Local malware makes a gender

MY ACCOUNT/SOME OF MY FLAGS ARE NOT SAFE 4 EYESTRAIN | Im an adult👍| AEMOGAI | Benry IRL | DID sys, Autistic, BPD | White

[the-xenogender-survey]

Second Edition Xenogender Survey

Hello, tumblr! I am pleased to present our second edition of the xenogender survey, first held in 2023.

This survey is intended to be a detailed look at xenogender and neopronoun usage. As long as you identify as/with at least one (1) xenogender in any capacity, either solely or in addition to non-xenogender identities, you may participate in the survey!

Please take a moment to consider reblogging this even if you aren’t taking the survey, in order to increase our sample size!

There is no DNI or anything else that disqualifies takers as long as you identify with / as at least one xenogender, as this is intended for research purposes.

The survey will be ending on June 1, 2025.

Xenogender Survey 2025

Hello! If you are taking this survey, please consider taking a moment to reblog the post on tumblr and/or share this with anyone you know wh

[cock-holliday]

People do not see masculinity as being as fluid and complex and nuanced as femininity and it’s annoying as hell. Because of patriarchy’s stranglehold on masculinity and radfem theory’s stranglehold on queer spaces, people really think with their whole heart that only femininity is subversive or experimental, or frankly, queer, and that masculinity is only a power grab and nothing more. Embarrassing!

[cock-holliday]

Below is a bunch of writings from a variety of genders, cis and trans, on queer masculinity:

Female Masculinity by Jack Halberstam (book pdf)

Butch is a Noun by S. Bear Bergman (book pdf)

Understanding the Bear Movement in Gay Male Culture by Eric Manley, Heidi Levitt and Chad Mosher Mcoun (essay)

Site to showcase image collections and exhibitions<br />

How I learned to embrace my masculine queer identity as a Black woman | GLAAD

For Spirit Day, GLAAD Campus Ambassador Grace Ancrum shares her experience with bullying and coming into her gender expression.

Under Construction: Decolonized Queer Masculinity(ies)

This is something that I have been discussing with close friends and working on what this means for myself.  As somebody who is considered a

To Be A Trans Man: A love letter to trans masculinity  - Mermaids

Mermaids’ Luan meets writer Ezra Woodger to talk about his new book, To Be A Trans Man 

[jchance4d4]

...this all set me thinking. I don't actually care much if at all about "being a man" (which is a great improvement from the way I detested it, while not feeling like anything else as a teenager). However, I have a strong attachment to the concept of "gentleman"--not in the sense of having power from class and gender, but of doing right by others and myself in ways that _are_ masculine-flavored.

[dizzy-pops]

“People who claim to be endogenic are misinformed about the nature of systemhood, have most likely buried their traumatic childhood memories, and are usually not just faking” AND “I don’t want endos or their supporters anywhere fucking near me,” are statements that CAN and DO coexist, btw

[youlookkindadead]

we need to bring back the aemogai tags actually

[catgirltoes]

I don't think I've seen anyone talk about how transfems are pretty much entirely barred from working in childcare.

[catgirltoes]

The only possible motivation a transfem could have to work with children, in most people's minds, is sexual. There's no thought given to the possibility that it's steady work with good pay, or that she just needs a job and took the first thing that came up. And if she claims she likes working with children? Clearly a pedophile.

Hell, the only way you can even get one of those jobs as a transfem is if you can pass. If you're even a bit clocky, the interviewers are going to assume sexual predator and ghost you after the interview. And then if you do pass you have to be prepared to go extreme stealth, lest anyone find out that you're trans and throw a fit about your existence.

And so we're barred from a huge sector of the economy. Any jobs in daycares or schools are essentially unavailable to us, because we're assumed to be a danger to children. Because transmisogyny.

[dabwax-deactivated20250410]

If yall wanna talk about bathrooms and oppression - I'm a cis woman who can only use the men's bathroom or neutral bathrooms. Women's bathrooms are always a greater chance of assault and punishment because I am intersex. Men's bathrooms are safer every single time, despite men being the ones I'm afraid of if I use a women's restroom, possibly avenging their scared girlfriend or daughter. I've been living like this since 2017 and I've gotten serious UTIs and had screamcry meltdowns in my car over a lack of safe bathroom access.

I just saw a "well its harder for my trans group to use the wrong bathroom than your trans group" and the conversation 1. Sucks bc who is assaulted in bathrooms is any clocked gender diverse person and 2. Has zero consideration for intersex people per usual.

Bambi just reminded me of a time a guy made a tiktok showing off his knife and threatening to use it on me for... talking about how hard it is to use a bathroom while intersex. I'd forgotten entirely but they pointed out that I stopped using any public bathrooms for a while after that.

I'm sick of discourse that is disingenuous, selfish, special snowflake "I am the most oppressed" bullshit that entirely circles around my existence and the existences of all intersex people. Your discourse erases us! It's fucking wild!

[dwllie]

🪽𓂃 DiViNEBULLREDiAN 〰️

— DiViNEBULLREDiAN : a gender related to the color red, bullets, the video game buckshot roulette, and being a divinekin/godkin

coined by us ♡ requested by anon ♡ tagging @accessmogai for a flag id

[PT: divinbullredian~ divinebullredian: a gender related to the color red, bullets, the video game buckshot roulette, and being a divinekin/godkin. coined by us. requested by anon. tagging accessmogai for a flag id. /END PT]

[puriette-archived]

resource + themed account gathering

i'm making a little resource post for those who are looking for things but don't know where to look! here's what you're looking for (hopefully!)

flag resources:

stripes from webby-mogai , pt. 2 stripes from psycherachnid flag tips from corporatecoinings flag maker from littlepillbugs 3-12 striped flags from crowdsourcedgender stripes from laughdiamond flag resources from neo-pronouns (deviantart) flag tutorial from idolki coining resources:

xenogender suffixes coining resources doc from revenant-coining resources from enderluna

blogs i recommend:

@radiomogai - term archivist @mogaigonewild - term archivist (hiatus) @revenant-coining / @daybreakthing @rwuffles , @idolki , @phantasverie

if anyone has anything to add to this, please send me an ask or a private message and it will be added asap! (blogs would be nice too!)

[calicocollections]

STONE LESBIAN FLAG

a stone is a person (historically lesbian butches) who exclusively tops & gives, and doesn't like or does not want to receive/bottom. this flag is meant to be inclusive to all stone lesbians (butches, femmes, etc)!

made as a gift to my stone partner who couldn't find a flag they liked <3

[greysexuality]

Paragreysexual: a type of greysexuality where one feels like greysexual is VERY CLOSE to defining their own sexual identity, but the person still might feel a little unsure or anxious about their identity. This is within the asexual spectrum /community. 

[centlpede]

@radiomogai

[nebularomantic]

NEW TERM

Axinitian An orientation where you are wlw and nblw !  TERM COINED BY ANONYMOUS | FLAG BY ME

[objectumluv]

Blåhaj PlushJectum

[blåhaj PlushJectum]

An objectum term for those attracted to the Ikea shark plush known as blåhaj, pronounced blue-hai, be it romantic, aesthetic, sexual, platonic, alterious or other.

Requested by @rwuffles ' anon!

Please read the dni in pinned before interacting thank you

[antiendovents]

Y'all there is a transDID carrd going around right now, and it's absolutely insane. Like, it's extremely triggering and not okay. TW// it gives you instructions on how to get into an abusive relationship so you can learn to separate your emotions from you and stuff. Like, it's disgusting how badly some people ***want*** to become systems.

oh my fucking god..

[mogainauts]

Genderstoner

A genderhoard term for when it feels like you smoke your genders and collect them in a stash.

DNI

[io-archival]

[PT: Genderstoner /end PT]

@radiomogai

[transgenderpolls]

Trans people who've chosen a new name: Did you also choose a new middle name?

no, bc it's already neutral/gendered in a way i like

no, bc it's not something others will see/hear anyway

no, i just decided to drop my middle name entirely

no, with another explanation

yes, and it's just as much a part of my identity as my first name

yes, and it's MORE a part of my identity than my first name

yes, and I picked something important to me, but it's not an identity thing

yes, and I picked something mainly to flow well with my first + last name

yes, and I picked something simple, just to be gender-affirming

yes - my middle name is actually the ONLY thing i changed

yes, with another explanation

see results

Voting ended onSep 18, 2024

[virtualgirladvance]

fuck that thang it was always in the way

[discountprophet]

“queer people need to get weirder”

yall cant even respect trans men

[literaturegirls]

。．🌼 YUiLESBiC！

【🪴 YUiLESBiC。】　ーa gender connected to , represented by or affected by yui yamada && being a lesbian ! pls only lesbians use this : ) !

coined by me :) !

[io-archival]

[PT: (Yuilesbic.) /end PT]