Bi men positivity!

| Kyle | He/Him | 19 | NB Transmasc | Bi-demiaroace | A blog for ALL mspec mlm/nblm | I block trumeds, queerphobes, and gatekeepers of any kind |

[bi-men-positivity]

A panphobic person who believes queer is a slur was just recommended to me, because Tumblr said it was "similar" to this blog, so I just want to make a couple of my own stances here clear:

I support all multisexual sexualities. This includes pansexuality, omnisexuality, polysexuality (not to be confused with polyamory, but I'm supportive of that too), and whatever other labels fall under this.

I do not believe queer is a slur (anymore, anyway). I'm not saying everyone has to be comfortable with it, but it's literally no more of a slur than "gay" is. Just because it's sometimes used as an insult doesn't mean you get to call a whole ass identity a slur.

And, while we're here, I support all people on the aroace spectrum as well. (I sure hope I would, I'm literally demiaroace.) I believe aspec people are inherently LGBTQ+.

I will not be arguing with anyone about any of this, anyone looking to argue with me will be getting blocked. This isn't a discourse blog. And, quite frankly, if you disagree with anything I've said here, I would prefer it if you would block me, too. I can't MAKE anyone do that, but I would greatly appreciate it.

[acidashido]

*blows a kiss* for bi men

[neomedievalistbr]

Damn I know you have the bi flag in your avatar but you're like the straightest girl I know. You're more boy crazy that the average girl and just like fujoshis you're obsessed with gay men who want nothing to do with you.

im a guy

[neomedievalistbr]

i think abt this anon everyday of my life.

[annabelle--cane]

pan people are good and I like them. if ur pan I’m mentally shaking ur hand and “nice.”

[annabelle--cane]

bi/pan solidarity is really good and easy actually. I walk up to my pan friend and ask “hey why do you id as pan?” and they say “because I feel it matches my internal perception of my orietation. why do you id as bi?” and I say “because I feel it matches my internal perception of my orietation. yknow, our lived experience of being attracted to multiple genders is almost identical, it would be really stupid if I were to treat you badly and spend large amounts of my time insulting you because of some weird idea that your identity means you inherently think you’re better than me and wish I’d stop existing, right? that would be fucked up and mind numbingly pointless, right?” and they say “yeah man, it would be” and then we make a cake :)

[bemorekleinman]

happy pan visibility day

[bi-men-positivity]

Sorry I know I haven't been active here that much, but I wanna make this post bc I'm pissed. I'm SO SICK of panphobic bisexuals acting like every bisexual thinks pansexuality is inherently biphobic. Like please god it is not "us vs them", other queer people will never be the enemy. You can believe that bisexuals can be attracted to anyone AND also believe that pansexuality is a real and valid label. Because, shocker, labels are very personal and each person will have their own reason for using a certain label! Maybe there doesn't always have to be a very clear distinction between different labels! But also of course that doesn't mean that the difference isn't important to some people! Some people may even wanna use both! Or maybe a completely different mspec label! When will people just let people use whatever labels they want. Again, other queer people will never be the enemy, they are not doing You any harm inherently just for using certain labels. If people come to the wrong conclusions based on this, this is NOT that person's fault! It's the fault of the person that came to the conclusion. It doesn't need to make sense to you, bc it's not your identity. Respect that other people will always know themselves better than you.

It's actually very rare nowadays when I even find a panphobic bisexual tbh! I used to see a lot more of them, but now, thank god, there's waaay more that are for bi/pan solidarity. So panphobic bisexuals Still saying this confuses me so much. I also think it's no coincidence that a lot of these people also end up being aphobic, and that, similarly, aphobia has died down nowadays as well.

Anyway I love pansexuals (and anyone else who is mspec, including mspec lesbians and gays, for the reasons above), from, ur local bisexual <3 And happy pride month!

[balladofthelamb-deactivated2022]

i LOVEEEEE bi men i love bi men i love talking to bi men theyre so cool and i love the understanding we have between our identities, regardless of if theyre trans or not, i love the gnc energy of bi people, i love the way bi men approach their sexuality and gender, MWAH!!!!!!!!

[bicultureblog]

🍻for all of us, forgotten bisexual guys that few ones talk about

🍻we’re here we’re queer we’re sharing a beer

[bi-men-positivity]

Sorry for rarely posting on here btw, I haven't abandoned this blog I promise. I just don't tend to see much content to reblog onto here as I've had to unfollow a lot of the bi-centric blogs I used to follow for some reason or another (a lot of them ended up being aphobic/panphobic). And the ones I still follow are more inactive nowadays too.

Also, I've mentioned this before, but. When I made this blog, being bi was definitely a huge part of my identity. And don't get me wrong, it still definitely is a significant part of my identity. However, over time, it's been taking more and more of a backseat to me being aroacespec, as that affects my attraction way more. I tend to not think about being bi as much as I used to. So I often just, forget to think of posts to put on here.

I don't want to get rid of this blog, though. Because, just like when I made this blog initially, mspec men are still lacking in content and viability. It's especially hard to find content from people that aren't exclusive in some ways or another. Whether that be because they think "bi" should be the only mspec label, or because they're aphobic, or because they're nbphobic. I still want to be able to provide a space for people like us. I'm still a bi man at the end of the day.

So. Sorry if content is slow. I'm still here. I promise. Feel free to send asks to this blog if there's anything you'd want to see discussed here.

[martinlomax]

i dont see many positivity posts for you guys so…

pan mlm, whether you’re panromantic, pansexual, or something else, youre so cool and amazing! your love is just as beautiful as anyone else’s. dont let ppl getcha down!

[gaycamlo]

MLM who also love other genders are not lesser. They are perfect in their attraction to men and other genders. They are not bad, wrong, or worse because they aren’t solely attracted to men.

[transmasc-wizard]

WHAT'S THAT??? YOU'RE PAN??? THAT'S COOL AS FUCK

YOU'RE OMNI??? THAT'S COOL AS FUCK TOO

POLY??? WOAH THAT'S ALMOST TOO COOL

BI??? SAME, WE'RE COOL TOO

MSPEC SOLIDARITY, MOTHERFUCKERS

[pepabigsmol]

I can never find any posts specifically for polysexual men so here goes nothing

Polysexual men, I see you, and I hear you. You get silenced, but I hear you. 

You get blindsided, but I notice you. 

You get vaguely mentioned but not outright, and I feel you.

There are posts that barely include polysexuality, let alone any mention of polysexual men, and I feel that and it sucks.

You guys are just as important in this community as everyone else. I don’t care if you never dated the opposite gender(s) or you only dated 1-2 genders or you haven’t dated anyone yet cuz you’re just figuring things out.

Y’all get so underwhelmingly recognized that it’s ridiculous. Especially polyromantic asexuals and aromantic polysexuals, I am not lying when I say don’t believe I’ve ever seen a post about you guys.

That’s gotta change. You guys are essential, you’re valued, you’re important. Doesn’t matter how many partners you’ve had or what pronouns you use or what your gender identity is. Polysexual and Polyromantic men, you deserve recognition year round, not just only during pride month.

Rise up. Be the first well know polysexual male tiktok star. Be the first openly polysexual man to be a celebrity. Be the first openly polysexual man to be a scientist. Make some history. Because the last thing you need in this world is to be silenced by your own community members.

Polysexual and Polyromantic men ✊🏽💖💚💙

[dear-yellow-legal-pad]

I saw bi positivity post and it had the anti pansexual tag on it and I’d like to say, as a bi person, if you’re pan, omni, poly, or anywhere on the multisexual spectrum, you are awesome and you deserve all the love from all the genders you are attracted to! And if you think multisexual identities are biphobic, you suck and don’t talk to me ever

[ghoul-ishly]

Hiiiiiiii

I love men❤

I love transmascs❤

I love nonbinary people, and other genderqueer people who lean towards masculinity❤

I love all mspec men❤

I love arospec and acespec men❤

I love queer men❤

You all deserve love. You all deserve to exist comfortably and happily. You all deserve to feel and be safe in communities online and offline.

[damicantcope-deactivated2025101]

idk apparently this is a hot take

[vaguely-problematic]

louder, for the people in the back

[sylceon-remade]

happy birthday to the bi flag

[sunrisetune]

[ID: A Wikipedia screenshot that says, “The first bisexual pride flag was unveiled at the BiCafe’s first anniversary party on December 5, 1998, after Page was inspired by his work with BiNet USA.”]