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They/Her 23

[bakugou-hoe21]

[camreapher]

JUST LETTING Y'ALL KNOW WHERE THIS BLOG STANDS.

[yafavmilf]

Reblog every time it hits my Dash

[silkshirtlesbian]

im here for women who’ve survived trauma and come out of the other end furious and spitting blood and im here for women who’ve survived trauma and ended up softer and smaller and less brave and im here for women who refuse to deal with their trauma, who fuck and fight and run, and im here for women in the middle of dealing with their trauma who cry on the floor one day and feel invincible the next im here for any woman who’s experienced trauma. you’re not handling it wrongly. you’re doing your best

[bighitgays-deactivated20170401]

I might not have any friends but u know what I do have???? That’s right, depression

[inspector--faggot-deactivated20]

Me: *buys day planner*

Me: responsible™

[devilstrip]

“not all men”

you’re right. keanu reeves would never.

[quinintheclouds]

Bo Burnham quotes that fuck me up every time:

“On a scale from one to zero… are you happy?”

“Come and watch the skinny kid with the steadily declining mental health, and laugh while he attempts to give you what he cannot give himself.”

“We think. We know. You.”

“I had a privileged life, and I got lucky, and I’m unhappy.”

“I know very little about anything, but what I do know is that if you can live your life without an audience… you should do it.”

“But what the fuck kind of question is ‘are you happy?’”

“Honestly, the biggest problem in my life isn’t Pringle cans… it’s you. Part of me loves you. Part of me hates you. Part of me needs you. Part of me fears you.”

“I just put on some silly show. I should probably just shut up and do my job so here I go.”

“You’re everything you hated, are you happy?”

“You pray so badly for Heaven. Knowing any day might be the day that you die. But maybe life on earth could be heaven. Doesn’t just the thought of it make it worth a try?“

“But what the fuck kind of question is ‘am I happy?’”

“I don’t think that I can handle this right now. You don’t know the half of this right now.”

“Hey, look ma, I made it. Are you happy?”

“I love you just the way you are but you don’t see you like I do. You shouldn’t try so hard to be perfect. Trust me, perfect should try to be you.”

“So if you know or ever knew how to be happy, on a scale of one to two now… are you happy?” 

“Sticks and stones might break your bones but words will break your heart.”

“Cause you’re on your own from here so, are you happy?“

“If you want love then the love has got to come from you.”

“I really wanna try to get happy. And I think that I could get it if I didn’t always panic every time I’m unhappy.”

“Thank you. Goodnight. I hope you’re happy.”

[bakugou-hoe21]

😭😭 Bo Burnham fucks me up.

[danielle-gets-fit-deactivated20]

I have stretch marks.

Reblog if you do too. Just to prove that it is more normal than what people actually think.

[purrrcrastination]

i’m a sucker for anyone with a jawline sharp enough to slit my throat

[burnhams]

happy valentines day to the true king of romance, bo

[art--felt]

I remember first learning that you can cry from any emotion, that emotions are chemical levels in your brain and your body is constantly trying to maintain equilibrium. so if one emotion sky rockets, that chemical becomes flagged and signals the tear duct to open as an exit to release that emotion packaged neatly within a tear. Everything made sense after learning that. That sudden stability of your emotions after crying. How crying is often accompanied by the inability to feel any other emotion in that precise moment. And it is especially beautiful knowing that it is even possible to experience so much beauty or love or happiness that your body literally can’t hold on to all of it. So what I’ve learned is that crying signifies that you are feeling as much as humanely possible and that is living to the fullest extent. So keep feeling and cry often and as much as needed

[streetlifemanifesto]

Don’t trust morning you. Morning you is a dick. Morning you would sell your loved ones if it got them 5 minutes of extra sleep

[sarapsys]

maybe morning me wouldn’t be such a dick if that flaky bitch evening me had gone to bed instead of tumblring til butts oclock int he morning

[bigmouthlass]

Well evening me might have fallen asleep at a reasonable hour if that dumbass afternoon me hadn’t lain down for a “little nap” that lasted four hours.

[bane-of-technology]

[lovelynemesis-deactivated201903]

It’s been one of those days.

You know the one’s… where you just don’t think you’ll make it through…

Yea. My day.

[sjukpojke]

survivors of abuse have limits that can change very frequently. sometimes we’re less sensitive to triggers, while other times we’re more sensitive.  i want to remind all of you: just because you’re feeling more sensitive today or any other day doesn’t mean you’re weak. it doesn’t mean you’re no longer making progress. it means that today your limits are just a little bit lower than usual.  if you panic about something that normally wouldn’t bother you at all, you’re not weak. there are ups and downs in recovery, good days and bad days.  you aren’t weak. you’ve made it this far, and just for that, you are so strong. i’m proud of you.

[bakugou-hoe21]

I needed to hear this. Today has been the worst day I have had in a while.

[8756453424354657-deactivated201]

a girl whos tummy is sore because she ate dairy: is a bit quiet a guy:She was perfect, pure maddening sex, and she knew it, and she played on it, dripped it, and allowed you to suffer for it

[mszombi]

This reminded me of an article I read years ago covering some lolita event. The reporter wrote something about how lolitas claimed lolita fashion was non-sexual, but he found it hard to believe after seeing the way they “seductively nibbled on cookies”

I don’t remember what the article was or what event it was covering, but I remember that one line because it just, like, filled me with so much rage. Like goddamn, maybe they just wanted to eat some fucking cookies, its not their fault you got a boner over it. 

[assassinationtipsforladies]

“it’s not their fault you got a boner over it” is such an important statement in way too many contexts

[sideshowgoth]

God I just about started crying in the kitchen

[prismpom-moved]

Can we please start appreciating people who are recovering from an addiction to self-harm? God bless those who are in recovery from eating disorders and drug addictions. But I barely ever see positivity towards those who outwardly express their pain (even though they hide it).

So let me start.

If you used a knife for any reason today (eat, open something, crafts) and didn’t turn it on yourself, great job!

If you shaved today, EVEN when someone was watching you the whole time, great job!

If you self-harmed a little less than you normally do, great job! (You are taking steps! Don’t be ashamed!)

If you thought about doing it and was even close enough to actually acting on it, but you didn’t, great job!

If you stopped following/blacklisted blogs that promote self-injury, great job!

If you used a pencil sharpener for the job it was meant to perform, great job!

If you opened up to someone about your self-injury, great job! I’m so fucking proud of you and your bravery!

If you decided to not wear long sleeves, pants, etc. so you were comfortable at the risk of someone seeing your scars, great job! You are beautiful! Your scars are not your identity!

If you are currently seeking help for your addiction and underlying mental disorders (if any), great job!

If you didn’t turn that lighter/cigarette to your skin, great job!

If you left those scabs alone, great job!

If you picked a little less today, great job!

If you left that perfect beautiful head undamaged today, great job!

If you didn’t bruise your knuckles/break your toes/physically purposefully injure your body, great job!

And most importantly: If you slipped/relapsed today you are going to be okay. This is not the end. You will recover. You will get better. There is no rush and it’s not a race. Please take care of yourself.

If you’d like to add anything please feel free to do so! Please reblog if you can! You never know who could need this right now!

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