[bbberrysweet]

queue is filled up and i've set it to start posting again dead again. mostly reblogs but some of my own stuff

[bbberrysweet]

[bbberrysweet]

people @ me: please hurt my balls

me: 🥺 but what about your balls??

[bbberrysweet]

the pornographer's thinly veiled favorite porno that got deleted during sesta/fosta

[bbberrysweet]

hiya 🍒 they/them

[bbberrysweet]

ISO attentive pervert to watch me while i sleep and keep me from having nightmares

[cyberxbattalion]

credit

[inthesensethat]

[hexthelex-deactivated20250420]

This is true btw

[letmeliedown]

the podcast If Books Could Kill has a really great episode on the original book and its legacy! just a bunch of misogynist evangelical bullshit really

[cherishedproperty]

I want to clarify something kind of important because this kinda used to be my field. The concept that people express and feel love in different ways, and that this might lead to misunderstandings, IS something with scientific merit. The idea that there are just five and we know what they are is NOT. The idea that people have a primary love language is NOT.

In science, we have a saying. All models are wrong, but some are useful. That’s how I see the love languages framework. It is inherently flawed, but some of its concepts are useful. Communicate with your partner what makes you feel loved and understand what makes them feel loved. Understand how your partner shows love. There is immense value in that. But don’t over-index on which one of the five you are. That part doesn’t matter.

[thesunflowersqueen]

#love languages#really reblogging for that last comment though#“all models are wrong but some are useful”#the concept is sound but the specifics are uhhhh not (via @mad-madam-m)

[viralfrog]

[tongue-twists]

I've been told the aura of mystery makes me hotter

ko-fi

[puppydayy-deactivated20250423]

Intox kink go brrrr

[fatartappreciation]

I loved just how massive my double belly and moobs showed off in this archival pic from the fall of 2021 when I was in the 310 pound range. Just loads and loads of belly fat I was lugging around!

[fatartappreciation]

Once forgotten 1920’s erotic art by an anonymous Czech artist (or so the story goes), this and 32 other stunning watercolors were rediscovered and released in 1974 by an obscure London publishing house under the title “Kugelrunda“… they speak volumes about body positivity as the women featured clearly appear quite comfortable with their bodies and using them to bring pleasure to themselves and their partners.

[fatartappreciation]

The Three Graces by the late photographer Leonard Nimoy (yes, Spock from Star Trek!) from his Full Body Project

[hellyeahscarleteen]

“Here are some ways someone who’s bisexual might describe how they experience attraction:

“I have mostly dated men, but tend to fantasize about women more than men.”

“I’m attracted to women and nonbinary people more than men, in general, but on the rare occasion when I am attracted to a man, the attraction tends to be really intense.”

“I’ve never dated someone who has the same gender⁠ as me, but I think about it often and I’m pretty sure I’d enjoy it if I had the chance.”

“When I was a teenager, I was only attracted to women. In my 20s, I started noticing men as well; now I date men most of the time although I’m still interested in women.”

“I feel like I can be attracted to people of any gender.”

These are just a few examples, of course, but hopefully they can give you a sense of just how many experiences of attraction and interest can fall under the greater bisexual umbrella.”

Mo Ranyart, If I only want to have sex with women, but not date them, am I bisexual?

[certifiedsexed]

i'm transfem, but my ideal genital configuration is like. a vagina and a tdick. is that like. realistically possible ?

-🐾💾

Absolutely!

You'd have to discuss it with your surgeon, definitely and make sure they had the capability to give you what you're looking for but it's definitely possible.

There are a lot of possible variations to bottom surgery, all you need is to find someone capable of it and/or discuss the options for achieving it after the fact with your doctor/surgeon.

[what-even-is-thiss]

Talking to allo people who haven’t really interrogated how society has told them to view sex feels like that bit in SpongeBob where Patrick keeps failing to put his hand on the lid

[what-even-is-thiss]

Sex is just a thing. No it’s just an activity. It doesn’t have to be… no listen it’s just an activity. An activity. It’s just a thing. A thing. No it’s not the same for everyone it’s just an activity. No it’s a value neutral activity. An activity. An activity.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.

“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”

I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.

Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.

Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.

Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.

Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it I’m not gonna tell you that you’re wrong for feeling that way. That’s normal. It’s not a universal experience though. And if you can’t accept that, then too bad. Other people’s personal realities don’t exist to confirm your personal worldview.