memento mori @bakurapika - Tumblr Blog

#my family does this thing#when we've majorly unfucked a room or done chore that we were putting off#or whatever. Any sort of household Improvement.#'Come brag on me.'#I means come look I cleaned/rearranged/did dishes/put away the laundry#and the scripted response is 'oh nice it looks SO much better in here now'#like my mom did this when we were kids.#'girls comr brag on the garage I finally organized it so I can get my car in there'#and we go and 'ooh' and 'aah' and tell her how nice it looked and how she did a good job#and we could have her 'come brag on' us for like doing the dishes or cleaning our rooms#I do it to my wife now too#it's a dialogue that means#'I did a chore and it feels like an Accomplishment even if it objectively wasn't a big thing. Please acknowledge this.'#and#'Wow you sure did do a thing. It has improved our material circumstance even if only in a small way. Thank you for doing it.'#like yeah scrubbing the pans is my Job and it's a Little Task but sometimes it feels like a Big Task#and it's nice to have an Accepted Script where I can just demand 'I have functioned as an independent adult praise me with great praise' - by @thepioden

loveridden1999

problematic sudoku solving skills gap

featuringmarkhoppus

#ive been getting into playing sudoku on hard mode lately #i feel like i have learned most of the skills required through sheer force but i have more than once considered trying to look up a crash c #urse. sudoku hacks. what to do when you're in this situation where the usuals aren't working and you have to do something drastic #and when it works (or doesn't work and thus points you to the alternative that does) you don't know why

yknow what it may still be not being sober for one reason or another but: i think i am done tagging for artistic nudity on this blog. at least/especially when they're just because of the menace of so-called female presenting nipples. come the fuck on.

gravitcat

a thing for mermay i guess

carbomcoco

I am utterly captivated by this video series that Taryn Delanie and friends have been making on TikTok

rowan-e-ravenwood

@eagledrawsandvibes

#lol yes but also i didnt remember that the transcription writes out 'coincidence' for 'coinkidink'#criminal!!!!

kylorens

I stumbled upon this cartoon of Hamlet made for kids and THIS SCENE MADE ME SCREAMMM

bidulgie

The future looks bleak, Danny

shamebats

kabretoss

It does matter. It matters exactly like this.

Last month I was in the ER, the most vulnerable emotionally that I've ever been while putting myself in the hands of a stranger. That the intake doctor had a lanyard heavy with Pride pins mattered. It's such a tiny gesture, but the amount of safety I felt because of it, during an agonizing moment in my life, was huge.

elkian

We recently moved to rural area and some neighbors have straight up MAGA flags so the person with the biggest flagpole for miles around putting up a GIGANTIC Progress Pride flag last June and this June has actually meant a lot to me.

homoeroticjunoincident

the best thing a fictional woman can be is under the belief the universe is doing things because of/for her specifically

PLAY ZATO NOW

#edit: and by edit i guess i mean update to my reblog. so update:#am slightly tipsy and that feels like the ideal state to be in. my mind is so open to receive anything asya says #and this seems real goddamn good so far #edit. by the way. there is so much about this that is like AUTISM AND GAY HELLOOO (waving flags) but #god if i remember to being in high school and younger.#you really think you're the only one in the universe to experience either of those things.#not de facto from being gay and or autistic but from the community you're in being intentionally ignorant.#it's so goddamn isolating. god im lucky to have survived all that. and thank god i moved out at age 17.#edit: and surely it's a given that you don't know those words apply to you in any sort of positive way.#edit. im gonna keep editing bc i don't want to spam anyone's dashboards with me being tipsy and getting emotional #for a game that ive barely started.#but. like. man. she seems at least somewhat aware that she's being bullied. like she has to actively rationalize it.#did i ever feel like that? i don't remember. 6th grade was weird for me. new school and not religious and i know i got 'bullied' re neopets #bullied is in quotes not because i don't believe it happened but bc i don't remember it having happened #and i couldn't tell you if it was one or two offhand comments or an entire year of a hate campaign #i know it was a Bad Time for me and all the Mental Illness started up but also. yknow. points to being raised so religious #that it was rly culty. so how much of it was culture shock. idk.#god i want to defend this kid so bad. let ME fistfight your classmates.#i keep wanting to cry. the abominable lack of context. requiring constant self flagellation for the world to make sense.#edit. i can't help but remember there was this one girl in high school #she was an exchange student and she had red hair. that's most of what i remember.. im faceblind #but i know she had a really cute sweater with like llama print #i seem to remember that i worked up the courage to give her a valentine's day card? after the point i knew i was gay i think?#and it never got mentioned or acknowledged even once #i don't even remember her name and i can't picture her but.. i had hope i think.#perhaps slightly tipsy is not in fact the ideal state to be experiencing this game.#somehow this is reminding me of all the worst parts of having been a girl #edit. ok i need to pause here. or im just gonna be sobbing til i take my sleep meds. and no i don't drink + mix those #so i mean a Period of Time #the pop up being like 'are you sure you want to quit'

lilisabeille

WIP of an animation I'm working on right now!

It's inspired by two drawings, one made by me and the other made by @ fl.werfueled on instagram! I realised that our drawings looked like they were in a continuity so I animated it.

I'm working on the colors right now, I will post the final version soon

myjourneywithfnd

I saw a video today from a chronically ill woman about the fact you can feel so guilty when doing fun things.

She talks about how, as a kid, you learn to finish work before you can play and that you take this with you into adulthood. So you keep the mindset of having to finish 'have to' tasks/chores before being allowed to 'play'.

But when you're chronically ill, this is literally impossible! If you'd do that it would be all work and never play. That wouldn't be healthy at all. We need to remind ourselves of this. We don't need to feel guilty for doing something fun!

homoeroticjunoincident

the best thing a fictional woman can be is under the belief the universe is doing things because of/for her specifically

PLAY ZATO NOW

#uhh i was like (smug anime girl) yeah sure #but it's free and runs on mac #no promises about how long i will play it but i will at least boot it up which is farther than i thought i'd get

sakrafka

cat mama

jun-hug

Sun and Star in their little winter outfits catching snowflakes :)

my print gallery

pelpolpet

Old but i kinda ate

dark-spirit-tamamoland

they're still terming random transfems as i type this i see which does make quite a statement doing this today specifically

puppetstuffing

watched three girls who reblogged its new blog mutual aidpost (made literally 15 minutes ago) already disappear from its notifs. transfems are not included in their pride :/