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In one of the recent episodes of The Boys, The Deep pees himself out of fear and I haven’t stopped thinking about superhero omo/abdl ever since. You know you’re gonna spend all night on patrol and cant risk leaving the city unattended so you wear a pullup just in case. An alien on the superhero team (a la martin manhunter in the justice league) who disguises themself as a human but keeps having accidents because a human bladder holds so much less than their alien bladder(s?)… the rest of the team putting them in diapers whenever they have to be in a human disguise just in case. Or even just the classic “cant get the suit off in time” scenario. Superheroes hold (hah) so much potential for omo… i must start writing

ok someone in the boys writing room is sus bc this is not the first pee/age play/omo situation i have been informed of.

also diapered superheros sounds fun asf, especially in tight costumes. dav pilkey did beat u too it, though

badwetterme

Way ahead of you ;)

destinedfordiapers

ABDL and Relationships

So, this will probably be my least popular post ever, but here we go.

One thing I’ve noticed since coming here is that a lot of littles—most commonly with diaper boys, but certainly not exclusively—can really struggle to find relationships. This kink seems to be lonely in general, but especially for some more intense of you.

And as much as I thought it was probably because it can be a fairly unusual kink to integrate with vanilla partners, I don’t think that’s the biggest issue.

This may sound mean and unfair, but to be honest, it feels like a lot of you are your own worst enemy. At least on tumblr, so many of you cannot seem to respect the few mommies on here, sending aggressive DMs about your diapers and treating them like they exist to make you squirmy. And don’t get me started on the wannabe Daddy’s, you’re just as bad.

And even those who understand that women, Mommies especially, don’t exist to be their kink dispenser, often struggle with expecting Mommy to be the primary mover of the relationship.

This will sound especially bad, though I know there is far more variance than what I’m about to say. So do not take this in the most negative light.

But littles are inherently the most selfish subs that exist. They want to have their caregiver check and change their diapers, handle their emotions, control their bedtimes, food, and often sex lives.

Caregivers are expected to handle the emotional labor, most of the physical labor, and create a world where the little gets to enjoy pure bliss.

And that is not inherently bad. It’s not that Caregivers don’t want to give all that for the ones they care about!

The problem is when littles come to expect and demand that—and don’t believe they need to bring anything else to the relationship.

Certainly there are some caregivers that prefer to handle all that, but most people want to be in a relationship first with kink play second.

Based on what I’ve seen, I think too many diaper boys think primarily of what a Mommy/Daddy can do for them. They want a Mommy/Daddy first and relationship second. It doesn’t seem to me many think of what thy are bringing to the caregiver except a soggy diaper and demands.

Ask most women in this kink and they will tell you horror stories of diaper boys sending gross and demanding messages. I know that is not all of you—it’s not even most of you—but it still happens too often.

And even those who wouldn’t ever do that, just wait so their Mommy/Daddy in Shining Armor to find them and make all their diaper dreams come true.

I don’t know, I want everyone to be happy. But the longer I’m here the more I think so much of the loneliness isn’t necessary.

I know that I’m going to get a ton of “well, that’s not me!” and “Well, actually!” Most will not engage in what I’m saying or understand that I don’t think this applies to a ton of you.

enfanceoblige

it's a relationship with a dynamic, not a dynamic with a relationship.

when mommy and i started dating, we talked all this through, discussed expectations, and wrote that sentence at the top of the list.

what you all see here is a curated view of our life. this is where we talk about how baby i am and how much mommy does to take care of me, so that's what you see.

i get her flowers often.

we share the burden of household chores.

we both go to work.

we have Serious Adult Conversations all the time.

and while it's not often, we do have days where one of us says "not today" about our cg/l.

yes, she changes my diapers and i play with dollies.

i really dont do a lot of big things, and we consider me similar to a permaregressor where even when adulting im not really fully big anymore.

but it's still a relationship first.

asimpledom

Very much so, and it makes the relationship feel more whole~

We have those deep moments where we put down the play and discuss stuff, most recently was with my lil one being mushy~

We had issues to talk through, balances and compromises to find and its an ongoing process as we experiment to find the right balance~

And then on the angle of allllll the littles outs there who want a mommy or even a daddy.... im gonna be harsh for a second.... Don't. Don't put all that emotional weight on finding this special someone who will make everything nice and perfect. YOU and you alone can push you to do things you want.

You wanna wear more? Wear more!

You wanna feel like your choice is taken from ya? Get a timer lock safe and a locking diaper cover or get creative in some other way.

You wanna have a caregiver take care of you? Well.... do YOU take care of you?

A cg should only be a supplement to your already enjoyable kink experience. If its not fun without a cg, then look inwards to find out why and seek other solutions. Or hell... find kink groups on fetlife. But that's not an option for everyone

And please stop randomly messaging me calling me mommy, or asking for attention. I enjoy to tease littles, yes. But I also enjoy genuine conversations and making friends, im one person with a lot going on. I already have a full time little, and though we may be poly that doesn't mean my attention is free. I only have so much energy each day <3

lilcrinklybuddy

🧷50 diaper lover questions!🧷

How'd you find out you liked diapers?

How often do you wear diapers?

Do you use your diapers?

What do you use your diapers for?

Are you incontinent?

On a scale of 1 to 100, how much do you love diapers?

How long have you been wearing diapers for?

What's your favorite diaper(s)?

What's your least favorite diaper(s)?

Do you wear onesies over your diapers?

Do you wear diaper covers over your diapers?

Do you wear plastic pants over your diapers?

What type of clothing do you prefer to wear with your diapers?

What's your favorite thing to do while diapered?

What's something you hate doing while diapered?

Do you wear diapers to work?

Do you wear diapers to the doctor?

Do you wear diapers while working out or playing sports?

What's your favorite diaper print?

What's your least favorite diaper print?

If you could design a diaper print, what would it look like?

If you could design a diaper, what features would you give it?

If you could have a lifetime supply of 3 different diapers, which brands and types would you choose?

Do you prefer to wear medical or abdl diapers?

Do you prefer high, medium, or low absorbency diapers?

Velcro, or adhesive taped diapers?

Cloth backed, or plastic backed diapers?

Do you wear pull-ups at all? Do you like them?

Do you own underwear anymore? Or do you only have diapers now?

Have you ever had sex while diapered?

Do you wear diapers during sex?

Are diapers sexual for you?

Has anyone ever changed your diaper?

Have you ever changed anyone else's diaper?

Do you have a diaper bag? If so, do you bring it with you everywhere you go? What's in it? What's it look like?

Have you changed in public before?

Have you changed at someone's house before?

Does anyone know about your diapers?

Do you have any diaper lover friends?

Did you make changes in your life to accommodate you wearing diapers? If so, what?

Have you ever been caught wearing diapers?

Have you leaked your diaper in a bad situation? What happened?

What position do you like to change in? Standing, sitting, laying down?

Do you have a changing table?

Have you ever bought diapers from a real store? Was it embarrassing?

Do you own a swim diaper? Do you wear it to the pool? Do you have to wear it to the pool?

Do you use cloth diapers?

Have you ever tried to make your own makeshift diaper? What was it made of? Why did you make it?

What's something you DONT like about diapers?

What's something you've always wanted to do while diapered!?

Good Morning 2025

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badwetterd

Woke up like this today ☺️ feeling cuddly but also all 💦💦🙈

Could use some help with that 🥺😇🧚🏻‍♀️🦄✨

Meet the artist :-)

A little self portrait als little boy.

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badwetterme

With the new Bad Wetter Me comic still in the making, the advertisement department told me we should launch the celebrity endorsement campaign about today– so here it is!

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@diapergirlfaye

princescribbler

5 Common Misconceptions of ABDLs!

To be clear, these are common misconceptions ABDLs have, not common misconceptions ABOUT us ABDLs!

1. "My kink is so rare!"

Really? Because candidly, abdl, ageplay, and diaper fetishism intersect in a fascinating way. There are diaper fetishists who despise any form of ageplay or regression, there are ageplayers who get off on the Ageplay, or the diapers, or the humiliation, teasing, or any other aspect of the kink. And candidly, you can tell ABDL really isn't that uncommon when the communities that show up are this large and varied. Heck, there's entire communities on reddit with tens of thousands of abdls, and that's just one site (and not the most kink friendly space to begin with.) Add in the fact that many people are very embarrassed or worried about this kink and you've got an even better explanation for why it can FEEL very rare or isolating... but it often comes down to just being hard to find, at first!

2. "Nobody vanilla will accept me! They must all think I'm a freak" (or similar negative expectation setting)

Except.. they do, all the time, every day. I've personally avoided most vanilla relationships, but I know MARRIED abdl couples who started with one partner totally vanilla, and some of the biggest and most successful content creators in this space are well known for having partners not into ABDL.

Simply put, if you assume it'll go wrong and you'll be judged, your body language, words, and tone can be much more nervous and defensive and make your partner feel ill at ease. Try to not go in with negative assumptions!

3. "I have to find a caregiver to feel little!"

Uh... no you don't. Your kink might involve a partner, your desires might include one or more people around to care for you or dominate you or join you in diapered submission... but none of that means you can't enjoy still, and have a GREAT time. You can try to foster your own regressive or littlespace mindset, happily. And you don't need ANYONE else to enable that. If you're expecting that just having sometime else around will fix things, you're sadly incorrect! You need, at some level, to be comfortable enough to not just rely on EXTERNAL enforcement of your abdl side!

4. "I should get rid of [x] because I feel embarrassed/bad/upset!" (Or any similar variant of the binge/ purge mentality)

Binge and purge cycles happen, and can be very emotionally destructive. Try to instead put the object in storage instead of throwing it out, because often your emotional negative response will only get worse when you later regret it or judge your own reaction.

Try to give yourself the space to struggle, but don't just throw things away or destroy them if they're kink items... instead, realize you might feel differently later and give yourself the grace to be allowed to change your mind without any further fear or judgment!

5. "Everybody can tell if I'm padded/ little/ going out discretely!"

No they can't. I could stop there but truly let's consider this: you realize that incontinence is common... shockingly common. You've passed people in adult diapers, pull ups, discrete pads, you've likely even been in a room with another heavily diapered adult and NEVER realized. Because unless you're being obvious, have leaks, or make a point to wear very form fitting clothing, nobody will notice or likely even look! You're much less exposed than your brain makes you think!!

My point is this: be nice to yourself, and work hard to challenge those negative self talk moments that come up for so many abdls. Your interests and desires aren't as rare as you think, more people are ok with it than you realize, nobody can usually tell even if you are padded (and would be more likely to assume it medical than kinky even if they noticed), and struggling with this is normal too!

BE NICER TO YOURSELF: THAT'S THIS PAPI'S ORDERS! You don't deserve to feel bad about something that helps you feel good!

And as always; stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!

- Scribbler

oddy-the-wanderer

Worth having as a reminder. Will probably repost every few weeks!

Why you delete my asks about representation on people of color? 😔

Do you not plan to paint people of color?

Don't worry– didn't delete it, it's still there.

And I didn't forget about it. The next watercolors I'll do will definitely be more diverse, promised.

It's just that I'm busy with grown up stuff and grownup vanilla illustration…

Sorry for the long wait. I'm just a bit busy (but I'm easily motivated by commissions ;) )

Can you please do a comic that is based off of the tom and jerry episode baby puss. Where your boy character is Tom and your girl character (and maybe two more female characters) take the place of the teasing cats.

Sure, but again:

If any one of you has any fantasies they'd like to see in a comic-

Commission me! :)

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Was just now wondering, do you, or would you do any artwork that depicts messing in diapers, or implies it?

Yes, I would.

But my work is about my own fantasies.

If there's anything else you'd like to see, that would be a commission.

Message me for prices if you are interested!

Can you paint a black caregiver changing a white littles diaper?

This is what my relationship looks like and I don’t see it depicted much in the art world. I know there aren’t many interracial relationships in the abdl community, but we exist.

I love your art style and it would make my day!

Will do!

Fits perfectly wit two points that were already on top of my list:

More diversity, more changing scenes!