not your mistress.

call me lady. 19 • NYC • she/her

[ladylike-dominance]

is anyone still on here i fucking hate twitter

[ladylike-dominance]

mutuals - comment or dm me your twitters and i’ll follow you!

[ladylike-dominance]

hey folks - in light of the tumblr purge you can find me on twitter @ladylikedomme. i haven’t posted anything yet since i’m still setting up shop, but i hopefully will begin posting archived versions of posts from my past blogs!

[ladylike-dominance]

hey does anyone want to buy me nice lingerie

[cherryvelvetfemme]

i am such a service top … i want to please someone and give them everything that they want and more. i want to hear them try to say my name through broken moans and gasps. i want to make them tremble and shiver as i toy with every sweet spot of theirs. i want them to feel satisfied after we’re done… an absolute mess who can barely think and is still shaking

[gentlefemdomwoman-deactivated20]

Dear men who may feel like “less of a man” or any sort negative emotions about truly enjoying being pegged/fucked anally:

Taking a dildo or real cock in your ass?

METAL. 👏🏻AS. 👏🏻FUCK.👏🏻

Think about it — regardless of gender, taking a dick in your butt takes a certain level of bravery, vulnerability, and trust. None of those things sound pathetic or weak to me. If you’re into shame/humiliation as a kink, that’s one thing. (I can understand, I’m into some of that myself.) But, beyond that, if you’re feeling really, truly ashasmed or embarrassed, I want you to know that you are fucking hardcore and awesome and many women (myself included) look upon men like you with stars in our eyes. We adore and respect you even more (not less) for loving to submit yourselves to us in such an intimate and trusting way.

Enjoy yourselves, without shame, my friends. 💕

[ladylike-dominance]

How'd you handle a session that's rapidly devolving into gigglefits and puns?

Probably keep giggling and making puns while we continued. Sex is boring when you take yourself too seriously.

[gross-gay-ghost]

uhhhhhh want my boy sat in my lap wearing handcuffs so i can feel him up and suck on his neck and listen to him being a whiny baby

[mommymaxie]

Look at you darling, you’re a sweet mess, aren’t you? Lips kiss bitten red, eyes glazed and dazed. What do you want sweetheart? Want to grind against my thigh until you cum, moaning and begging like the sweet little slut you always are for me? Do you want me to wrap my fingers around your throat and hold you down until everything’s woozy and you’re right in the cusp of cumming? 

Oh, do you think you deserve that baby boy? You think you deserve to cum like that, cum for me? Yes? Well then, prove it darling. Show me what you want, talk me through it, and don’t leave anything out. I want to hear everything, baby boy. 

[ladylike-dominance]

How do you feel abt forced bi? Like the situation w two male subs but one or both of them is straight & only doing it to please you

i don’t like “forced” anything. if they’re not as into it as i am, for one reason or another, it’s a no-go.

[ladylike-dominance]

"It’s also transmisogynistic because it’s horribly degrading towards trans women- it turns them into a grotesque fetish, dehumanizing them and delegitimizing their experiences. " How? sissy shit is just crossdressing,crossdressing is not the same thing as being trans,sissy has nothing to do with being trans

i’m not getting into this fucking argument with you lmao i’ve already made my point of view very clear

[ladylike-dominance]

i wouldn't worry too much about it being hypocritical--the power dynamics and gender roles are totally different (a bit like how reverse racism isn't racism). female bisexuality is heavily fetishized, which is part of the whole conception that female sexuality is just performed for men. male bisexuality? pretty heavily stigmatized. i'm really glad some girls are into it--i've caught shit from a surprising number in the past over being bi.

yeah, i guess i just don’t want to make anyone else feel how creepy guys made me feel about being bi. no one should be fetishized for their sexual orientation. but i agree, bi guys definitely do not get enough love and appreciation! honestly i would absolutely love to date a bi guy, not bc of the whole gross fetishy thing but because he would understand my experiences a lot better than a straight guy ever could.

[ladylike-dominance]

YES I knew I remembered reading about your stage management work. Thought I was going mad. I’m an actor. So loving your blog was one thing, but then finding out we’re in the same industry? My mind almost exploded.

yay for theatre people! we’re a wild, kinky bunch.

[ladylike-dominance]

A bit hypercritical, but at the same time at least you understand where most males are coming from when they want two females to do that, what about a fetish you have?? What do you love to be called?? What do you think about findoms??

yeah i get where guys are coming from with it, which is why i can’t get too bothered by it - it’s mostly men that see bi women exclusively as a fetish that bother me. anyway...i’m not sure what i think about findoms. on the one hand, it feels kind of exploitative; on the other, if the subs are consenting to give money, and it turns them on to do so, i don’t see why it’s different than any other type of sex work. 

[ladylike-dominance]

What’s your top favorite kink you like that some of us may not know you’re into??

hmm, i feel like you guys know most of my kinks since i talk about them constantly. there’s one i don’t mention a lot, though, and that’s because i feel a little hypocritical for liking it - i love the idea of two male subs making out/fucking as a performance for me. but as a bisexual woman, i haaaaaate when male doms want female subs to do the same thing. maybe it’s because i’m not a sub, but it feels so slimy and fetishistic when male doms do it. but being on the other side of it is hotter than it should be.

[ladylike-dominance]

Do you like the idea of a man reading your tumblr while he's locked?

i prefer the idea of me actually saying the things i say online in person to a man while he’s locked.

[ladylike-dominance]

Hi daddy~

hi! ;)