother, my fears,

You sobachenka not barking,

I do not scare brother.

Bayu, bainki, bye,

Not lozhisya on the edge,

There will come a gray top,

He grabbed his brother by the flank,

He grabbed his brother by the flank

And dragged into the woods,

And dragged into the woods

Under Rakitova kustok,

Under Rakitova kustok

Raspberry leaf,

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Under raspberry leaf

Under mostok viburnum,

You're a top, do not go to us,

Brother Sasha did not wake.

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How we struggled with lice

7 Things You Probably Don't Want to Know About Lice

She returned my daughter from summer camp fun, tanned, rested. But, unfortunately, in addition to positive emotions ... and brought lice. Panic seized me serious daughters hair is very long, trim them was very sorry. Last time I saw lice in his early childhood.

At the time, the means of this misfortune were very radical:.

Kerosene Dustov soap, cranberry juice, etc. Fortunately, none of these in my home was not, so I rushed to the computer to search for information, what to do. So I share your experience on getting rid of lice.

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First of all, I ran to the pharmacy. I bought just two funds, which the instructions are not only promised to remove lice and nits "pedikulen ultra" (450 p.) And "ful Marx" (a little more than 300 rubles). The first means is in the form of a spray (which seemed to me very comfortable), and the second was bought because of the excellent fine comb with metal teeth for combing.

Apply the product "pedikulen" spray on the hair turned out really convenient and economical: one bottle was enough for long thick hair below the belt. Choking from poison lice crawled upward, there were so many. The spectacle is not for the faint of heart. The smell, it should be noted, very busy, so it is best to spray in a ventilated area. Since by means of instructions can not be washed off for 30 minutes, we decided to remove the treated hair for pack.

Half an hour seemed like an eternity. During this time, we urgently charged with clothes and bed linen to the laundry, carried pillows and blankets on the balcony. It is important to remember that for greater efficiency to erase everything you need at a temperature no lower than 60 degrees, after drying things ironed with a hot iron. Bed and underwear, towels for the next two weeks changed every day for the whole family. Fear has big eyes.

Removed from the hair with a special package we disgust, washed with water and shampoo for a long time and thoroughly. Having dried hair dryer, started the most important step in dealing with head lice: comb. Armed with a magnifying glass, a lamp and a fine comb, I chose the hours of dead animals and tear off nits with hair. Fortunately, dark hair daughter all this mess was more noticeable than a few days on light hair son. All recovered I folded into a deep bank, so that no one accidentally survived in any case will not bailed out. After I closed tight jar lid and carried in a garbage disposal.

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Lice I imagined everywhere. In spite of all precautions, a few days later, I found my son lice. Knowing that restless glycol not survive 30 minutes with bag over his head, I decided to try to remain intact "ful Marx." This solution had to put your fingers on the roots of the hair, hold for 10 minutes. Hair became greasy after application, in order to wash it, it took a little more effort than after "pedikulena". In general, both agents with the task of getting rid of live lice handled, there was only the fight against nits. All my nights were the same: with a magnifying glass, a comb and a lamp above the children's heads.

Seven days, I thought only of lice. On the Internet, I shoveled a bunch of information, explore what they look like, how many live without a man, that fear, like breathing, in general, knew more about them than about some relatives. On the ninth day I re-processed head son and daughter means, as during this time can hatch new lice. Again I set about combing. It helped me to facilitate the detachment of nits and hair folk remedies: bay leaf and vinegar. A solution of water and vinegar and bay leaf infusion helps ease the so-called "glue" that attaches the nit to the hair, making it easier to comb process.

After three weeks, the children head smelled pungent mixture of bay leaves, vinegar, and special funds, but were absolutely clean.

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How we played a new doll

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In Uliana I had a birthday which she received a lot of gifts. In addition to clay, pupsikov and albums for drawing, she presented a new a new doll. It was a beauty Brier, the daughter of Sleeping Beauty. Juliana immediately "appoint" a new doll "mother friend".

Personally, I really liked the Brier beauty that made her whole body on strong hinges - that is, all the twists and turns, but it is fixed.

My daughter and I immediately came up with the puppet to arrange a dance contest and began to sew him a new member skirt!

For doll skirt we need a wide ribbon or bow, a common laundry and sewing machine gum.

We connect the ends of the rubber bands and belts, stitched by 1-2 millimeters to secure the thread. Then, greatly stretch the elastic and sew on a stretched rubber band. That will have a ribbon in the crease. Sews skirts the edge. And we put them to the future dancers.

Then we started an idea. Hare-entertainer presented artists and the audience began to gather.

Then Skipper was tired, and my mother with her friend - Barbie and Breyer, staged a fashion show.

In the end, all tired and decided to have a snack. Barbie and Skipper Brier invited guests. Mom went to cook on the table, Skipper decided to read a book, and Breyer helped in the kitchen - she took to bake an apple pie.

While my mother was washing dishes, Breyer and Skipper talked and discussed favorite fairy-tale.

In the evening came another guest, little princess unicorns, she brought the jam, and a little chat with friends.

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further development of the plot was a chaotic and unpredictable. Juliana and protection for dolls puts, and they went to bed, and went to work. I confess that I did not have time for it.

Summed up. Despite the fact that all Ulke 4 years, we have been able to enter the game "adult" dolls. She likes that there is "Mama", is the "daughter", and there are now "my mother's friend." She plays with them scenes from the life, and I track that is currently bothering the child. If the girlfriend "often" in the house, then I cancel my friends, and we hive read books, or more walk. If the "mother" is often punishes or goes to work - it is also a "signal" for me. And if everyone is ready to eat, go for a walk, talk, and play, in general, everything is quiet and peaceful, this means that in our real home - everything is quiet and peaceful. So - I'm doing the right thing, and my child is happy. That's such an unusual indicators I use in education.

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We care about pets

When children are a little grown up, I have dealt with the question "can establish mom let pets!" At first, I thought for a long time, but soon allowed.

Do not be afraid to be dirty and not cleaned, just need to prepare children. I will tell you our way, because no pets in the house all the same boring.

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For example, your child wants a cat.

We go to the store or to the old toy bag and looking like cat. Within two weeks, your child should pour toy kitty water, pour feed. To walk it, and this should be done on a daily basis! Together with your child, imagine that it's a real pet and let the future owner takes care of it. If a child will last more than two weeks, I think you should seriously consider buying a cat or other pet. Only the child is supposed to do without reminders parents. You can spend the experience with another pet. My all stretched.

Now you need to decide what kind of pet is right for you.

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Children can bring pets starting at 5 years old, especially if there is no older or younger brothers and sisters.

From 5 to 7 years, it is best to get a cat the most common breed of rabbit or turtle. Why only these? Many parents tend to guinea pigs, rats, chinchillas, hamsters, and some even buy degus or protein. No, this is wrong! I know from my own experience. Rats are afraid of small children and recognize only my older that 11 - 12 years. Hamster can escape, and guinea pig, and do bite. Chinchillas are very fragile, and degus, even adults, not all survive. Therefore, the best start for babies hardy and "strong" animals: rabbits are the calmest, most patient cat, a turtle seriously hurt, but if it is dropped, it can crack the shell, so that here, too, you have to be careful with the choice.

Children from 7 to 9 years old can already start small rodents or birds: hamsters, guinea pigs, parrots, just remain rabbits and cats listed. And some, especially the kids in charge - even small breed dog.

Children from 9 to 12 years are ideal all pets. So you can not refuse and start all animals, including the long-haired cats, the main thing that no one in the family was not allergic to animals or feed.

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Let your house be pets! The child should know and be able to look after our smaller brethren! Good luck!

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How to teach a child to eat their own

I have three children. When the second son was born, the eldest was only 1 year and 3 months. I fed him with a spoon, and sometimes it was not easy, since it is often necessary to feed the children at the same time. But it was necessary and very eat. So I had an idea how best to organize our comfortable breakfast, lunch and dinner.

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The eldest son Andrew for about a month showed an active interest in cutlery. And the next morning I set him a bowl of porridge and put it next to a spoon. Son is very surprised and even delighted - finally! I sat next to him, and by example, began to show how to use a spoon. I am gaining porridge tray spoon to his mouth.

Of course Andrew was still small, and more carried on a plate with a spoon, but something nevertheless fell into my mouth, I had breakfast quietly and peacefully on my lap slept little Vanya, after eating enough mother's milk.

Each time, Andrew turned to gain food better and better, and after 1.5 months, he completely mastered this skill.

Exactly a year my second son refused to order to be fed. Few doubt, I still gave him a spoon. Ivan has been easier to learn to eat, because the example of my older brother and always before his eyes. As a result, in 1 year and 1 month child has learned to eat, and the first and second!

Now my pearls, Nastya is 1 year old and 4 months, and already 2 months it eats itself.

Of course, kids at that age are spoiled, and I often have to wipe the floor in the kitchen after a meal, but the happy faces of children self-worth.

There are several points on which I would like to write more:

I gave the baby plate and spoon and watched;

If typing in a spoonful of food turned out not very good (especially at the beginning of schooling), I took his hand with a spoon in his movement and showed - scoops up with him;

Since the beginning of my training, I stopped to feed the baby with a spoon, that is, the kid was counting only on themselves. Naturally, in the early to accustom little that gets in your mouth, but then we rescued a bottle or a mixture of the chest.

teaching kids how to eat on their own

Some mothers and grandmothers give the child a spoon, and at this time do feed it to another. I think this is not a good idea, since the child is not just familiar with the new device, but get used to play with him. And we have a completely different purpose.

What not to do:

Do not feed your baby the second spoon;

Do not include cartoons while eating;

And, perhaps most importantly, if the baby does not work, never takes his spoon with the aim to fill it with the most!

By the way, when my middle son Ivan learned to eat alone, grandmother happened took up his spoon and finish feeding him herself. And then he just refused to eat up what was left on the plate - a principled kid.

So, all my suns learned to eat themselves peacefully and happily, and what you want!

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Be warned orthopedic problems

It's no secret that in our time orthopedic problems more and more. What is the reason? Perhaps with the environment, a lack of vitamin D and calcium. But many mothers prefer to deal with already obvious problems, ignoring prevention. Of course, most mothers are smart, experienced, and do it all for a long time know, but someone may my advice useful.

So, let's begin.

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Prevention torticollis:

Always turn the baby in different directions;

You can put on your stomach with weeks of age;

Feed your baby from two sides, that is, it must be put into different hands when feeding;

If you still have a tendency to any party - often turn the head to the affected side (where the child is less likely to turn his head);

Take charge: Put your baby on his back, his head hanging over the table, holding her hands, make 15 turns in the direction of the patient, and 5 healthy;

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Stroking the affected side during the day.

Prevention of flatfoot, valgus, and so on. P .:

From about 2 months begin to use when charging ordinary kitchen rolling pin. Baby lying on his back, and you are following in his footsteps Kata rolling pin. The more, the better. Skalka - a great massage!

From the moment a child is confident stood on legs, invites him to walk on the orthopedic pad (the smaller the bulge, the better to begin with);

Draw your finger on the baby's foot eight, seven and pinch the outer arch of the foot, gently rub the inner vault;

Teach your child to lift your toes off the floor small items;

Play feet in Okay.

I hope someone will be useful to my advice.

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Like many children her mother to be well-groomed and beautiful

The experience of motherhood I have an extensive, I have four sons. The first - the same age, 8 years later, I gave birth to a third son, and after 4 years, the youngest was born.

In fact, to always look decent, helped me and helps so far - my way of life. I'm not a second is not sitting idle. I work as a tutor of English and did not stop training either during pregnancy or after the baby's birth.

Of course, everything in moderation, so as not to deprive attention favorite.

Also every morning I drink a cup of your favorite coffee with vanilla, always an open window - it energizes the whole day, though, regardless of the weather outside!

Then feed the baby after feeding we do light exercises under the cheerful music of an old tape recorder.

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In the summer, along with 4 children, with thirteen, twelve, four-year and four-month sons go early in the morning on the lake in 22 km from the city, take a swim.

What are the measures to preserve the beauty I take? Everything is very simple! I like to pour cold water, though it turns out irregularly. Also, a huge result gives, rubbing the face with ice cubes.

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And the most important thing is to always look fresh - this is a good mood, but, of course, will not prevent accurate and comfortable clothing. This is necessary even if you are at home all day, when tired, and seemed to force themselves not at all.

All I wish to be loved and beautiful - the good, it is in our hands!

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If a child eats only persuasion.

If your child eats only a persuasion which means that at some point you are force-fed him. By force - it does not mean that you have it connected, which means that when the baby was small, very small, the mother is not focused on the baby's appetite.

Very often mothers, especially with the first child the question arises - how much should eat baby at a certain age.

Of course, there are age-related norm, but there are still - especially in children of appetite, someone half portions are missing, and someone was full and a half.

If mom focused on age norms, even heated, grandmother, "he quite thin you," the mother seeks supplementary feeding your baby to "normal", in that at all costs. Songs, dances with a tambourine, cartoons, toys, anything, to feed the baby. First, the process is fine, the baby being distracted by a fun show, obediently opens his mouth. And then smaller portions, and entertainment should be more.

To avoid this, beginning to give the lure a child, create conditions for him to meals, it means that the baby should be focused precisely on eating. Turn off the TV, music. Feed your baby until he opens his mouth, it does not matter what he ate less laid "normal", healthy baby he knows how much he needs food and the hungry will not stay.

If you still think that your treasure ate very little, do not worry, for lunch or dinner the baby be sure to "eat up" your rate.

But if it so happened that you were in a situation where a child has grown up, and you still feed him only with persuasion. What to do?

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To begin to understand that a healthy child will not starve yourself, as it may make mothers for a wasp waist. So, you need to analyze, and even, at first, to write down what and how much your child eats for a day.

Besides feeding force, the problem may be to eat. Bagels, drying, biscuit, bread, candy - all these cute, small, tasty snacks, are able to fight off the appetite of the child for the whole day. At the snack is better to give your child fruit - apple, plum, peach, in general, that you have for the season.

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it is desirable to organize the main meal as follows:

Pose in front of the baby plate, if the child is more than a year, then you give him a spoon and ... sit down to eat next! At first obtained your offspring will not be much, but "hunger is not my aunt," and very soon you will be surprised that the baby eats itself and it does not need to persuade.

The worst thing that you have to clean up everything at first, but that "no gods pots" with time, and your child will learn to eat neatly.

If a child is not a year, and to have it early, starting to feed your baby, be careful. Even if you think that the baby ate a little, if the child starts to turn away or no longer open his mouth, he had enough means and should not be longer spoon!

I hope that you will help my experience and your child soon, please begin your healthy appetite.

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Guilt moms

#ENDMOMGUILT - The struggle is real

What is written about the relationship of the spouses before and after the baby is born, how often on forums, in magazines, in various print media discussed the topic of the relation of the older child to the younger, how to help avoid or minimize the firstborn jealousy to a small member of the family. There are many useful tips on how to survive the woman postpartum depression, but there is little information on how to cope with feelings of guilt in relation to the older children after a second birth.

Previously, the "default" it was considered that a woman, after learning of her pregnancy should only feel happy, joyful emotions. But in fact, a woman experiences different range of feelings and emotions, and it is not only the happiness and the joy of "interesting situation." A large number of emotions based on the various fears and feelings, which are to blame raging hormones, and this depends not only on the account of a baby wearing mom. Most certainly women are concerned about the health of the baby, how the process will proceed childbirth themselves, if all goes well, well, some looking in the mirror, are distressed about their figure. But with the birth of first child, many negative emotions forgotten, smoothed unpleasant moments.

Time passes and there comes a "take two", but we are not caught with chaff, we mothers experienced all know, everything ready. Surprisingly, however, it appears that the second child is completely different, it is not like the first, it is necessary to learn all over again, all over again to learn. No, I'm not talking about everyday matters, although they, too, not least, we should remember how to swaddle, how to feed, how to bathe, but to adapt to two very different temperament to children in the early stages can be difficult and mothers is strongly unsettles . My mother remembers that the first-born of hours in the morning woke up at 5 - 6, ate and went back to 9 am, but the second child does not want to sleep until 9 am, it starts at 6 am walk with singing and "dancing." Some adjust to the children, are the forces on both babies, love them the same way. However, there is a category of women who develop internal contradictions, some moral conflict when one side they chafe at the older child for various reasons, but on the other hand they tormented sense of guilt when they are afraid of him nedolyubili, nedolaskat, nedodat maternal warmth . Like a child it is a pity, because it is a day spent in the kindergarten or school, and in the evening we can not give it time because we seizes life, cooking, cleaning, baby who then stomach, the teeth, that is, wants to sleep . On the other hand it irritated, as the eldest child speaks loudly and actively plays, sings, cries over nothing. Moms who are faced with this, seem to themselves literally monsters.

Before you rush from one extreme to need internal "talk" this problem. Here we must decide what we want to see the result: the good and friendly relations between the brothers - sisters, mum and mutual understanding between the first-born or dead-end, complex relationships between close relatives. Very scary happens when the mother pushes her eldest child, paying attention only to the youngest. Mom may not notice that in one and the same offense gets older more than younger. It creates jealousy between brothers and sisters, the internally indignation: "But what about me, about me, forgot something!" Sometimes women think that the first-born, and indulges more, and does not listen, ape, hysteria, all makes for evil, respectively, it is the child begins to learn to do it constantly comments and as a result, the accumulated irritation spills on the "culprit." Many people will say with confidence that still harbor resentment against their parents for such an attitude to him as a child. And it is worth it just to look at her baby, understand what the child is 4 - 6 or even 10 years is still a child. Parents need to accept that you gave birth to the second, the third child for themselves, so do not expect that your first-born from the first minutes will begin to love the baby unfamiliar to him. Little by little, week by week, month by month, and imbued with the senior to the younger, will love him, and to engage in play, you help, only this time is necessary. You may feel that the older child has changed, but in fact changes have occurred to you: physical, psychological, hormonal. That you've changed and your child is not, how it was so and left.

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I was so with the birth of the third, the difference between it and the older was 9 and 6 years respectively. With the advent of infant children were once grown, it seemed to me that they should be more self-reliant, independent, I start them stricter control, patronize, hugging. It lasted about a week 2 - 3 after birth, but one day, looking at them, I realized how wrong I was, in fact they are still kids. Therefore, I decided for myself that as long as the baby does not require much attention, I will try to give free time for older children. We often sat way, talking, something Master, read books, they hugged the three of us could just lie on the bed and talking, in general, do what you do before the birth of her third child. Did you have a sense of guilt in front of children and how you cope with it?

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If your child is greedy

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Why children are greedy? The thing of course in education. I know that every parent says to the child that you need to share. But it does not always bring the desired effect.

Remember: if you want your child to be generous, be themselves such. No, keep buying expensive toys are not necessary. Just promise baby to buy the same, only much better, but a little bit later.

In this case it is not necessary to mention the price, otherwise your child will understand that you are greedy.

Tips from me:

Promise to buy what the child wants, and make a promise to the extent possible.

Do not tell your child that you can not buy this thing because of its price.

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Explain to the child with the help of a fairy tale or story, why it is important to be generous.

Never argue with someone for money at the child. Especially if you are going to point to the opponent's profligacy.

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I hope my advice somehow help you.

Thank you for attention!

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Two simple means to care for lashes

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Hello Dear girls and women!

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I would like to share with you a tool for the growth of cilia. The fact is that before I stepped up the cilia themselves, and once came to the master, after work is my lashes looked like "fence" - half cilia just died.

Now they advertise a lot of money for the growth of eyelashes and eyebrows. Unfortunately, they are not cheap, so I decided to use folk remedies. To help the two oil came to me. Every time I washed the ink does not soap or cleanser and tonic, and almond oil - moistened cotton ball to them and wipe his eyes. And in the evening, before bedtime, apply castor oil on the lashes. It's very simple to do: moisten with oil clean and dry brush for mascara or a cotton swab and apply to the cilia. These oils can be purchased at any pharmacy and they are reasonably priced, in our pharmacy it cost me about 50 rubles each.

I can say that they really helped me - my lashes become longer and thicker, especially noticeable if to make up their ink.

Perhaps useful to you my advice. All a pleasant day.

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Ship for pirate birthday

Birthday we went, and was very fun, and I continue to spread the activities that can be arranged for a pirate party. For one of the tests specified in a pirate card, we needed a ship. Its something we did

You will need:

Cardboard, I used 2 boxes, which are glued together;

I also adorned it with colored paper, you can decorate anything, cut buoys, bell anchor, nose shape;

Stationery knife;

Adhesive tape and glue.

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For team captain hook will need:

Several cans;

Scraps of fabric;

Cereals, for example, peas or barley, either inexpensive, or you do not eat, but you have

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Sewing machine or needle and thread;

Pictures with images of pirates, I cut of colorings;

Paper adhesive tape and glue.

The essence of competition was the fact that the children take turns throwing bombs at the "enemy" ships and shoot down all enemies. According to the principle of the game in the "towns".

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Make a ship. It's just important to keep the child away while using a knife. Ulyana I drove away in the far corner of the room, because it was very interesting, and she climbed under the same blade. She gladly helped him to paint and glue waves.

Then sew the bags of barley - live ammunition.

Sew shred bag;

To turn out on the front side, pour into grits, not so much that it was not difficult to throw away;

Gently roll up the remainder of the edge;

And sutured.

The size, they get about 10 to 10 centimeters.

Cans I laundered, papered with paper tape, taped on top of gang hooks image. They can then invite children to paint, but my did not want to, and played with them since.

We get a very fun game. After use in this game, the bags we use in other game - throwing at a target and we will remake jars in pencil holders, as advised girls in the comments to the council "Cottage pencil holders." But that's another story ...

What happened in the end:

After all tired of throwing projectiles, I gave the kids crayons and markers, and they began to paint the whole ship. In my opinion, it was the most exciting and interesting job for them and Juliana refused to dress in pirate garb, and was a princess pirates.

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How to wean a child swearing

The eldest daughter learned about the nasty words, when she was about three years old. My panic was no limit. I was so stunned that I could not utter a word. Consider and weigh all their actions, I decided that at this point it would be better to ignore her words. Indeed the words that brought in his speech lease, have ceased to sound.

Everything would be fine, but grew up middle daughter Masha, who started to express.

I tried to ignore them, having a positive experience. But something from the middle daughter did not work. Word began to accumulate and turn into a snowball. Why have not I tried, she said that "so speak only bad uncles", he threatened that, if it be so expressed, it is not one to play ... and many, many more of various persuasions. All in vain.

I limit my patience came when Mary once said, "Mom you are not a fool, you are my good." Inside, everything is turned upside down, seething and boiling with rage.

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At such moments it helps me through. You think to yourself to 10 and have time to think about its future action. Cry because you will not achieve anything! This time, their anger calmed down somewhere in the thirties. They sat down to discuss with her whether she knew the meaning of the spoken words, and I was very upset. Mary apologized, said it would no longer say that. I calmed down, and in vain. A week later, the same thing happened.

After reading a lot of information, how to behave, if the child swears, my husband and I started, of course, himself. They began to control it - it's the first thing you need to do.

But most of all I liked the method that for every profanity you need something to fulfill: to learn a poem or perform physical exercise.

Gathered together in the evening, we discussed what to do and how to be "so bad and harmful words more in our family not zahazhivali". In our case, the exercise helped. Each follow each other, who will say something bad, he should 20 times - push-ups or sit down, or perform the slopes. But not less than 20 times. Regardless of the location of the children did the exercises. Less than three months, as a child it was cleared.

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Take care of the Russian language, it is so versatile. This keep telling their children that stopped swearing.

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How to choose a toy for a child

Hello, I want to tell you how to choose a toy for your child. This article is for those who want to choose a toy as a gift or just want to give her a good toy crumbs.

On the shelves a huge selection of toys, they do not get confused and do not buy a toy with which a child will then play. Children are often affected by bright advertising - a child can ask for a fashionable toy, even if he does not like himself.

I advise you, before you buy a child a toy next, ask him how he would play with her.

So, what should be a good toy:

How to choose the right toys for your child

Quality.

For a young child is to take high-quality toys, expensive, made of natural materials or having a certificate. Most toys are imported, but among domestic also have decent items.

older children, it is necessary to explain that it is better to buy a nice and expensive toy, than a lot of poor quality - cheap. I recommend to buy toys for children in large stores.

Brightness.

I have noticed, if you buy a baby gray or brown toy, the child a toy to play less. Children prefer bright toys. Of course, choose a range of natural, iridescent shades, not bright fluorescent colors, they can be tired from the eye.

Functionality.

Dolls worth taking hinge and robots - transforming, choose machines with opening doors, trunk. Children of any age interested to learn, open, twist. Often the dolls in the set there are several dresses, dress or one turns to the other, are subject to change hair.

Do not be afraid of monsters.

Many parents are afraid to fly "terrible" toys. I believe that no matter what it looks like a toy, but it is important as a child plays with it. My Children with such play, just as with conventional but not buy these toys to 6 years.

The toy should be taught.

For example, there are the dolls that you can dye your hair, paint on clothes - it develops design skills. There are play sets for creativity, I advise you to buy their baby. Different sets of beads, puzzles, even kits to create handbags.

But not all toys are taught good.

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Once I saw the advertisement of such toys. It is a soft interactive monsters, the goal of the game with him - hit him harder and see what happens. The harder you hit it, the more he responds. I think this toy teaches the child to violence. After these games the child can begin to beat the other children to see their reaction. I do not recommend to buy such toys.

Follow my advice and you will pick up their children than best friends!

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Preparing for the new school year

When her daughter graduated from the first class, I sighed with relief: this year we got a lot of new knowledge. Moreover, this knowledge was new not only for children but also for me. One could easily say: "We lost the habit."

Our family summer vacation to think in advance of the child, so that the holidays have benefited. In June, a sports camp in July - sanatorium, August decided to hold the family together.

In the Urals, the summer is not set initially, so we replaced with a swimming trips. We climb to the "seven brothers" rocks, learn archery, boating on the local islands, "stone", "cap", "bloody Strait", went into the woods to pick berries and mushrooms, as well as select with tents camping for a few days.

But the summer has flown by, and again, "Hello, school, second grade."

Our school preparation started two weeks before the study. In what does it consist?

Firstly, this entry in the "school" day mode

Awakening necessarily 7-00. Morning baby should begin with gentle words, pats on the back, let the child will be pulled, even luxuriate in bed before getting up. During the school year, when every minute counts, mom can get nervous for any violation of the schedule. In this case, the Service will: put it on five or ten minutes earlier, even become a familiar ritual of awakening is not broken.

Breakfast must be hot and fairly dense. My children are very fond of buckwheat, cheese sandwich and sweet tea.

Activities: repetition of material, learning the multiplication tables, reading. In the last days of vacation we attach to it two hours.

Dinner.

Stroll.

View cartoons, like classes (painting, sculpture, drawing words). In short, free time.

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Dinner.

Collection of toys in boxes, covered discussion of the day.

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Sleep. For schoolboy sleep duration should be 9 - 10 hours. It is important that the child is always went and got up at the same time, so we try to put in 22-00 have a child.

Second, is the preparation of educational and office supplies.

Together with our schoolgirl we chose the day and devoted his purchases. On this day, we bought everything you need. Having examined the shopping, wrapping and signing notebooks we finally put together a portfolio. Prepared form bows chosen from a variety of options picked up her hair. And calm down, show off in front of a mirror.

Third, is the choice of the bouquet.

For younger students bouquet is very important. This is not only a gift to the second most important person - the teacher, but also a way to hide, if you really worried and scared. In addition, a bouquet of September 1, has long been a good tradition. And a bunch - it's just beautiful.

And, of course, seeing the summer.

As a family, we remembered and discussed how spent the summer, tried to make up a story and beautifully recorded and it issued. I chose my daughter pictures and complemented them her memories.

Beginning next school year - is another shazhochek child not only the stairs of compulsory education, but also to adapt in society. Try to encourage a child's initiative and pride in the growing independence. Of course, painful to watch as a child of departures from the care, but now begins a time when we, the parents, too, have to learn to "share" your child and accept the fact that it is influenced by other people.

Do not forget to love your baby, be sure to praise him for his success, and do not blame for failures.

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Lose weight at home: a personal experience

Hello!

You could say that I was "an experienced mom" - my son is 1.5 years. How is it that time flies! I want to dedicate my post overweight faced by many women after childbirth.

To begin with, it is necessary to begin to engage in only when you have no medical contraindications. I started when my son was 3 weeks.

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So, let's begin.

The first thing you need to do - is to warm up: run, jump, catch up, or push-ups a few times. It is also useful to recall the "school" exercises.

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Exercises for abdominal muscles

"Plank"

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Initial position as in push-ups - hands directly below the shoulders, buttocks, stretch, draw the belly. So you need to stand for 2 minutes, if it's too hard - this time to break a few approaches.

"Support"

We find strong support - leg of the couch, armchairs. Lie on the floor, his hands grabs the leg, lower back pressed to the floor. Raise and then drop the legs. Important: omit feet not touching the floor. Do this exercise 20 times.

"Feet on the anvil"

Lie on the floor, legs throws on the sofa or chair at an angle of 40 degrees. Getting rock press. In this severing blades, and do not touch their sex. Perform each exercise 20 times.

Exercises for buttocks

"Squat"

Squat, legs apart at shoulder width.

"Chair"

This is my personal secret exercise: stand up against the wall, it is pressed against the blades and start sliding down the wall, touching her back, like "sit on an invisible chair." Sat, sat so for about a minute - I'm not yet be weak legs. This exercise works not only the muscles of the buttocks, and thighs - that is, we kill two birds with one stone

Exercises for the chest

"Push ups"

Perform can kneeling push-ups when you can cross my legs. Do 5-10 times.

About water

And once again about the water: it is necessary to drink water. Other fluids, such as tea, soup, juice, coffee, are not considered, and only hurt during a workout. Drinking need at least two liters.

About nutrition

During training, I want to eat a lot, and all at once. I recommend foods rich in carbohydrates - sweets, chocolate, biscuits, use up to 12.

Less flour, sausages.

One last tip: in the morning, on an empty stomach, drink a glass of water and eat a normal breakfast, not earlier than after 20 minutes. It is better to do so before each meal. After the meal, you should not drink 30-40 minutes, then you can drink tea, preferably green, without sugar.

All the exercises I have described on the basis of personal experience. Before pregnancy, I was 57 kg, he has gone to give birth with a weight of 68 kg, now I - 50 kg with height 164 cm The latter has lost 5 kg through these exercises and the water continues to improve.!

Take 20 minutes of time for myself, and I know you will succeed. Believe in yourself!!!

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Ideas first birthday celebration

Every day of life is unique, every birthday is doubly unique, and only the first day of the birth of your baby - is a unique event that simply can not and should not be casually pass unnoticed.

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But not every young moms find time, effort and money for the organization of the grand celebration of the birth of the child.

These mandatory requirements of modernity, as a room decoration balls and streamers ready, buying cardboard caps for guests and cake shop with colorful figures of mastic, propose to add a piece of the soul as a "domestic preparations."

So, fans of handmade and simply creative people suggest a few ideas that will make this day a memorable one at the lowest cost. Just specify that all this she began to make about a month before the promised date, in fits and starts, when the children were asleep. But the result was worth it. And if you find helpers - all excellent.

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Wall newspaper or poster.

At first glance, banal nowhere, but if you include fantasy or internet (one at hand), you get a real "masterpiece of folk art", which after the holiday may be a long time to take its rightful place in the children's room as a wonderful wall decoration, or in the family archive, as a relic.

For example, I did a poster as a locomotive, locomotive and carriages cut out of cardboard. Instead of windows on trailers pasted pictures of the child at every stage of growing up, I wrote about the achievements of the baby in the period specified height and weight of the baby during this month.

A steam locomotive decorated ultrasound image (as an option - Photo Mom's tummy or photo from the hospital). Rather, members of the family to surrender to happy memories with you and will help in the creation of this wonderful record.

Wishlist.

On the wall in the nursery you can hang a large sheet of construction paper with the inscription. It's guests can write their wishes for a birthday or just a thought "in the subject."

This poster can be designed according to your desire, drawing, for example, a tree with large apples, in which were written wishes, we called it - "Wish Tree". You can leave a clean sheet, allowing guests to paint it.

By the way, after the feast of the result of collective work can be hung in the nursery, as a source of warm words and memories. In this case, there is an additional Wishlist feature: coming into the house, guests will be able to replenish it with new records for quite some time. So it is better to stock up on plenty of leaf.

The comic divination.

This is a simple and very inexpensive to prepare action will entertain guests and will present an element of variety in the celebration of the script. In various sources you can find several options for its holding. Here is one of the most simple and more or less neizbity.

Before putting the birthday book, pencil, dollar bill, a ball of thread, a head of garlic, chocolate, keys. Suggest your child to choose one subject from the subsequent interpretation of the election results: thread - long life, garlic - good health, chocolate - sweet life, the book - developed intellect, pen - developed creativity, money - wealth and keys - own house or a car. A set of objects and their interpretation can be changed to the extent of your imagination.

Letters to the Future.

Option for sentimental and patient. Parents and guests write on small pieces of messages in the future, destined birthday. For example, wishes, parting words. All this is sealed in an envelope, on which is written the date of opening. It can be a day of age the baby or for the impatient - a closer date.

Important conditions - reliably hide the envelope, but so that in the designated day to remember where it is the most "safe place."

Awards will find heroes.

Gifts, albeit small, nice to get everything. Your guests - is no exception. Younger guests will enjoy even the little things like a balloon. And for the older guests offer to organize a mock awards ceremony. It is logical to assume that each of you has come all possible assistance and moral support in the upbringing of the child, and therefore each can come up with the nomination, in which he - a clear leader. For example, "for the most fun games", "for the most interesting tales", "for the most entertaining walk" and the like.

Awards Production does not take much of your time. Take photographs of the nominee with the birthday shows, if not, suitable, and just a beautiful picture culprit celebration. To attach the selected photos ribbons, to be comfortable to wear on the neck of the nominees and make the appropriate inscription: the name of the category, date or other optional.

In order not to spoil the cherished photos and leave the opportunity in the future to insert them in an album or frame, the ribbon can be neatly sticking with tape to the back side or make them small frame of the paper, which is already fastened ribbons.

The inscription can also be done on the reverse side or on the paper strip by attaching it to the edge of the tape back side pictures so that the inscription on the front side has. The resulting award was presented by guests at the solemn music, accompanied by this action playful oration, as the "Oscar" ceremony.

Be sure that with a little investment of material and time resources, such awards ceremony no one indifferent, will be a very pleasant and unexpected surprise for all and be memorable.

A piece of good mood.

The holiday comes to an end. To "put the cherry on the cake good mood" and save the pleasant memories of the last holiday, each of its members, hang near the front door a piece of paper, decorated like those ads that the pasting on poles loose-phone numbers.

Text ads can be something like this: "bring a little bit of good mood" or "good mood to take away." And instead of separated pieces of telephone write nice phrase, such as "a bit of good mood", or draw a face funny. Each departing guest can take a small piece of the past and a holiday to remember it, carefully preserved among the most valuable things or accidentally come across it among the forgotten papers.

So from the time of our holiday has passed 2 years, and many of our guests still wear "pieces of good mood" in the recesses of his purse.

And finally, a bit of considerations and observations from my own experience. Do not try to invite especially young children - the same age your toddler. At this tender age, children very individual and specific mode of the day and organized to collect them at the appointed time at the appointed place is very problematic.

Even harder to take a motley crowd of younger guests, so that the holiday does not become a branch manger with continuous squealing, crying, feeding, diapers and other "charms". Otherwise, all your hard work and preparation, may remain undetected for a whole "rat race."

Especially in such a young age as a 1 year old children are hardly in dire need of the presence of friends, peers at his birthday party. An additional headache can be a children's menu. What to feed the little guests, so as not to cause allergies and other troubles? Or ask parents to bring the "Children's food" for children of himself?

About nutrition young birthday, of course you need to think in advance. Arm yourself with your favorite food jars and juice, cookies, fruit and other snacks favorite birthday boy.

Here I want to make a small "digression". I am totally against feeding children candy, cake with colored putty and cream and other "pleasures", the benefits of which even for an adult is very questionable.

From solutions of such "sensitive issues", I freed myself very simple. Invited only the closest people. Also parents are grandparents, grandparents, great-grandparents, aunts, uncles and godparents. The result was very good company.

If possible, the celebration is better to move to the territory of a cute café or restaurant, where you can also hang all of your workpiece. Then the preparation for the holiday for you not turned into a food marathon, and the finale - in the spring cleaning. The holiday will be a joy and not just the birthday guests, and my mother, and she really deserved it.

Merry you triumph!