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@batidodehuevo
1 2 3 I want yuri!
Happy International Lesbian Day! As a lesbian, I find it unforgivable that River was barely mentioned in the 13th Doctor… I mean, 123, I want yuri! So here's my little grain of sand to our collective hysteria (and obviously thanks to my twin for asking me to do the drawing).
Luckily for you, my sister has already reached the doctor's , and since I'm such a great twin, I make her all the drawings she wants. And it has nothing to do with her wisdom teeth being removed and her looking like a horrible hamster.
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I saw a video of a man talking about the atomic bomb, the end of the series talking about how the collective mind dont give care, and I'd like to talk a little about that because, oh my god, yes. I think it's something that's shown more in the cocaine scene. Even if they warn Carol about the dangers, at the end of the day they give it to her; there's no care. Part of loving someone is knowing how to setting limits, but that's something they can't do, therefore they're not capable of loving.
We still don't know how they reacted to things like assisted suicide. What we do know is that they won't prevent you from putting yourself in risky situations if is what makes you happy. What I'm trying to say—and I'm sorry if this seems to be going on everywhere— your girl here has reading and writing diabilitys, among many other things (Carol is neurodivergent, and I can prove it). The "love" of others is superficial; it's not true love. They don't want Carol to be okay; they want her to be happy, but we know that has its limits. They won't take care of her beyond providing for her and being with her, and that's not love or care; it's just giving her what's necessary to live. To love is to know how to say no.
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Opening commissions! I'm going to be a vendor at a fair and I'm raising money to cover expenses. If you're interested, don't hesitate to write to me.
Ngl I think a lot of people, when they talk about Jedi and attachments and how "the Jedi should be allowed to have them," just plain ignore the single most important show of attachment in all of Star Wars.
Padme and Anakin.
Obviously people bring them up 24/7 when they want to bash the Jedi or pretend that Anidala is the epitome of a "healthy relationship" (lmao), but when it comes to the actual point of how their relationship is framed and how it highlights how attachment works/what it does---suddenly all the discussion around Anakin and Padme disappears!
Anakin's attachment to Padme and his unwillingness to let her go is LITERALLY what ends up killing her!!!
He has dreams of her dying, becomes convinced that those dreams are what's gonna happen (despite the unreliable nature of visions), and---instead of actually telling anyone anything in enough detail so they could actually help---he:
- Starts working with a Sith Lord
- Massacres a Temple full of children, the elderly, the injured, etc. and the people who were caring for them
- Helps commit a genocide
- Overthrows democracy
And then, once Padme won't support him vying for them to control the galaxy, he becomes convinced that she's betrayed him and attempts to kill her---then, later on, because of Anakin's actions Padme dies.
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THAT is what attachment is and what it does.
Attachment is being unable, unwilling, to let someone go, no matter what that might mean for you or them, because you don't want to go through life without them---and the people you try to hold onto so tight ultimately get crushed in your grip because of it.
Think of it like holding someone's hand.
Non-attachment would be, when the other person wants to stop, letting them slip away and being happy with what you had while you had it---being content whether they choose to stay by your side or run off to go do something else.
Attachment would be, when the other person tries to let go, tightening your grip or grabbing their wrist---hurting them because you don't want there to even be a chance that you would be without them.
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So no, the Jedi were not wrong to teach non-attachment and they should not have "changed their philosophies so they were allowed to have attachments" like some people have suggested, because attachment is unhealthy and selfish and all it does is end up hurting those around you.
Hard agree with OP. (I commented under my main, @alexthespaceace.) Here are some of my favorite comments and/or exchanges in case the comments to this post blow up and makes these ones harder to refer back to.
(It'd be nice if there'd been more to the Anakin/Padme relationship than being necessary to make Luke and Leia. As the Puzzle in a Thunderstorm guys often say in early "God Awful Movies" podcast episodes, "You're the movie!" The Powers That Be could've made a non-toxic relationship, but that wouldn't have been good cinema or shown what a shitty person Anakin grew up to be.)
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jedi-enthusiast Original Poster @askteamgrey Relationships do not necessarily equal attachment.
Relationships are just having feelings for someone and forming a bond with them---whether those are familial, platonic, or romantic.
Attachment, as I've already outlined above, is being unable or unwilling to let someone go, no matter what that might mean for you or them, because you don't want to go through life without them.
They’re two separate things that have the ability to intersect.
ladystonedwolf only seen the movies, but anakin was told by a room full of adults when he was a kid that missing his mother was dangerous. that environment would emotionally stunt any kids ability to healthily process attachments and fears of loss
Avatar alexthespaceace That room full of adults thought he was too old and too prone to attachment (read: selfishness and obsession) to be fit for Jedi training, and Episodes II and III proved those adults right.
fai-gensou Pretty sure this whole argument about attachment wouldn’t be happening if the word obsession was used. Because Anakin didn’t love Padme; he was obsessed with her. You don’t care if your obsessions and your actions to keep it harm you or everyone around you
batidodehuevo I think you are wrong. Anakin didn't turn to the dark side because of his attachment to Pade, it was because he wanted to possess her. In the original triology they already prove that there is nothing wrong with being attached to others. I also miss that Anakin is acting out for Padme because the last time he had a dream his mother died and when he went to Yoda to talk about it he literally told him to let go because people die and there is nothing to do about!
alexthespaceace Yoda doesn't have all the details, and part of the Jedi religion, which borrows heavily from Buddhism, is accepting inevitabilities, like death, even the death of a loved one.
jedi-enthusiast Original Poster @batidodehuevo buddy, attachment IS wanting to possess someone—it’s about not wanting to ever let them go and being willing to do anything, no matter how heinous, just so you won’t have to. Attachment doesn’t mean love and the OT still goes along with Lucas’s message that attachment is bad.
And Anakin literally didn’t tell Yoda anything about Padme dying or a vision, he just said “i’m having dreams of someone close to me dying” (and Yoda even had to badger him to learn that much)—which is-
jedi-enthusiast Original Poster @batidodehuevo -pretty standard for a nightmare and very likely to happen in war. Not to mention that literally no one knew about Anakin’s visions of his mother and that they came true except Padme! Obi-Wan thought Anakin was having dreams and didn’t know what they were about, and Anakin never told him anything else! No one else knew!
So Yoda basically told Anakin that it’s better to celebrate the life someone lived and appreciate the time you had with them rather than being sad and angry-
Avatar jedi-enthusiast Original Poster @batidodehuevo -about not getting more time with them, albeit in typical Yoda-speak. Which is literally advice given in grief counseling. Not to mention that Yoda can’t read Anakin’s mind, so he can only give vague advice to a vague statement.
What else would you have had him do?
clairaworlds Also Anakin constantly undermines her autonomy in tcw. It bothers me so much. She's such a badass in that show and Anakin spends 100% of his time with her telling her not to do stuff she's fully capable of doing or dismissing her work in the senate as not as important as his work in the fighting. It's made me irrationally upset since I first watched the show at like 10
hello the person from the commentrio .litrl i don't remember this at all but my summary is: yoda is a bitch who doesn't understand human feelings. if someone tells you they're afraid of someone dying, support them, don't tell them to 'suck it up and get on with your life' anakin never got the help he needed because he was always told to push his feelings away, which as someone with neurodivergence that will affect my emotional management is the worst thing you can say to someone. the jedi were a bunch of neurotypical people with no empathy who massively failed at supporting their peers.
Hi! In march, you signed up for the Vaderkin Creative Exchange, wich filled the period for artist between 4th May and 15th June. Other artists have finished publishing their art, yet we have not seen yours yet and were wondering if you needed more time. However, we’ve been unable to reach you ever since sending you your letter. Have you seen our messages?
Oh, thanks for talking to me. I was supposed to make a drawing in a vase for a story, but I never got it.