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your dreamboy

[baysmoved]

new blog is up!

it's @astringents ! will probably change my url back to bays on that one once it's available again!

[baysmoved]

yup, I'm gonna remake my blog on a separate account! need a fresh start. I'll keep you guys updated!!

[grlband-deactivated20150426]

a 30 y/o drunk man came up to me in a nightclub the other night and said “the economy might be shit but at least we have niall horan” 

[cleopat-ra-blog]

i’m having trouble believing this

[grlband-deactivated20150426]

i live in ireland the only thing irish men love more than themselves is niall horan 

[badwebbarchive]

#there’s an irisn pub near my old vocal studio and they have a framed picture of niall on the wall #not even signed or anything #just in the middle of the wall

[devotionsofmaryoliver]

[temptrsent-deactivated20161019]

“before he’s ready for it”

[extrasad]

My boyfriend just told me that he wouldn't want to be with me if I got a nose piercing, he thinks they're ugly so he told me to choose between him and getting piercings, and that if I loved him I'd choose him, but if he loved me he wouldn't beat me down like this?

So when u get ur nose pierced make sure to clean it with non iodized sea salt and distilled water

[youdonthavetogotocollege]

My lease says nothing about wild hogs

[youdonthavetogotocollege]

My landlords silence on wild hogs is deafening. Incidentally, so is the sound of swine thundering through a three storey apartment

[sirfrogsworth]

Monica Lewinsky is funnier than all of the comedians who made shitty jokes about her. 

not-so-friendly reminder to unfollow me if:

u think autism is a disease or illness

u think autism needs to be “cured”

u support Autism Speaks or organizations like it

u “feel bad” for ppl with autism and their families

u think autistic children are a burden to their parents/guardians 

u don’t believe in getting children vaccinated because vaccines “cause autism”

[summoningspark]

allistic people reblogging this makes me happy

[skyeser-deactivated20180320]

• You use autistic as an insult

[diarygirls]

[mitski lyric]

[lorde lyric OR taylor swift red (2012) lyric]

[quote from tumblr popular ya lit series]

[line art]

[quote from some particularly repressed classic literature]

[image of script from a24 movie or the social network]

[trans. anne carson].

[ibadbitch]

Stop fake loving fat girls!!!

[whitepeopletwitter]

[podencos]

[crossroadsbishounen]

[egalitarianyellowfang-blog]

Just your daily reminders:

Racists are a problem

White people are not

Homophobes are a problem

Straight people are not

Transphobes are a problem

Cis people are not

Sexists are a problem

Men are not

And most importantly,

Hating an innocent person solely because of their race, sexuality, or gender makes you a fucking asshole

[thepageofhopes]

Just some actual daily reminders:

All white people do racist things without being aware they are

All straight people do homophobic things without being aware that they are.

All Cis people do transphobic things without being aware that they are.

All men do sexist things without being aware that they are.

Saying things like ‘some men’, ‘some cis people’ absolves the blame of individuals and only seeks to comfort those with privilege and power.

When a post says ‘some X’, the X will always assume that they are not because THEY ARE NOT AWARE.

And most importantly,

It’s called metonymy, when anyone who is oppressed makes an exasperated statement like ‘i hate straight people’, they are substituting straight people for the concept of a system and a culture that teaches, incentives, and legitimizes homophobic acts and normalizes homophobic acts so that straight people constantly do honophobic things without realizing it and that’s really fucking annoying.

And just as important,

The concept of sjws dehumanizes marginalized people and categorizes them as an ‘angry and emotional’ stereotype and only adds to the oppression of marginalized people under the guise of being ‘fair’, while the only thing you are doing is cushioning privileged people from their own ignorance and privilege.

[ihateithereitrulydo-deactivated]

^^^^^

[hieronymouscock]

when people say shit like “no one is talking about this bc it’s not happening in america” im like oh ok u think tumblr is a news site

[thejohnsu]

be a frog

[loismacgiver-deactivated2018061]

women: Be nice please :)

men: You Are Literally Infringing Upon My Free Will Right Now

[sprachtraeume]

I wanna move abroad so bad to the point that I sometimes feel like it would solve all my problems, as if I would not be just as lonely and unloved but in another place

[sprachtraeume]