You can't support trans women and refuse to call them women
You can’t support women and allow any man who says he feels like a woman to be allowed unregulated access to women and girls
You can’t support women and claim that whether or not you’re a woman depends on how you behave and dress
You can’t support women and have the behaviour and dress standards for women dictated by people who on average have spent over a decade being socialised to hate women
You can’t support women and tell us we’re bad people for fearing rape and violence
You can’t support women and tell us that our only choices are to have invasive unstudied medical treatment to try and make ourselves look like men, or have everyone assume that we actively and totally identify with being treated as stupid and targeted with violence
You can’t support women and encourage any woman who hates her body to just start changing it instead of discussing how hatred of your body, especially sexual anatomy, is an extremely common aspect of the female experience
You can’t support women and tell us that we’re bad people if we object to the emotional manipulation and threats trans women use to try and get us to perform emotional labour for them
You can’t support women and refuse to let us discuss misogyny as it is
You can’t support women and tell us if we object to a set of artificial behavioural standards that were made to crush us then we cannot call ourselves women
You can’t support women and demand we accept in our private spaces people who very openly hate us and our bodies to the point that they feel very comfortable telling us our vulvas are disgusting and dirty and stink, that our pubic hair is obscene, and then whine if we’re anything less than enthusiastic about their bodies
You can’t support women and support a movement that silences all the women who’ve been sexually and psychologically abused by trans women because it might hurt trans women’s feelings
You can’t support women and demand that we not name the problems that affect us for what they are because the feelings of a handful of people are more important than our actual safety
You can’t support women and be a rape apologist
You can’t support women and support a movement that is so excited by violence against women that you create popular blogs to joke about how funny it would be to have women whose behaviour you disagree with set on fire or doused in acid or gang-raped
You can’t support women and hate female bodies so much that you see an artificial hole as equivalent to the complex, beautiful organic system that is female genitalia
You can’t support gay people and insist that gayness is disgusting
You can’t support gay people and tell them that they have to be able to be attracted to anybody who decides they’re eligible, even if that person has previously lived very comfortably as the opposite sex for years
You can’t support gay people and support the transitioning of children starting to show indicators of being gay by their parents
You can’t support gay people and not recognise that being forced to ‘just try’ interacting with the opposite sex is an actual conversion therapy method
You can’t support gay people and demand that they allow complete strangers to decide how they’re allowed to feel on a whim
You can’t support gay people if you support a movement where completely obviously gender-conforming non-dysphoric members of the opposite sex can just say “I am the same sex as you” and then either corner the gay person or create a platform for calling that gay person disgusting and perverted
You can’t support gay people if you support a movement that doesn’t even regard sexual trauma as a fully valid reason to not want to sleep with someone of the opposite sex
You can’t support autistic people and support an ideology that relies on the exact debunked ‘brain sex’ theory that has prevented autistic women from getting diagnosis and support for years
You can’t support neurodivergent women and encourage them to perceive their entirely natural discomfort with performative femininity as a signifier that they’re not women and therefore need sterilising medical treatments
You can’t support dysphoric people if you won’t recognise dysphoria as a symptom of mental illness, often trauma
You can’t support dysphoric people if you attack all discussions of ways to deconstruct the causes of dysphoria so that people don’t need to change their whole lives and bodies unless absolutely necessary
You can’t support dysphoric people if you uphold the system of gender that creates the social restrictions on behaviour that cause so much distress
You can’t support trans people if you support a movement that claims anybody who believes you have to actually have dysphoria to be trans is “truscum”
You can’t support trans people if you attack the people trying to discuss how dangerous the current treatments for trans people can be
You can’t support trans people if you support a movement that hates anyone who detransitions and dares to speak about it
You can’t support trans people if you support a movement that refuses to seriously include trans men
You can’t support trans people if you support a movement whose big names very often turn out to be rapists, murderers and paedophiles
You can’t support trans people if you support a movement that knows its big names are rapists, murderers and paedophiles and openly supports their right to access women and children anyway
You can’t support people of colour if you support a movement that claims they couldn’t understand the concept of sexual biology until white people showed up
You can’t support people of colour if you support a movement that deliberately misinterprets the cultures of other races to use them as props (you can’t support gay people if you refuse to acknowledge how the “third genders” in other cultures very often exist to designate same-sex attracted males as separate from other males. you can’t support women if you refuse to acknowledge that these cultures often have no room in those “third genders” for women because women were not allowed that freedom of expression)
You can’t support people of colour if you support a movement based on the ideas of women of colour and Jewish women, still heavily populated by those women, being equated to Nazism for the purposes of sensationalism
You can’t support people of colour if you refuse to acknowledge how privileged you have to be to feel like you can seriously “identify out” of womanhood
You support misogyny, homophobia, racism, ableism, and you definitely don’t support anything that would be useful to trans people in the long term. You’re a hypocrite. Trans women will always be male. Trans men will always be female. If trans women don’t want to have their male pattern behaviour discussed for what it is then they need to stop behaving like men. Trans men do not get to demand that female biology isn’t called what it is, because trans men’s feelings are always going to be worth less than the safety and wellbeing of females as a whole group.