[bbberrysweet]

i will be taking a break from posting biweekly videos until september at the latest

[hellyeahscarleteen]

“Intimacy is often awkward. And that isn’t a bad thing. In some ways, I’d even say it’s always awkward, in the sense that it’s never really something that’s exactly easy, especially when we’re just starting to get intimate with someone, rather than when we have been for a long time. Getting and being close to each other physically and emotionally always has its challenges and ways where we make ourselves vulnerable: if it didn’t offer those things, few people would be very interested in sex or other kinds of intimacy in the first place. Getting and being close to each other is a constant process of learning – about the other person and about ourselves – and growth, and learning and growing, especially around things or places that are deep and personal? Awkward. When we learn to walk, we fall over a lot, we’re shaky in our legs, we’re uncertain in our balance. Same goes for learning to be intimate.”

— How (and why) to Root for Team Awkward

[vithcy]

Emotional support rack

[bbberrysweet]

How many times in a row can you cum?

i've been too lazy in recent years to bother going farther than 2 in a row on my own

with help, i haven't found a maximum. though i get pretty tired once i get to double digits

[bbberrysweet]

it's a genuine travesty that you're not being felt up crazy style. you're literally built for it <3

exactly what i've been saying and preaching and praying and saying

[bbberrysweet]

fucking u would fix me

doubtful

[bbberrysweet]

humping my pillow in your honor o7

thank you for your service 🫡

[bbberrysweet]

volume warning

[bbberrysweet]

just a little guy!

[bbberrysweet]

new video is available on ph/xv/of/mv

[bbberrysweet]

[bbberrysweet]

people @ me: please hurt my balls

me: 🥺 but what about your balls??

[bbberrysweet]

the pornographer's thinly veiled favorite porno that got deleted during sesta/fosta

[bbberrysweet]

hiya 🍒 they/them

[bbberrysweet]

ISO attentive pervert to watch me while i sleep and keep me from having nightmares

[cyberxbattalion]

credit

[inthesensethat]

[hexthelex-deactivated20250420]

This is true btw

[letmeliedown]

the podcast If Books Could Kill has a really great episode on the original book and its legacy! just a bunch of misogynist evangelical bullshit really

[cherishedproperty]

I want to clarify something kind of important because this kinda used to be my field. The concept that people express and feel love in different ways, and that this might lead to misunderstandings, IS something with scientific merit. The idea that there are just five and we know what they are is NOT. The idea that people have a primary love language is NOT.

In science, we have a saying. All models are wrong, but some are useful. That’s how I see the love languages framework. It is inherently flawed, but some of its concepts are useful. Communicate with your partner what makes you feel loved and understand what makes them feel loved. Understand how your partner shows love. There is immense value in that. But don’t over-index on which one of the five you are. That part doesn’t matter.

[thesunflowersqueen]

#love languages#really reblogging for that last comment though#“all models are wrong but some are useful”#the concept is sound but the specifics are uhhhh not (via @mad-madam-m)