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[manda-kat]

I think it's important to remember that just because you find someone basic or boring or whatever, you're actually very wrong and they are a unique and layered person with their own complicated life, emotions and interests. They don't have to perform anything to show you how interesting or special they are.

That straight white girl with her stanly cup and sephora makeup doesn't have to show you what makes her 'unique'. The older gentleman who shares conspiracy theories on facebook and mows his lawn early in the morning doesn't have to prove he isn't an 'npc' to you. The woman with the 'Karen' haircut and her son who watches stupid youtube videos don't have to drop everything to demonstrate to you that they can break the stereotypes you've associated with them.

Every person is a real person. Even if you never see them do a thing other than what you expect them to do, they are just as deep and emotional as you are because they are ALIVE! They're real! And they don't owe you a tour into their lives just to prove to you that they have thoughts and feelings! Just because you lack the empathy or understanding to see that someone who doesn't share your same lifestyle, hobbies or stereotypes might actually have a rich and detailed life, doesn't mean you're right.

[belladcmum]

My fave Ron Weasley headcanons:

He is absolutely the mother/father of the group. Even of his siblings. If anyone’s going to notice when someone is sick or not eating or upset it’s going to be Ron.

Because of that he is driven insane every single fall at the fact that every summer Harry loses all the weight Ron gets him to gain during the school year. Harry knows (and loves) that there will be a minimum of a week of Ron clucking and fussing and shoving food in his hands.

Ron is the stay at home parent. He loves taking care of his kids full time and cooking delicious meals for Hermione when she comes home from work.

NO ONE is more proud of hermione’a accomplishments than Ron is. And he takes every single moment to brag about her.

Because of hermione’s work and the fact that he’s the stay at home parent, most ppl think that Hermione is the dominant in the relationship. And they’d be dead wrong. Ron is the only person Hermione can totally turn her brain off with and he absolutely runs the house. He is her safe space.

Ron is the best at conflict resolution in the whole family. And they all go to him to fix spats.

Ron can find common ground with literally anyone. Even when Hermione takes him out to the muggle world he finds people to talk to.

[belladcmum]

I cannot believe that Hunt Athalar Baymaxed Bryce. Like that’s so funny. I loved it though.

[soihadthisdreamonce]

Emmett, addressing the camera like he’s in a documentary: Carlisle Cullen, noted doctor and vampire, has 51 distinct hugs. And I’ve taken the time to learn the subtle meaning and usage behind each one.

*camera zooms in on Carlisle giving Edward a hug*

Carlisle: You’ve done well son!

Emmett, without hesitation: Ah, number 33. The quick and soothing hug. With added encouragement to counterbalance moody tendencies. A true classic!

[belladcmum]

Kim (Jared’s imprint) headcanons:

She is a bargain QUEEN. She watched TLC’s Extreme couponing and it literally changed her life.

She gets the guys to cut coupons from the Sunday paper and you bet she has a zippered binder and an accordion file to organize everything.

The cashiers usually hate couponers but they like Kim because 1. She is literally the sweetest and most considerate person ever. 2. She knows her stuff and isn’t trying to swindle the system. No arguments over expired coupons here. And 3. The boys come with her and the cashiers love the eye candy. (This is also how Embry meets his imprint. )

She loves a good sale and has all the stores within a 2 hour radius sale schedule memorized and every fall she knows which stores clearance out their basketball shorts for the boys and sundresses for Leah.

She keeps the pack fed. It’s not uncommon for her to buy up like 20 boxes of Mac and cheese because it was on sale and it was double coupon Monday so she got them all for like 3 cents a box. And if there’s limits? Well she has every member of the pack make accounts and get rewards cards at all the different stores so they can keep Emily’s pantry stocked.

[belladcmum]

Well, Faramir, I think you’re the bee’s knee’s.

[oxydiane]

movie ron: i’ll heh go easy on you. even though you have consistently showed us how proficient you are at spellcasting and how hyper confident you are at magic. i’m the Man so i’ll go easy, don’t worry my overwhelming manliness will not allow me to disarm a poor defenceless girl

book ron: [excitedly] I DISARMED HERMIONE THREE WHOLE TIMES DID YOU SEE THAT HARRY DID YOU?????

[belladcmum]

Does anyone else every think about what an amazing book Ron that Rupert GRINT would have played? Like, how robbed were we?!

[futuresabove]

i don't know what younger person needs to hear this, but it is so valid to not want to drink alcohol at all, or to only want to drink very rarely. don't let others pressure you into joining in with those societal rituals. it is an outrage how normalized drinking alcohol is, to the point that those who choose to abstain are constantly forced to justify their private choices, be publicly questioned about what led to these choices or excluded from activities altogether. you do not ever need to justify your reasons for this. there are absolutely valid and important reasons to not drink, and nobody has a right to know your personal reasonings.

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

just once I want to see a good post critiquing makeup culture that doesn’t turn out to be made by some janky radfem blog

oh hey!! I’m not a janky radfem I can do it myself!

makeup culture is wack and normalizes a ludicrously high bar as the bare minimum women can do. I saw a “lazy"makeup tutorial the other day that listed 22 separate goddamn products. you’re supposed to buy and know how to use 22 different things on your face just for the privilege of being considered lazy and that’s uuuuuuh what’s the word? bullshit.

Really, five products could work, even 3. Just frame the face, eyes, lips, and you’re done.

0 products also works great

because I’m gonna be real here, the idea that 22 products is a minimum sucks but it’s really upsetting that any amount of makeup is the bare minimum at all

I would really just suggest some powder foundation, concealer, mascara and lipgloss/lipstick, or tbh just mascara works too, but that’s up to you

I’m sorry if I didn’t express this clearly enough in the original post but I’m not really looking for more concise makeup regiments. my intention was to point out how it’s Bad that makeup is considered a bare minimum at all, regardless of individual feelings on the matter

no face should be “required” to have “a minimum” of makeup. makeup has no health benefits and does nothing but fill the pockets of companies that prey on women and our insecurities.

makeup should not be seen as hygiene because it isnt. get that shit out of your head.

this post: makeup culture is ridiculous and 22 products should not be considered a minimum requirement for someones face. no one should have to do that

the notes: so like……. what youre saying is……. we need to make the minimum about 5 or 6 instead… i gotcha

Really the only makeup you need is eyeliner but that’s just my personal opinion

okay

where did we lose you

why are people like this

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

#nobody survived this post

[lilbit-of-kizzy]

Went into the notes and this is the first thing I saw

@whatsallthisnow sorry I’m dragging this out here cause yes, exactly

[belladcmum]

Not me feeling guilty and cringy because the fan fiction in my head has too many self indulgent plot points. The fan fiction that exists only in my head that will only ever exist in my head. And only needs to be liked by me.

[belladcmum]

Obsessed with the cover of this song lately. And I’ve been thinking about the story Jacob Black deserved. And I just keep imagining what it would have been like if he hadn’t imprinted on Rubella and what healing from everything would have actually looked like. Maybe he gets really into helping the tribe and his pack. And sure it started out as a way to exorcise his demons but it became something more. It became being the leader his pack needed. It became being the leader his tribe needed. And through learning to be the kind of leader that his dad could be proud of and helping his people and falling in love with his culture all over again, he truly finds himself.

And though he learns to be whole all in his own, it’s still hard to come home to an empty house. It’s still hard to see how happy the imprinted couples are. He’s proud of the community he’s helping to build but he longs to share it with something. Longs for someone he hasn’t met yet.

I can’t get passed that feeling of wanting and needing someone to share your life with to see how he meets his imprint. But I imagine she’s amazing. Strong enough to be her own person with her own personality but with the same longing for her other half.

IDK. I’ll never write it. Lol.

[ilikeit-art]

[dat-physics-gal]

atmospheric pressure

surface tension

lagrangian mechanics and stable fixpoints

minimizing surfaces and surface tension again

That is, in order, what you need to understand to get why this happens.

[belladcmum]

What if all their kids call him Uncle Steve?

[belladcmum]

And, oh gosh, Papaw Hop and Grandma Joyce. 😭

[belladcmum]

And they have big family reunions.

[belladcmum]

What if all their kids call him Uncle Steve?

[belladcmum]

And, oh gosh, Papaw Hop and Grandma Joyce. 😭

[belladcmum]

What if all their kids call him Uncle Steve?

[gendernewtral]

*missing the charging port on my phone* don’t think about it don’t think about it don’t think about it

[belladcmum]

Country moms be like: Booger (affectionate) and Honey (derogatory).