the little ambassador

it would be cool if drugs could kill

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bye 👋

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i give up >_< biphobes literally do not have brains and are actually completely incapable of sympathizing with anyone but themselves

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tomie misandry moodboard

[joykillerrr]

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Omg u terfz r retarded. Go play super mario oddessy or something :)

i play videogames sometimes but i do while being transphobic

[dreamy-bisexuall-deactivated201]

bi women asking to not be written off based on relationship status =/= “forcing you to care about m/f relationships”, so jot that down

[dreamy-bisexuall-deactivated201]

honestly this wouldn’t be an issue if people viewed bi women as fully fledged humans and not units within a relationship (usually m/f ones because people LOVE to treat us as extensions to men)

so what if she’s in a monogomous relationship with a man? she’s a whole person who has a whole world and identity outside of it. To deny her community based on relationship status is to deny her personhood outside of her relationships.

[dreamy-bisexuall-deactivated201]

and to deny her personhood outside of her relationships is to isolate her and make her more susceptible to abuse from straight men!

[pusheen-the-radical]

so im going to assume i missed some ~discourse~ around this, so forgive my ignorance. I generally agree with all of this, of course a woman should not be exclused or dismissed whether straight or bi if she’s with a man if we’re talking about women’s and feminist spaces if for no other reason than because its impractical (as most women fall in this category; but op has provided some good reasoning too). however, it depends what kind of comminity we mean- radfem, generally feminist, generally women’s space, yes, sure, this is totally true. but not lesbian spaces (and again, i missed the discourse that started this but i have a nagging suspicion that these are the spaces op was most bothered about). if you are with a male you do not belong in lesbian spaces! we have a right to not want you there! we have a right not to want to engage with that, and to enjoy one (1) singular space where our reality is the default and reflected back to us in the lives of others. and if anyone is having trouble understanding this concept, think about the reasoning behind women wanting female-only spaces away from males: this is the exact same logic of lesbians wanting our own spaces away from all osa people, including osa women. that doesnt make us mean or unfair or discriminatory (unless you believe female-only spaces are also likw that towards men). the rest of the world caters to women who want to be with men- everywhere else is a you-friendly space, so lesbians are perfectly entitled to create one conceptual space that isnt focussed on you and your experiences and not include you.

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youre insane (like actually crazy) and drunk on biphobia if “bi women are trying to invade lesbian spaces with their stinky boyfriends!” is literally the only thing you can take from this post

[mithliya]

im not sure what op is referencing but i dont think pusheen-the-radical said anything insane here?

i think bi women are obviously not welcome in lesbian-only spaces (i mean unless theres some lesbian event n the lesbians’ gf is bi or a lesbian brings her bi female friend(s)) bc .. well id assume a lesbian space is for lesbians. and they’re very much welcome to wlw spaces as long as they keep their bfs out of it and leave the boyfriend talk for the rest of the world. but the issue is that, unfortunately, a huge portion do go to spaces for SSA people, centre their het relationships, talk excessively of said het relationships, and then demonise gay ppl for being uncomfortable w OSA being centred in the only spaces that exist for SSA. i dont think lesbians are insane nor “writing off bi women based on their relationships” when we assert that boundary. am i missing sth?? im confused

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please look at the full context. the issue is that the post asks for people to stop seeing bisexual women as extensions of men and start seeing them as their own individuals, and asks for people not to constantly alienate and isolate bisexual women by denying, diminishing and mocking their experiences. it doesnt even use the word “spaces” anywhere. hell, the word “lesbian” is also not used anywhere. all the post asks of anyone is to not be shitty to bi women in the ways mentioned before.

the issue is that she saw a complex post addressing genuine concerns regarding the way bi women are treat and the only thing she could take from it was completely distorting it to “oh i get it, all you want is to bring your nigel to lesbian spaces, thats what this post is about”

[girlloserism]

“why do you hate men?”

do i? do i hate men? i don’t think so.

hatred is rape. hatred is femicide. hatred is the fact that women are most likely to be murdered by their boyfriend or husband. hatred is nailing dead rats to female safe spaces. hatred is making majority of women afraid of what could happen to them if they go outside at night. hatred is intentionally invoking fear in women just because you can. hatred is female genital mutilation. hatred is the husband stitch. hatred is getting off on women’s abuse, suffering, and degradation. hatred is objectification. hatred is dehumanization. hatred is sex trafficking. hatred is the buying and selling of female bodies as if they’re an object. hatred is being disgusted by women’s natural bodies. hatred is expecting women to shave off every inch of their body hair and cover their faces so they live up to your expectations and ridiculing them if they don’t. hatred is making women ashamed of their natural bodies.

if you want to call my anger and frustration at men’s behavior “hatred”, than my hatred is reactionary. men hated us first. misogyny and misandry are not the same.

[girlloserism]

this post is my gone girl monologue

[leonleonhart]

i call this one "haunted by the images of yaoi visual novels"

[superhelldeactivated]

I am literally BEGGING YOU stop consuming HP if not for trans women at the very least do it for the fact that segregating a bunch of literal children and pitting them against each other is quite frankly a fucking weird ass thing to do.

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who is yalls favorite Harry Potter character

[magnetictapedatastorage]

whoever had the motorcycle, i cant remember the name

[maitakecat-deactivated20230212]

hamgred.

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picture of hamgred and his tiny insufferable son hamry

[shittymoviedetails]

In The World Is Not Enough (1999), the sexy villain lady asks Bond to join her and offers him "the world". Bond, being an insufferable idiot, turns her down. Stupidest decision in all of cinema.

[superhelldeactivated]

I am literally BEGGING YOU stop consuming HP if not for trans women at the very least do it for the fact that segregating a bunch of literal children and pitting them against each other is quite frankly a fucking weird ass thing to do.

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who is yalls favorite Harry Potter character

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[laurapalmergraduates]

i hate “anything but country” bitches. listen to some johnny cash and kill yourself

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a post on Tumblr: does not even mention “spaces” in any way whatsoever, simply patiently asks for people to stop seeing bisexual women as extensions of men and start seeing them as their own individuals, and asks for people not to constantly alienate and isolate bisexual women by denying, diminishing and mocking their experiences

biphobes: how dare you. im gonna fucking kill myself

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if you don't think ""bi women are trying to invade lesbian spaces with their stinky boyfriends"" isn't something that has always been happening in lesbian spaces for generations, you're either lesbophobic or you're ""insane (like actually crazy)"" cute ableism + biphobia mass reblogs though, wasn't aware you were apart of the radblr side of vague/balant lesbophobia, super disappointing to see from you. make a post about how lesbians are oppressing bi women next, mini dionne. let us lesbians know how ""crazy"" you think we are.

im a lesbian + go be crazy somewhere else not in my inbox

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