Alexis.

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[capricorn-born]

Oddly specific. Got a deposit for 6,837 today

[theprincientist]

Don't Entertain Drama.

If you have the ability to leave the room, end the conversation or avoid the gossip go ahead and do that.

It's not worth ruining your vibe, spending your energy and damaging your reputation to trash talk others or getting involved in situations that don't bring you any benefit.

Don't forget to drink water and mind your business. The drama is not worth your peace. Let it go.

[netflixandnudez]

[icecoldwinter]

Some ppl don’t understand the mentality that comes with peace

[free-my-mindd]

Unfortunately, I don’t wanna rebuild bonds that I didn’t break. You crossed the line, I didn’t so I’m good.

[idknomore]

!!!!!!!

[youlove-a-deactivated20191116]

This the perfect weather to be in bed being nasty wit someone 😫💦

[tiffanyhaddish]

[90svigilante-deactivated2018022]

😩😂

[lividlovers]

LMFAOOOOOOO

I cannot believe this isn’t porn

I don’t even know what to say lmfaooo

[eatpussylivehappy]

Honestly this was the funniest movie in years

[lock-screens]

🍂 AUTUMN 🍁

[niqabisinparis]

little self care tips

- apply Vaseline to your eyes, lashes, brows, and lips before bed

- never brush curly hair while it’s dry

- on that note, applying products/oil to curly hair while dry is useless

- use a t shirt to dry hair to avoid frizz

- sleep without pants. trust me.

- avoid watery body lotions like Vaseline’s lotion. only dries you out

- avoid crystalline, jagged scrubs (sugar, coffee. St. Ives, etc.). Use round/gentle ones like oatmeal

- avoid coconut oil on face. if you apply it to your hair wash your face afterwards

- don’t put lemon on your face. it might seem like it’s helping but it weakens its protective layer in the long run. if you do use it, dilute it and avoid sun for a while.

- no toothpaste on pimples either it’s a myth

- why do u have a bra on at home. take that shit off and live a little.

- apply deodorant before getting dressed so it doesn’t rub off on your clothes defeating the purpose

- reapply sunscreen every 3-4 hours

- don’t text the fuckboy he don’t care about you

- wake up 30 minutes earlier to have a more relaxed morning and avoid rushing

- wash panties by themselves so you don’t get the gross dirt and germs from your other clothes mixed in. dry them in the sun to kill bacteria if possible.

- hand wash all hijabs they’ll last longer

- don’t use rose water with added fragrance. always check label

- eat at least one fruit or vegetable a day

- leave menial tasks for the end of the day. don’t drain yourself before getting to the important stuff

- before saying something mean or a nasty joke, take 5 seconds to think about it.

- apologizing first doesn’t make you weak

- being vulnerable doesn’t make you weak

- exfoliate after using foundation or powder

- clean phone screen with rubbing alcohol/sanitizer

might add more later or y'all can reblog with your own tips

[alpha--femalee]

Do not put your bras in the dryer!!! Hang dry them!! They will keep their shape so much longer. If possible, get a bra bag to wash your bras in. It protects them from the harsh movement of the washer and keep the clasps from hooking on to another piece of clothing and ruining it. Also try to use delicate setting.

Its you have bigger boobs like I do, get some “at-home” bras to wear when you’re just hanging around the house. I personally like sports bras from Walmart that are one size too big. Your back will thank you.

Sleeping without pants/shorts has changed my life for the better. Night gowns and sleep shirts are also great.

[misssgia-deactivated20170801]

Lock Him Down: The Rubber Band Effect

This is the approach I use to eventually become exclusive or in a long term situation with men I’ve met while freestyling. Its my catch n’ hook!

So, you’ve made it through the attraction stage. He likes you. You like him. At first everything seemed perfect but now he’s pulling away and distancing himself.

You’re probably asking yourself:

Did I do something wrong?

Is there someone else?

Will he call?

Am I doing the right things?

Am I doing enough?

And in turn you begin to pursue him. 

However, when a man stops pursuing you its in your best interest to resist the urge to find out what happened or to try and do something about it.

If he pulls away, you should gracefully allow him to take his distance.

Men are like rubber bands. They pull away. If you don’t run after them, they spring back.

By giving him space to pull away and then once again become more interested, you also get to know if this man is the one for you. 

If you allow him to spring back a few times, I guarantee that he will most certainty want to pursue a steady or exclusive relationship with you.

WHAT IF HE DOESN’T CALL 

If he doesn’t call for a while, give him a call but not to pursue him or to tell him how you feel about being ignored. Instead casually let him know that all is well. Call just to say hi, to thank him for something, or to ask a question that he may have some expertise about. 

Make it a short, friendly sounding call, so he clearly gets the message that you are not harbouring any resentment because he didn’t call. 

The worst thing you can do is to call him and interrogate him about his feelings about you and the relationship.

Sometimes in the early stages a man can forget about a woman (he’s most likely seeing other women). Three days, three weeks, or even three months can pass by in a flash, and then suddenly he remembers how much he liked you. 

He thinks about calling but anticipates that he will be rejected for taking so long to call. So he decides to not call and moves on. 

If he gets a friendly call, he gets the clear message that everything is cool.This gives him the go to consider pursuing you again.

SEX & PHYSICAL INTIMACY

Eventually, you might start to feel that you are not giving enough in return and feel obligated to give more. 

Most women sabotage the dating ritual by feeling the pressure of obligation and giving in to being more physically intimate than is appropriate at the time. 

You might shift to trying to please him. Inevitably your position will be compromised and he will lose interest. 

Just because you enjoy a man’s gifts does not in any way obligate you to give more than a smile or a thank you. 

Most men do not expect a woman to be physically intimate; they just hope to get lucky. They don’t think, “Well, I paid for dinner, so she should have sex with me.”  And if he does, he was NEVER a good catch.

Politely and firmly say no to the sexual part if you are not yet ready. If he can respect you, then he is worthy of you. If he cannot and stays annoyed, then he is not the one.  

The best approach is always to be clear. Being vague does not work. Many men hear a clear invitation to keep advancing when a woman says, “I don’t know. Maybe we should wait.” 

He will continue until he gets a clear no. 

“No, I don’t want to do that. I am not ready. I just want to kiss.”

I’m not going to say when you should and shouldn’t have sex. 

For me, before I give  him an orgasm, I need to first be open to having my own orgasm. 

When I feel a longing to have an orgasm and experience one through oral stimulation, then by giving him an orgasm I don’t feel like I’m giving too much or going too far. 

My needs have been met and I don’t mind reciprocating the favour.

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[elenajournals]

Peacock Journal, 1/1/17

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For @journaling-junkie‘s 2017 January Journal Challenge: New Year’s Resolutions

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[thelovejournals]

Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave. Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready. There is more extraordinary love, more love that you have never seen, out here in this wide and wild universe. And there is the love that will be ready.

Nayyirah Waheed (via thelovejournals)