at a cafe overheard someone say (loudly) "EVERYONE CHEATS" and perked up my ears bc hey free relationship drama.
turned out she was talking about filing taxes. i hold you in significant esteem ma'am
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at a cafe overheard someone say (loudly) "EVERYONE CHEATS" and perked up my ears bc hey free relationship drama.
turned out she was talking about filing taxes. i hold you in significant esteem ma'am
Hey so. Reducing transmasculine erasure to a victim complex is fucking sickening.
Transmasculine erasure (commonly called "invisibility") is not "ohh, people aren't punching me because they don't know about me. I wish they'd punch me" its having our identity, and even the crimes and suffering we face erased from history. Its the denial of life saving care because doctors and pharma companies refuse to see us, refuse to TREAT us, or demand we detransition to accesss the care.
Refer to Lucas Redbeard: who was murdered, but local news sources refused to even speak about him, only his murderers.
Refer to Robert Eads: who was turned down for treatment of ovarian cancer until it was beyond treatment.
Refer to the fact that many trans men are scared to go on prep, despite being sexually active, because drug companies refuse to test or gather data on how it affects us.
Refer to the fact that transmasculine people are disproportionately affected by scuicide; even for the queer community.
If you wanna criticize victim complexes in the queer community, go the fuck ahead. That needs addressing. But to devalue transmasculine erasure to a fucking victim complex is disgusting. Quit contributing to transmasc erasure, fucking acknowledge the problems that are faced by trans men, mascs and adjacent people.
the way people say "the girls and the kind of girls" to say "women and nonbinary people." it's icky and exorsexist in a way I don't know how to describe. they sure do love their boxes, huh
this is exorsexism
the teen titans powersets are so crazy because itās like. girl whose father is the devil, from the bible. girl who can make the earth swallow you. alien princess with laser beams. boy who can do a backflip
#he does really good backflips
oh okay that clears it up. thanks
Why do people ask "This is satire, right?" rather than just "this is a joke, right?". Not everything is satire. Satire requires having little goat feet. And my feet are notably fins.
I used to think āsoupƧonā was a French word for crouton and I used it as the French word for crouton for a long time and nobody stopped me.
SoupƧon actually means āsuspicionā and the reason nobody called me out on this is because I would use the word to imply the idea of something sprinkled on top of something else ala croutons. If someone said, āA soupƧon of homoeroticism,ā I thought it meant āSomeone sprinkled homoeroticism on this story like croutons on a delightful Caesar salad.ā
I wrote multiple essays that used soupƧon as a noun with this translation in mind and I got a degree and this haunts me.
Thereās no point to this post, itās just very important to me that you know that I can be quite stupid
When I say "godspeed" (I say it a lot) I like to imagine I'm a member of a futurism religion that worships velocity above all else. Like its the standard well-wishing in my culture. Speedliness is next to godliness. Someday we'll catch him! And the closer we get the more he loves us
they should invent a disproportionate emotional response that goes away when you understand it's disproportionate. they should invent a way to logic yourself out of emotions
My grandma could've been an incredible architect or engineer. A fashion designer, even. She was incredibly intelligent.
She was pulled out of school when she was around 13 to help care for her younger siblings. Im not sure if my grandpa would've been against her going back to school, but with him being the sole breadwinner, and them having 7 children that she was expected to take care of on her own, i don't think she would've had the time. I think about her a lot.
isn't it crazy that a woman being gender nonconforming literally just requires her to exist in her own body without making any changes whatsoever. why does the fact that i don't wear makeup and i don't shave and i don't wear a bra have to be some political act. why can't i just fucking exist
cis people loooooove to try and forcefully define transphobia as only explicit vitriolic hate because it means they donāt have to examine their own small transphobic actions and behaviours
Fixed the transphobic/intersexism
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the youtube notification of ''ooohh your video isn't starting up smoothly???? turn off your ad blocker you cunt <3'' is so pathetic to me bc it takes five seconds max. you think i can't wait five seconds? you think i need to give you money because five seconds is too long? i pity your wife.
I do consider myself somewhat ""blackpilled"" in regards to FTM oppression.
Once you really look into it you realize just how much is written in our blood.
"If trans men are so important where were they at Stonewall?" Across the street locked away in an over crowded, rat infested prison. Thats where we fucking were.
Looking into The Womens House of Detention, located directly across the street from the Stonewall Inn was really the final nail in the coffin for me.
Its 12 story maximum security torture asylum, its estimated 75% or more of the THOUSANDS of prisoners kept there where WLW or transmasc. Gender non-conforming women and "women" where the main targets. You could be thrown in here for: walking alone at nightz wesring pants, being poor, "imporper feminity" and prostitution (which trans men and butch lesbains have a very expensive history with, I'd argue as expansive and soul destroying as trans women and twink history with it. However ours is heavily covered up. There where times in history the association between gender non-conformity and prostitution was so stronge a "women" presenting masculine was considered a flag for it.)
It was open from 1929-1974. Meaning it opened BEFORE any of my grandparents where born and didn't close until both my parents where well into being children. It is extremely recent.
During the Stonewall Rebellion the lesbains and trans men imprisoned there threw whatever they could at the cops, they lit stuff on fire, they screamed, they did all they could from their cells to aid in the fight against the police knowing it was certain to make their stay in Hell longer and far more brutal.
This prison was also a well known issue at the time, queer locals (Gay men, trans women and the lesbains and transmascs who managed to avoid arrest) where trying to get it shut down. You could hear the screams coming from withen just walking by it.
How fucking dare you all forgot these people. How fucking dare you act like our historical absences is because we abandon our community. By denying our oppression and ignoring our contributions you are not only spitting in the face of us. You are spitting in the face of every single queer elder who tried to fight for us. You are spitting in the face of every trans women elder. You are spitting in the face of the queer historical figures you pretend to respect.
Fuck all of you.
this is a statement from victryena, a trans woman of color who was mass harassed by (mostly) white trans women on twitter for reposting a protest sign saying "white trans people are oppressors too". the sign itself was a response to septembersister, a black trans woman and refugee in canada, having her speech suppressed at the vancouver transgender march protest. here is her full speech, made later. i am platforming them because they need to be heard, and the content of their words is urgently relevant to the current state of transfeminist discourse.
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Trans people of color are underrepresented and outnumbered. When we stand up and make ourselves visible, we put ourselves at risk of disproportionate scrutiny and harassment, not just from transphobes and bad actors, but also from those within our own community. When we want to make ourselves heard, we're told that now is not the time. We're told it's stirring up drama, in-fighting, and bad optics. Even how, and when, we express our grievances is policed. When we use provocation, it's inflammatory and lacks nuance. When we use satire, it's offensive and unproductive. When we share our personal experiences, it's the oppression olympics. When we share statistics, it's sowing division. When we clarify ourselves, it's back-pedaling. When we defend ourselves, it's doubling down. When we criticize too harshly, we're asked to placate. When we don't criticize hard enough, we're ignored outright. When it's said by a large platform, it's engagement baiting and fed posting. When it's said by a small platform, it's buried and forgotten. When it's said by a SWer, it invites shame and disparagement. And when we're lucky enough to survive beyond all of the compounding systemic barriers placed upon us (before, during, and after transition), we're seen as the example and not the exception. It's suffocating, disillusioning, and isolating. Even within a community that claims to include and support us, we have no voice. Acknowledging the intersectionality of trans people of color, especially those who are black and indigenous, is not something new within progressive spaces. And it does not take anything away from the very real experiences of white trans individuals. But it also does not absolve them from, or grant them immunity to, the same racial prejudices and biases held (subconsciously or otherwise) if they were cis. Having a marginalized gender identity does not come with the awareness of marginalized racial identities. White hegemony and oppression do not disappear when recontextualized within a transgender space, just like they don't within queer spaces more broadly. It still exists including through unexamined racial privilege and how that shapes behaviors and attitudes, and how trans white voices dominate discourse and dictate the overarching priorities of the trans community while excluding, dismissing, sidelining, and being blind to, trans bipoc perspectives. And that was made very clear from the responses throughout this entire discourse, including the same familiar displays of white fragility and conservative talking points used when confronting racial inequality more generally. To me, and all the other trans bipoc, who read every defensive reaction, deflection, straw man, dismissal, bad faith interpretation, condescending interjection, anecdotal fallacy, pedantic argument, disparaging comment, accusation, and personal attack. Every "well actually", "not all white people", "all lives matter", and "we have bigger problems". Only for those same people to inevitably virtue-signal about how their peers need to do better when one of them is outed for racism (if at all). The irony and hypocrisy has not been lost on us.
This isn't a call to action for the greater society to solve all the issues that every trans person experiences, nor is it the business of anyone outside of the trans community. It's a conversation for the trans community specifically and a direct call to action for white individuals (across all gender identities) within the trans community to take a moment of self-reflection and to have a willingness to listen with an intention to learn. Why should those in power care about the struggles of trans people as a whole when they themselves are not directly impacted and have larger problems to address? How can trans bipoc be expected to wait until the broader trans issues have been solved to finally have a voice? Especially when our own white trans peers disparage and deprioritize our grievances in much the same way? Why is the consideration of trans bipoc experiences sidelined as a secondary goal to the broader effort of transgender liberation instead of being seen as an integral and interwoven part of it? In the US, the women's suffrage movement failed to maintain intersectionality and abandoned racial equality in order to secure the white vote first. There's no need for straw man arguments when an actual equivalent example already exists. Acknowledging and platforming the most vulnerable within an already marginalized group is not a means of division, but rather an explicit act of solidarity. It's not just about not oppressing those among us with less privilege, but uplifting them with the privileges we do have so we are all empowered to fight together. None of us will be heard until we are all heard. And none of us will be free until we are all free. The trans rally sign that read "white trans people are oppressors too" wasn't even mine (mine said "trans joy"⦠lolā¦), but I understood the subtext (and context) enough to take it in good faith, and to advocate for the very real sentiment behind it. Is the semantics and optics around how we define and confront racial prejudices and systems of oppression within our own community really that much more important than the act of actually addressing it? Let's not wait until another white trans person gets outed for racism, or for another trans person of color to get dogpiled by their white peers into silence, to have this conversation again. Trans lives matters include trans bipoc lives. Trans bipoc rights are also trans rights.
Itās odd when men blame women for the āmale loneliness epidemicā because oftentimes men are lonely in their own friend groups. Of course youāre lonely dude, your friends know literally nothing about you. You havenāt had a vulnerable moment with them ever. They donāt even know your surname. Instead of leaning on a random woman go lean on your buddies bro