Between that male doms post, the post about exhibitionism being hot so long as men are not involved, and even one of my yuri forcefem instant loss posts I think it’s just a universal true that a lot of potentially hot or arousing things are kind of ruined by the presence or existence of men. The combination of already being societally pushed into being a sex object for men and not being attracted to men really kills so many examples of something that you might otherwise enjoy.
this extends to art about fetish worlds. the problem is that too often art about Fetish World where its your fetish is made by a man being very heterosexual about it and it ruins it.
World where men are regularly at risk of magically turning into women (awesome) and then men have sex with them (lame).














