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Memoirs of a Butch Lesbian

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The note at the VA dental front desk says, "Please check in at the kiosk. Thank you."

Naturally, I check in at the kiosk. Because of my conditioning and socialization, I don’t presume to think that I deserve special treatment. Old white male goes to the front desk to check in and the woman checks him in.

The privilege isn’t just that she didn’t tell him to use the kiosk, as they have done me in the past, the privilege is also the fact that he walked past the kiosk, ignored the sign, and went to the front desk *expecting* the women to check him in for his appointment.

Read more here: https://bigboobutch.com/2017/10/07/white-male-privilege/

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#TransgenderAlternativeFacts Surrounding Stonewall & The LGB Riots

Hello and Happy GAY Pride my sisters!!

Let’s talk about Stonewall, shall we? The bar in New York that sparked the LGB Civil Rights Movement!

I saw this in my Tumblr feed this afternoon and it made my blood boil a bit because we lesbians have been fighting the re-written HIStory for several years now.

Read more here: https://bigboobutch.com/2017/06/10/alternative-facts-surrounding-stonewall-the-lgb-riots/

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As Pride Month begins, let’s not forget who paved the way for us. We have a lot to thank Marsha P. Johnson & Sylvia Rivera for. 

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Ugh - Transgenders continuing the lie that they were the ones who started the riots at Stonewall, kicking off the LGB civil rights movement, when it was actually a butch woman (Stormé DeLarverie)* & a drag queen (Sylvia Rivera)**. We have to keep fighting against these lies or a whole new generation will believe them & pass them on, forgetting the actual truth, the actual history!!  

*Stormé DeLarverie (December 24, 1920 – May 24, 2014) was a butch lesbian whose purported scuffle with police, many eyewitnesses recount, was the defining moment that incited the Stonewall riots, spurring the crowd to action.[1] She was born in New Orleans, to an African American mother and a white father.[2][3] She is remembered as a gay civil rights icon and entertainer, who graced the stages of the Apollo Theater and Radio City Music Hall.[1] She worked for much of her life as an MC, singer, bouncer, bodyguard and volunteer street patrol worker, the "guardian of lesbians in the Village."[3]

She is known as "the Rosa Parks of the gay community."[1][4][5][6][7][8][a]

Read more here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Storm%C3%A9_DeLarverie

**Silvia Rivera: “The early 60s was not a good time for drag queens, effeminate boys or boys that wore makeup like we did.Back then we were beat up by the police, by everybody. I didn't really come out as a drag queen until the late 60s.When drag queens were arrested, what degradation there was. I remember the first time I got arrested, I wasn't even in full drag. I was walking down the street and the cops just snatched me.”

Read more of his interview here: http://www.workers.org/ww/1998/sylvia0702.php

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Just Catching Up!

I forgot about my account here until a sister reminded me, so I wanted to be sure to put all of the blog/vlog posts I’d missed posting while I was away.  ;o)

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Vlog Post 5: Lesbians Throwing Lesbians Under The Bus For Men

Here I talk about lesbians throwing lesbians under the bus for the sake of men. It’s terrible to think about there being male-centered lesbians out there, but they are there. Let’s talk about a piece written by a male-centered lesbian who thinks women ID as the slur, “TERF” & who tosses lesbians who don’t agree with the gender ideology under the umbrella of hate.

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/05/24/vlog-post-5-lesbians-throwing-lesbians-under-the-bus-for-men/

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Vlog Post 4: Lesbian Erasure

Here I talk about Lesbian Erasure.

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/03/27/vlog-post-4-lesbian-erasure/

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Vlog Post 3: Here, I Talk About Intersectional Feminism, etc.

Here, I talk about intersectional feminism, non-binary/GNC v. sexual stereotypes, male violence, male transgenders harming women, biology isn’t a social construct, & my wish for a gender-free world.

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/03/20/vlog-post-3-here-i-talk-about-intersectional-feminism-etc/

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Male Transgender Violence Against Women Is A REAL Thing

Transgender propaganda states that no woman has ever been harmed by a transgender in the women’s bathroom or in any other women’s private spaces, e.g., locker/dressing rooms, homeless and battered woman shelters, jails/prisons, etc. But if people would actually LOOK, instead of relying on transgender alternative facts, they would see that the stories are there, numbering in the dozens, at least, of women being assaulted, raped, and killed both by male transgenders and males who are not transgender, but pretend to be in order to gain access to women’s private spaces, because male violence is a real thing.

See more here: https://bigboobutch.com/2017/02/27/male-transgender-violence-against-women-is-a-real-thing/

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The Cult of Gender

Gender Is a social construct It harms women By assigning Sexual stereotypes; And by pitting Woman against woman, Sister against sister.

Gender Permeates our very lives With rigid protocols Of how a woman should be Who she should be. Should she deviate, She will be shamed. Scorned. Corrected.

Gender Is conditioning from birth. This is why some Mistake it for being innate. But it’s taught Crammed Down our throats From the moment we enter this world, Wearing pink or blue beanies.

Gender non-conforming people We are the pioneers. Showing the world What it would look like Without gender Without sexual stereotypes Without patriarchy, We, who buck gender.

Women wearing “men’s clothes,” Men wearing make-up and dresses We are not trans! Transgenders adhere strictly To the sexual stereotypes Of the opposite sex! Claiming that personal traits MAKE them the opposite sex!

But no! They are not the opposite sex And they never will be! To accept one’s body Nourishes one’s soul.

Gender Is a cancer. It is to be plucked out By any means necessary! It is time, my sisters For a revolution, ‘for dismantling the patriarchy, And for destroying the Cult of Gender Once and for all!

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/01/24/the-cult-of-gender/

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Fly

In Love… & Solidarity…

Darkness falls Across the country A bitter pill to swallow As he steps forward, Arm raised Standing With my sisters We prepare to fight With foreboding A task that seems Too great Suffragettes Fought before us Leading the way Into The light Now It is our turn To make a stand Against tyranny Misogyny so fierce It threatens to erase us From existence We must Together Stand against a hate That burns like fire Soar above The violence & rhetoric Show the world We will not fade away Teach our little sisters To fly

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/01/21/fly/

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Vlog Post 2: Here, I Talk About “Misgendering”

Good afternoon, sisters! This is my next vlog post at youtube. It’s on “misgendering,” which, honestly, isn’t even a real thing, much less suicide-inducing!

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/01/12/vlog-post-here-i-talk-about-misgendering/

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Delusions of Gender: Sexual Stereotypes Do Not Define Women & Men

Here we have yet another male who uses sexual stereotypes to define what a woman is. We should not be enabling these people in their delusions!

We should be teaching our boys that they can like dolls, dresses, skinny jeans, high heels, long hair, & makeup & it’s ok! That they can be feminine while still being boys & men, that there is nothing wrong with them liking these things, & that these things do not a woman make!

See more here: https://bigboobutch.com/2017/01/04/delusions-of-gender-sexual-stereotypes-do-not-define-women-men/

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Vlog Post 1: Straight People Appropriating Lesbian Culture

I know I haven’t written in a while & this year, I resolve to write more posts & more often! I also wanted to give vlogging a try. So I created a video of me talking about straight people appropriating Lesbian culture, trying to force us to change our language, & how Lesbians should band together, stand up, & say “no more!”

https://bigboobutch.com/2017/01/04/vlog-post-straight-people-appropriating-lesbian-culture/

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For Male Transgenders, It’s All About Perception

I have been dealing with trans activists for … well over a decade now and I can tell you, without a doubt, that the “bathroom issue” is not about “just needing to pee.” It is completely, 100% about perception.

Men who desire, actually demand to use women’s restrooms (and to be admitted into all women-only spaces) do so because they wish to be perceived as women. If it were actually about their safety, because they are attacked in the men’s restroom, then (a) this country would finally be able to have an honest discussion about male violence; and (b) these men would be ok with a single stall “gender neutral” or “family” restroom.

See More at: https://bigboobutch.com/2016/05/13/for-male-transgenders-its-all-about-perception/

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Jenner’s, “Hardest Part About Being A Woman”

As you may or may not know … wait, who are we kidding? He’s all over the news, he has completely immersed himself into the media because he gets off on all of the attention. So you have most likely already seen the BuzzFeed interview of Bruce “Caitlyn” Jenner, entitled “Caitlyn Jenner on The Moment She Felt Most Proud to be a Woman” (sic). In this bit of his interview, he also discusses what he feels is the hardest part of being a woman. He said this:

There you go folks! The hardest part of being a woman all comes down to: what to wear.

Of course a man would think the hardest part of being a woman would boil down to clothes. In his autogynephile mind, all a woman is, is her clothing, because that’s what gets him off: dressing as a woman and, of course being seen as a woman.

We are all apart of his pornographic fantasy, nothing more.

Read more here: http://bigboobutch.com/2015/11/11/jenners-hardest-part-about-being-a-woman/

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“TERFs” Do Not Actually Exist, Fellows

I honestly cannot believe that we have to continue to discuss this over and over and over again; but I guess when you are dealing with juvenile young men with male privilege who have yet to have fully developed brains and older men with male privilege going through midlife crisis, not to mention all of the women who, for some disturbed reason, support all of these men, then I guess womyn just have to continue to calmly stay on point and tell these men and the women who support them, again, that they are wrong. In so many ways, yes, but I am focusing on this for a minute.

Read the rest here: http://bigboobutch.com/2015/11/10/terfs-do-not-actually-exist-fellows/

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CD available, website has link to downloadable album, lyric and chord book downloadable and hard copy coming soon. Please share widely!

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Awesome sister and friend who makes some radically delicious music! Please visit her site and think about buying her CD or downloading her music. Also, reblog this far and wide! Thank you, sisters!