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local woman 🐻 @pinklovehearts is my rainbow wife

[bearally]

would you guys play my two visual novels that I've conceived of in my head that dare to ask "what if you were a child getting groomed on the internet. Would that be fucked up or what"

[boudicasdaughter]

rest in power, marjane satrapi. 1969-2026.

[bearally]

the other day maia was like you and floraidh are so similar and it's a thought i have every time i open her blog. like i read even a very deeply personal post and i'm like wow... her journey is just like mine... i think the distance we live apart from each other was some sort of cosmic nerf because our combined hate irl would be too disruptive to the natural balance of the world on too frequent a basis

[schrodingers-lizard]

bro are you cheating on me with another professional hater…

[bearally]

there are so many more haters for you to interact with and discover. come with me.

[bearally]

you guys are telling me this is not Xemnas in his winter shade in a KH FF14 crossover but a whole different man?

[bearally]

i do not know if anyone here has had a similar experience, but if anyone else has issues with participating in conversations in terms of dominating conversions/not letting other people speak/things like that, i would really appreciate you sharing anything that has helped you be more conscious of this or stop the habit

[bearally]

the other day maia was like you and floraidh are so similar and it's a thought i have every time i open her blog. like i read even a very deeply personal post and i'm like wow... her journey is just like mine... i think the distance we live apart from each other was some sort of cosmic nerf because our combined hate irl would be too disruptive to the natural balance of the world on too frequent a basis

[honeyapplebutterfly]

I’ve been working on discomfort testing. I think it’s important for anyone who grew up super chronically online (or everyone really). Basically I try to put myself in situations where I’m uncomfortable with increasing severity. If you think you’re “lazy” because you just can’t force yourself to walk every day or you just can’t force yourself to clean your room or something like that you might wanna try discomfort testing.

I have big and small tests. A small test can look like: setting a 10 minute timer and cleaning as much as I can within that time. Walking around the block and seeing how many times I can tell myself “just one more block.” Forcing myself to read and pay attention to the most boring book I can find in my local library (they don’t usually end up being as boring as they look).

Big tests are like: forcing myself to go to a party where I know my ride is dependent on someone so I can’t leave until they do. Spending an entire day on a boat with no escape. Giving a speech in front of a room full of people.

Sometimes it’s not things I have to do but am too lazy to do but rather it’s about just testing my utmost boundaries to remind myself that I am strong and I can do things that feel hard or impossible. Last week I dunked my whole body in ice water. It was fucking scary. I lived.

Life is a series of forcing yourself to do difficult things. Start young and small and it’ll be easier to do the bigger things when you’re older.

[mtsodie]

moodboard

[snailtongue]

[ID: A small brown and white calf resting their head on the head of a large black longhorn cow. The bigger cow is grazing and paying no mind to the baby.]

[bearally]

vegan yoghurt update: alpro coconut yoghurt is divine. again still quite thin like their other yoghurts but impeccable flavour. big fan. had it with surreal (brand name not quality held by the granola) chocolate granola and vacuumed that thing uuup

[sonichedgeblog]

Misty Morning Kronos Island ‘Sonic Frontiers’

[bearally]

small updates as I have not been using tumblr much:

i got a tiny phone so i use social media less and it is working

new job rocks and everyone is very nice

women on my train keep getting on with those big ass goyard bags and i only just learned how much those ugly things cost

lovingmyfianceemaxxing always

trying to motivate myself to gym before/after work and would appreciate any tops anyone may have

my hair is getting longerrrr when I pull it it's down past my eyebrows now.

[korrasamibottles]

Not enough people talking about how well broccoli holds a sauce

[bearally]

cannot overstate the sheer Karen (non-derogatory) power the woman next to me on the tube is emanating. you know when older white women have that short hair where it's all bumped up in the back and they have a massive bayang at the front on one side and a smaller one on the other. she looks like she will fight the PTA about misallocated funds the entire time her children attend a school

[bearally]

New type of guy unlocked: open beer, open crisp packet, and OSRS on his phone on the 10PM train

[ghostisredacted]

just saw someone say "a fandom is small, so like only 1-3 fics posted per day" . you wouldnt survive a day in the place where im from

[bearally]

whenever I see stuff like this I think about this one influencer I briefly followed out of mockery when I was a child. her whole thing was the most disordered recipes you'd ever seen in your life that she was sincerely convinced were incredibly healthy and good for you. always these 0 calorie jams and sauces in every single recipe so youd be eating some rank mush of questionable taste and origin. think she was super into ice skating and maybe running too. it wasn't very kind to gawk at a woman who was clearly not mentally healthy but she had this big recipe blog and would staunchly insist everything was fine and normal. I wonder how she is doing now. hopefully recovering!