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barbiesdollxo-deactivated202405

So I’ve been trying ageplay with a partner and I can’t seem to get into a little headspace. I really want to, but I feel like I’m approaching it the wrong way. I’ve been put into diapers and given a pacifier but at that point we both kind of blank on what to do next. Any tips?

This is a tough one! I think everyone’s way of getting into that special mindset is going to be different. Although I don’t really have a desire to get there anymore, when Boy and I used to switch it was very challenging for me to find that space - I think it probably only happened twice ever. Any number of things could affect this - for me, it was in large part because I didn’t feel comfortable being submissive and so I’d just resist any sort of space that felt too “babyish”; for my boy, it might be because he’s too distracted with his adult life, or because I haven’t properly eased him into it.

Here are some of our top tips for getting into little space beyond diaper changes and pacifiers:

Turn off or put away your phone, computer, etc. and have a dedicated space where grown-up life isn’t allowed (it certainly doesn’t need to be elaborate or permanent, just somewhere like your bedroom or a corner of your living room that you decide will be your “little zone”)

Get relaxed. We are all about starting scenes with something relaxing like a bath! Baths are ideal spaces for getting those little feelings flowing - bubble bath, tub crayons, toys, or even just regular soap can help you feel both calm and little. Boy always feels extra little when I take the time to wash him, so I encourage your partner to try this gently as a start to your play. Lotion also works well here - whether on its own or after a bath - have your partner gently rub some baby lotion on you and massage all of your cute lil self!

Questions! Probably my #1 way to get my boy nice and little is to ask him lots of very simple questions: “What color is your crayon?” “What kind of animal is that on your onesie?” “Is Batman a good guy or a bad guy?” etc. Have your partner gently ask you questions and listen intently as you answer. Then have them ask more! Silly questions too - the sillier the better!

“Help please!” is your new favorite phrase. Have your partner help you with even the easiest tasks. No taking off pants without holding Daddy’s shoulder, no walking to the kitchen without holding Mommy’s hand, no eating without your food being cut up for you, etc. You should get in the habit of asking for help whenever you can when you’re having some little time, so that you can reinforce for both you and your partner that you’re just itty bitty.

Play to your senses. Put on calming or playful music, maybe a favorite kid-friendly TV show or movie. Grab the coziest blanket you can find, extra points if you can find a soft plushie. Have your partner put you into some extra comfy pjs. Maybe have your grownup light a soothing-scented candle or even put a yummy-smelling batch of cookies in the oven. Dim the lights so that you’re feeling extra cozy.

Building on the above - physical touch is key! Cuddles, hair brushing, hand holding - touch your partner and have them gently touch you (assuming everyone consents!) to keep reinforcing that bond. My boy loves when I hold him and run my hands through his hair, or when we trace secret messages on each other’s palms. It’s relaxing, little-ish, and intimate in a way that - at least for us - encourages more of that soothing baby space.

Use your words. I mean this in two ways: one, even if it’s silly sounding, try to use little phrases and words, speak in a different manner, use a different tone - it doesn’t need to be babytalk, just something that indicates to both your partner and yourself that you’re little right now. And two - speak up, always tell your partner if something doesn’t feel right about the dynamic as you’re playing, or if there’s something you’d like to try or something you’d prefer not to do. Don’t feel bad if you guys try something and it’s not doing it for one or both of you - just speak up and then move on to the next thing you’d like to try!

cyborgsmanifesto

dealing with the worst case scenario

your condom breaks

you feel a lump on your breast

your friends are ignoring you

you’re stranded on an island

you got rejected by a crush

you get into a car accident

you got stung by a bee/wasp

you got fired from your job

you’re in an earthquake

your tattoo gets infected

your house is on fire

you’re lost in the woods

you get arrested abroad

you get robbed

your partner cheated on you

you’re on a ship that’s sinking

you fall into ice

you’re stuck in an elevator

you hit a deer with your car

you have food poisoning

your pet passed away

you fall off of a horse

you or your friend has alcohol poisoning

you have toxic shock syndrome

your house has a gas leak

4velitta4

I feel like this could be useful in my future

astrologypixies-deactivated2016

REBLOG THIS. I CANNOT STRESS HOW IMPORTANT THIS GUIDES ARE, BOOST THIS SHIT

sciencescribbler

THIS IS SUCH A USEFUL LIST OMFG

mommyandthemunchkin

He thinks he needs me….but I need him so much more.

I need his baby snuggles and rocking him in my arms while he is curled in my lap. I adore hisbsleepy eye rubs and the sweet Eskimo kisses before he drifts off to sleep. I crave the way he nuzzles into my shoulder, then goes limp as I scratch his head. I can’t live without the way he looks at me from behind his paci or hearing him say Mommy with his adorable little voice. My heart melts as he giggles when tickled or smiles when I kiss his tummy after a diaper change. I cherish giving him his bottle and listening to his little gulps and sweet shorts breaths between. His little side captivates my soul completes me as Mommy.

He thinks he needs me….but I couldn’t imagine not having him to love and care for. He brings joy to my life and leaves me feeling valued and appreciated. I love who we are together, in and out of the ABDL roles. I love you @mommys-munchkin forever my baby you’ll be ❤️

windelstolz

This is lovely ☺️

barbiesdollxo-deactivated202405

Hiiii! What's your favorite thing about being a mommy? And favorite things your baby boy does sometimes? And do either of you ever get stressed or uncomfortable at times? If so how do you usually handle it? *sorry if this is hard to follow*

Oh my gosh, I don’t think I could ever pick one thing I love above all the rest about being my boy’s mommy, but if I had to distill it down to a few favorite things, they would be:

The deep feeling of intimacy and comfort we both get from little tender moments, like running my hands through his hair, nursing, changes, and cuddles.

The incredible feeling of watching my boy succeed at his goals and kick ass in his vanilla life, and how proud his achievements make me (and how much he motivates me to do the same), especially knowing when he and I come together and no one is around, he’ll be my submissive sweet little angel and do whatever Momma tells him.

Hearing my big burly guy use babytalk instantly melts me into a giant Mommy puddle.

My favorite things my baby boy does are, again, too numerous to list - but a few of his cutest tendencies are:

Getting REALLY excited to talk to me about Batman

Readily sucking his thumb any time he’s encouraged to do so - even in his sleep

Bashfully asking for a diaper change while hiding behind his blankie

The cute little look of concentration he gets when he’s building a LEGO set

Grabbing my shirt tight when he’s in my arms, nursing

And of course we, like everyone, get stressed or uncomfortable sometimes. We try to cope with anxiety and stress by taking the best care we can of ourselves, which means plenty of water, clean food, exercise, and sleep, but it also means communicating clearly about our needs, to each other and others in our lives. We don’t keep secrets or hide our thoughts or feelings from each other, both in our vanilla and kink lives, meaning that when one of us feels uncomfortable about something, we are direct in expressing that.

Sometimes kink play can be overwhelming, so we always stop and talk to each other with love and respect if one of us indicates a level of discomfort with our play. If that happens, we will stop any action, allow ourselves to be physically comfortable (remove restraints, get a glass of water, turn on a fan, etc.), and when we are ready, we will communicate with each other clearly and express encouragement. I also find that touching our faces/foreheads together and giving lots of praise and reminders of love helps when either of us are feeling overwhelmed.

daddyiwantthis-deactivated20241

This is so perfect and cute 😭💕

Look what my mommy got me today!!! I know it's a little past Easter but she was trying to get it all ready still. I absolutely love it so much. I have the best mommy ever! Thank you @mommydom-stuff I love you!

lullabyvixie

Having a little with social anxiety means

Having your little look at you with a panicked expression when they’re asked what they would like to order.

Constantly holding your littles hand and rubbing their hand with your thumb to keep them calm in public.

Helping your little make doctors appointments or giving your little pep talks to make doctors appointment because they’re afraid of talking on the phone.

Seeing your little go from bouncy and talkative to shy and quiet the second you leave the house.

Reassuring your little every time they think someone looks at them funny when you’re in public.

Taking the lead in conversations with new people so your little doesn’t have to strain themselves.

Taking long period of time to help your little relax and calm down after being around a lot of people.

Watching your little at social events and looking for queues that they’re in an uncomfortable position or need to leave and be alone.

Being patient with your little and encouraging them and supporting them and being as reassuring as possible. Littles with any kind of anxiety need lots of patience and reassuring, especially when they’re anxiety revolves around other people.

mermaidsandsippycups

These are so very important and I feel like all care givers should understand and be ready to help with these things.

owivizzle-deactivated20190829

God I really wish carrying stuffed animals around with you was socially acceptable

mitch-that-bitch

I don’t mean to take over a post, but I actually did a project on this for my sociology of deviance class in college!

I carried a large stuffed rabbit whenever I went in public for about a week to observe the reaction of others. The point of the project was to do something harmless yet unusual to see if the action would be considered deviant, in which case someone had to try to correct or shame the behavior.

Long story short, nobody tried to correct my behavior. I was asked about it casually, had a few lingering stares thrown my way and when I was with my boyfriend, shop employees would direct questions to him instead of me. However, nobody refused to assist me when I was alone in a store, nobody said anything about the rabbit besides “oh, thats a cute bunny!” and I attended college classes without even a teacher questioning it.

In conclusion, it is socially acceptable to carry a stuffed animal, its just not a societal norm. ^^

nerdgasrnz

#for followers with a big anxiety or self hate problem #bring a friend with you (via @kingdom-for-muses)

fur-bies-deactivated20171221

How To Immediately Put Me In Little Space

♡ Stop me in the middle of what I’m doing and do it for me

♡ Start a surprise bubble bath for me and throw in a sparkly bath bomb

♡ Get me a toy while you’re out and give it to me as a surprise when you get home~

♡ Ask the notorious “Do you wanna go to your little space, baby?”

♡ Ask me what color something is

♡ Bring me a full sippy or bottle of juice when it’s fresh out of the dishwasher

♡ Bandaid me as soon as I get hurt, no matter how small the scrape is

Well I guess this is it😭

Well I guess this is it, I am truly going to miss this site after tonight. I really hope that Tumblr comes to realize that this is going to be a huge mistake. Sadly until then we'll have to figure something else out and make due until something new comes around but untill then I hope everyone has a good week and here is to see you all on the other side.

honedperfection

December 17th - a rescue plan

Some good news, I’ve been talking to two developers now and got them working together, we just had a meeting with the guys behind an existing large (millions of users) site similar to Tumblr, with a vibrant and open-minded community, and more importantly, it has open-minded owners who believe in free speech. They think we can get something done here to rescue the whole community.

I’m not allowed to reveal the site name yet. I can tell you it’s mainstream, open to everyone, open-minded and welcoming. (It’s not WordPress or any site owned by Facebook or Twitter. It’s not Pillowfort, that’s in closed beta. It’s not Ello, that’s mainly for artists. It’s not kinkspace or fetlife, those are too specialist. It’s not jux, that seems to be closed. It’s not Soup, that seems still in development and too small.)

One of the reasons for delaying the announcement for next few days is they don’t want a “land grab” where people take the names of current popular Tumblr users over there (cyber squatting). So they are looking at ways for existing Tumblr users to keep the same names on the new site.

More info over the days to come.

The plan is, broadly:

1. By December 9th, announcement of the new site and how to secure your username there

2. By December 10th, an online tool for bloggers to copy their existing content to the new site automatically, with the same tags and captions.

3. Bloggers will need to copy their content across between December 10th and December 17th if they want to use the automatic tool.

4. My understanding is that after December 17th there will be no public access to any “flagged” posts on Tumblr, but the original poster will still be able to see the flagged post (for a short time at least). Therefore, the original poster may still be able to manually download a post to their own PC or phone, after December 17th, and manually upload it to the other site. But if you have lots of posts that will take a long time, it will be better to use the automatic tool before December 17th.

Please understand that these dates are approximate and may change for technical or other reasons.

There may be a few rough edges or not so perfect looking site design on the transfer tool. Everyone is doing their best. The main goal here is to help as many people as possible preserve access to their content, in the short space of time Tumblr has allowed us, and preserve as much as possible of the Tumblr community spirit somewhere new.

The new site will cater for photo, GIF, text and html posts. It will not offer video and audio posts, due to cost reasons - maybe in future, but for now you will need to preserve video and audio content yourself in some other place.

If your Tumblr blog has a mixture of original content and reblogs, or all reblogs, all of that can be copied over to the new site. Reblogs will become “your” original content if nobody else posted them yet, otherwise they will be shown as reblogs. The devs are looking at ways to preserve attribution of reblogs back to the original Tumblr poster, if that person also moves to the new site.

Important: your Likes cannot be copied from Tumblr to the new site. You will have to go find the same posts again on the new site, and like them afresh.

(Similarly, existing reblog comments, asks, messages and other user interaction on Tumblr cannot be copied to the new site - that’s just too much to do, in the short time available.)

If you want to preserve any of your existing Liked posts on Tumblr, you will need to either: (1) download the post to your own PC, or: (2A) reblog it now to your own Tumblr blog, and then (2B) use the automatic tool, before December 17th, to move your whole Tumblr blog across to the new site.

If you have Liked a lot of posts here on Tumblr, the gridllr.com webapp should be able to help you do steps 1 and 2A quickly, I mean download or reblog.

(Someone complained to me today about the appearance of Gridllr on a phone. It’s best to use Gridllr on a PC, Mac or Tablet with a large screen.)

If you have liked a post here on Tumblr and the original poster decides to delete it, or even to delete their entire blog, some time before December 17th, then that post will be permanently lost. So if you want to be sure to preserve any of your Liked posts, you should best download or reblog as soon as possible. If it’s reblogged to your own blog it is safe from deletion, at least for next few days.

Obviously, you will lose access, after December 17th, to all past posts you have liked, if Tumblr has flagged them as NSFW. Again, the steps (1), or (2A) and (2B) covered above will be the only way to hold on to these posts.

magnoliastorm-deactivated202007

This looks promising 🤞