bagelbastard

[sailermoon]

I’m such a “yay <3” person like unironically a hip hip hooray type of personality

[cluts]

who cares?? me. so much

[flikkerij]

i will do ANYTHING but work on my essay apparently

[semutamusic]

[colonthreedotexe]

if you’re a certain level of tall as a trans woman people will start acting like they genuinely believe it’s ok to treat you like transmisogynistic futa porn is real life and you’re the futa

[colonthreedotexe]

this sounds like an exaggeration but literally i will mention that i'm 10cm taller than someone as a joke about how i can reach a taller shelf at the grocery store or something and the immediate response will almost always be "omg you're tall can you step on me" and i'm being fully serious. i hate it. believe it or not those extra 10cm don't make me want to have sex with every person who is shorter than me and also they don't make me a dom or a top.

has anyone considered that maybe this is sexual harassment? has anyone considered that maybe being taller than you doesn't mean i'm going to act like a futa from porn? has anyone considered that the trans woman might have some dysphoria surrounding height or pressure to be sexually dominant?

[colonthreedotexe]

every single comment and tag left on this post from another tall transfem makes me even more convinced that we need to start killing. but also i feel like if we started killing people would find a way to be horny and sexually harass us about that too.

[myfairynuffstuff]

Erika Toliusis (b.1969) - Pacific Angel. 2022. Oil with palette knife on canvas.

[banhmigoddess]

My one boring tip to anyone in their 20s is to resist the temptation to rot in your room every time you get a free moment. Dismiss any neuroses you have about going outside and "being perceived". Be a dictator about it, plan your hangouts like they are binding commitments. No excuses! Go to the bar with your friends. Be kinda hungover at work. Socializing is like exercise; even if you don't feel like you want to, you should still do it because it's good for you.

[bagelbastard]

i rlly need to lock in on my job considering it’s not that hard to do this stuff. like i am fully capable and it doesn’t take that much effort. i just keep getting distracteddddd

[bagelbastard]

i love horses

[akmongs]

i crocheted the prorev kiss

graph under the read more

this is the graph i made. it's a real "trust the process" type of project okay?? i tweaked it a bit as i went, but the final result works.

and cd for scale (final size ca 34x33 cm)

[berdyayeva]

It’s just me and my stupid clit against the fucking world

[briarrolfe]

Sometimes I think about my old manager at work who, in order to prove that the organisation was safe for trans people, told me about a fellow trans employee—a woman who was passing! who wasn’t out to me or to anyone else!—and about how chill everyone in management had been about her needing to take time off TO GET VAGINOPLASTY. He was not her manager! He was not her friend! He did not work in HR! There was no way he could have come into this PRIVATE MEDICAL INFORMATION without being told by another manager who had gossiped. And even if there had been, why the fuck was it any of my business!

Likewise, a friend of mine was just told by a school principal about how a prospective school was safe for trans kids… because a trans girl whose parents don’t affirm her at home is able to be affirmed at school. This information about this child’s gender and home environment was relayed along with her FUCKING GRADE LEVEL. This incredibly vulnerable kid was wheeled out as a selling point by the school with way more than enough information to figure out who she was.

In order to make the argument that a place is safe for trans people, cis people are wayyyy too happy to give out private information about trans people. With allies like these, who needs enemies!!!

[briarrolfe]

If you are the recipient of this kind of "and here is another trans person" information leak (ESPECIALLY when it outs a trans woman!!) it's imperative that you come down on it like the divine fist of God. We should shame these little weasels like trans lives depend on it (because they might). Might I suggest:

"I'm not sure I'm comfortable about having been told so much."

"I'm sorry, but that all sounded very private."

"And has she given approval for her medical history to be used as an example?"

"How do you know it's safe to tell me this?" (if the answer is 'because you are trans' then that is its own Massive Problem)

"Does (school) always share private information about trans students with prospective parents?"

"So, will you share my personal information like this?"

[2colde]

much like a beautiful horse i like salt and roaming freely

[melodramaticpolka]

hi okay many asks 4 process stuff on the bullets piece!! which means i get 2 be a nerd about glass!! basically flash glass means the color is only on one side, and you can “carve through it.” i sandblast first then go with with a diamond engraver :3

the red and blue are two different sheets pressed 2gether so the clear part of the glass is the front and back! this means one color (in this case, the red, bc i wanted the red to be the dominant shade) is on top, and therefore reversed. the yellow is something called silver stain! that’s where the term “stained glass” actually comes from.. it chemically alters the state of the glass so it turns yellow forever.

here i am gradually engraving the red on the gun 4 demolition lovers :3

here is everything up close without silver stain!! except 4 drowning lessons and early sunsets... which got engraved on the rare yellow flash glass. which was SO ANNOYING bc the flash was sooooo thick...

and here is what sketching looked like! a LOTTTTT of trial and error >_>

this is my favorite thing i have ever made i stare at her every day first thing i see when i wake up. my baby 4ever. i will never stop posting abt it sorryyyy sorry !!!!!! if u have any questions or want to know more about any part of this process my inbox is eternally open 4 business XD

[standing-in-v-formation]

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO THE FRERARD KISS

July 28, 2007

[urie]

fucking the text man for texts one of society's most influential works

[urie]

just a work of pure art

[bagelbastard]

Am I Autistic or do i just not know how to act in any social situation …… top ten questions of the decade

[bagelbastard]

my beautiful daughter google slides template