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It's so weird that some people just come into your life, change you, and leave. Then you're supposed to move on like it didn't matter? That is such fucking bullshit. I hate the idea of people becoming distant memories to you. This person was alive and they mattered to you at some point in your life. I hate the idea of former lovers becoming villainized just so you can egotistically serve as the hero in your own story. They become the villain because they couldn't understand your love language or maybe they weren't ready for your love? I don't know. Maybe some people are just inherently bad for you? Which still doesn't give you the right to label them as bad people. I hate the idea of books, movies, and TV telling you how to think about love, relationships, and letting go. Instead of you coming to your own conclusion and figuring it out for yourself on what you should do or think. No one should ever tell you how to love someone or how to mourn for them when they're not in your life anymore because that experience is yours alone. We've been conditioned so much to go along with the crowd and to conform to what to think what love is, when it's something so incredibly personal to the beholder. No one should ever tell you how to feel or make you define it. That definition is yours alone.