[mxdvs]

[aceandkinky]

I am regrettably aware of the pitfalls of LDR subdrop *sighhhh* and lol cute kinky friends is a magical thing like wow the internet is great

Aw, sorry to hear that :c When I did some research about after-care for LDR sceneing and chatting with a friend, I wrote a big long mash-up of ideas. I’ll put it under a read-more here in case you want to read and take away any ideas or think about it more! Maybe someday I’ll put it together in a proper post.

kinky friends ARE great though c: don’t tell intimateintimations i said he’s great, it’ll go to his head ;)

Keep reading

[frankzdollie]

A Big List of Pet Play Suppliers

So I’ve been asked before where to get supplies at, and while I have not personally ordered from most of these shops (yay budget restrictions) I have been drooling over their products for long enough to have seen the raving reviews from their amazing customers who all have similar interests and standards. That being said here is the big list of everywhere I have had bookmarked for a while.

KittensPlayPen - Ears, Tails, Collars, Cuffs, Leashes, Customs, Day Collars, Tumblr: http://kittensplaypenshop.tumblr.com/ Shop: http://www.kittensplaypen.net/

Kitten Sightings -  Ears, Collars, Leashes, Handcuffs, Tumblr: http://kitten-sightings.tumblr.com/ Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/kittensightings Website: http://kitten-sightings.com/

Crystal Delights - Faux Tails, Pony Tails, Glass Plugs, Real Tails, Dildos Shop: http://crystaldelights.com/

The Spank Academy - Real Fur Tails (Plugs, Clips, UnAltered, Customs), Spanking Toys, Collars and Leads, Restraints Tumblr: http://thespankacademy.tumblr.com/ Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheSpankAcademy

GetFursonal - Fur Free Yarn Tails (Plugs, Clips, Customs), Furry Legwarmers Tumblr: http://getfursonal.tumblr.com/ Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/getfursonal

Delicate Kitten’s Boutique - Fun Fur Ears, Tails, Chokers, Wrist Ankle Cuffs, Customs, Sets, Collars and Leashes Tumblr: http://delicatekittensboutique.tumblr.com/ Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/delicatekitten

Lunar Kitten Creations -  Collars, Cuffs and Wrist Accessories, Garters, Jewelry, Hair Accessories, Cat Tails ( Pin on or Belt Loop), Hair Accessories, Customs Tumblr: http://lunarkittencreations.tumblr.com/ Shop: http://lunarkittencreations.storenvy.com/

BDSM Geek Shop - Gags (Bone, Ball, Jawbreaker, Bits, Hearts), Rope, Plugs, Vibrators, Dildos, Restraints, Cute Clothing, Lube and Cleaning supplies Tumblr: http://bdsmgeekshop.tumblr.com/ Shop: http://shop.bdsmgeek.com/

Little Pink Kitten Shop -  Harnesses, Collars, Garters, Chokers, Pins Tumblr: http://littlepinkkittenshop.tumblr.com/ Shop: https://www.etsy.com/au/shop/TheLittlePinkKitten

Moon Kitten Boutique - Thick Collars and Thin Collars Tumblr: http://moonkittenboutique.tumblr.com/ Shop: https://www.etsy.com/au/shop/MoonKittenShop

Pet Play Shop - Pony Play, Puppy Play, Bondage, Gags, Dildos, Lubes, Sanitation, Crops and Whips, Chasity Belts, Cat Suits, Harnesses, Dog Masks, Locks Shop: https://www.petplay-shop.com/

Noxhyde - Leather Specialty, Ears, Collars, Horns, Bracelets, Tails, Customs Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/noxhyde

Kitten Cream - Kitty Tails and Ears, Bunny Tails and Ears, Puppy Tails and Ears, Teddy Bear Tails and Ears, Collars, Sculpture Locks, Custom Designs Shop: http://kittencream.com

Fetish-Pets-Store - Suits, Harnesses, Collars, Chasity, Boots, Masks, Pony Play, Whips, Crops, Restraints, Pig Tails, Plugs and More Shop: http://www.fetish-pets-store.com/

The Well Kept Pet - Custom Pet Masks Shop: http://www.thewell-keptpet.com/

Kitten Enchantment - Collars, Tails, Ears, Plugs Tumblr: http://kittenenchantment.tumblr.com Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/kittenenchantment

Pinkmilk Sweden - Harnesses, Leashes, Chokers, Cuffs, Handcuffs Tumblr: http://pinkmilksweden.tumblr.com/ Shop: www.pinkmilksweden.com

Wayward Kitten - Tails, Collars, Cuffs, Knee Socks, Chokers, Customs Tumblr: http://waywardkittenshop.tumblr.com/ Store: https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/WaywardKitten

I definitely know I missed some great shops that I just haven’t discovered yet; that being said if you know of one or ARE one let me know so I can add you!

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[ladykaterina]

Alex in Ornate Rope Bondage photo by Vish.

[magic-spelldust]

Estrangement by MariaPetrova