A straight 30-something who loves to eat

35 year old, male, straight. Somewhere along the way, my love of food got me fat (nearing 300 lbs now), and then I realized this is how I'm naturally happiest.

[bigguyalex]

Before, during, and recently since deciding to let myself grow fat and become the BHM, and eventually SSBHM, I know I need to be. I suppressed my inner fat man for far too long. Now, I'm enjoying stuffing my face to free him so my future FFA/feedress can see the real me, and someday help create a jaw dropping after photo!

[bigguyalex]

Gravity clearly has more fun with a fat boy!

[feedernest]

​A whole block of butter and a mountain of chocolate, just to make sure his waistline keeps expanding 🤭 I love knowing exactly what’s going into his body—and exactly where it’s going to settle.

​Reblog if you’d want me to take over your kitchen too 😈

[bigguyalex]

Gotta love a feeder who knows her craft. That's right girl -- grow my waistline! Introduce me to next level big. I didn't sign up to stay the same ol' size around you

[bigguyalex]

As a man who loves food too much to put the fork down, I've realized I need a woman who loves fat too much to want me to.

[cookiegurl99-blog]

I’ve only ever been in love with fat men in my life—I like their tenderness, their devotion and capacity for pleasure, their rebelliousness against social norms, their frequent ability to maintain a relationship on equal footing without need for sexist put-downs. None of them, however, have been interested in fat admiration or gaining on purpose. Most were simply foodies or ate their feelings (already cute), but they actually wanted to lose weight, keep their T-shirts on while swimming, and preferred to have sex in the dark, even though I found them so hot. They weren't believing me when I reassured that I liked them much better fat. But how exciting is it to be in contact with someone who can enjoy their own fat, their weight gain, and my admiration for their softness? With whom I can actively rejoice when he widens his waistline, over every roll that adds to his love handle, over every inch of his waist circumference. Feels like I finally can reveal a part of my personality. I want to cheer you on and support you, because I truly love it when there’s more of you to love. If you want a second helping or a third, if you want another dessert or appetizer, or if you want to snack again shortly after a hearty meal, I’m your biggest fan. You’re growing because you like it yourself and you're growing to please me. And I love that. It’s such a delicate and wonderful experience.

[bigguyalex]

How could I not love giving my lover more of me to love and sink her hands into? Just as she filled my appetite until I was overflowing, I want her arms filled until she is overwhelmed caressing my surrounding presence. Just as she helped me escape into the pleasure of a wonderland of calorie-laden feasts, I want her to escape into exploring the vast wonderland of my body and all its fat-laden bulges and rolls that we created together. How could I not love making my self more jiggly, more wobbly, more winded -- more vulnerable -- all so it makes it even easier for my darling to take advantage and push me deeper into her intense, transforming, pervasive love. How could I not love having my body softly adorned by a constant reminder of my feeder's heavy affection.

[bigguyalex]

Gotta keep this gut soft, so my future FFA doesn't break any fingernails while digging into it

[bigguyalex]

It turns out clothes fit me a little differently when I'm enjoying everything I want

[bigguyalex]

Now carrying around about 10 more pounds and counting!

[likeaballoon]

ways to say gaining weight that I find incredibly hot:

fattening up

ballooning out

swelling up

plumping up

stretching out

[bigbelly]

Great advice!!

[bigguyalex]

piling on the pounds

putting on weight

filling out

getting pudgy

blossoming

rounding out

becoming obese

getting fat

growing

getting a belly

supersizing

getting a fuller figure

getting big

going large

going soft

turning into a butterball

blowing up like a blimp

spilling over

letting your waistline spread

[m0ttif-cool-deactivated20260510]

Make me THIS

Wide.

Huge.

Big.

Enormous.

Fatter!

[bigguyalex]

Make me king sized as my queen deserves!

[luna-ffa]

If you could chug melted ice cream for me night after night until I can lead you to the bedroom by your belly hang...

that would be perfect.

[bigguyalex]

My love of ice cream is pretty much what melted my physique!

[eatformelove]

capacity contrast isn't talked about enough, like wdym you can eat TWO (2) pizzas and still not be full??

im out here getting bloated from a burger 😭😂

[bigguyalex]

I'm a contrast to my old self. Fast food orders that I distinctly remember making me feel stuffed in college are a mere snack nowadays.

[bigguyalex]

Often one of the main reasons I don't stuff my face even more is because this big gut keeps me too pinned down to get up and waddle back to the kitchen

[growing-bolder]

I think more women should fatten up their men because they can

[bigguyalex]

Surround his physique by a constant reminder of your overflowing love

[brokenlittlebunbun]

Yesterday’s peanut butter brownies….

(Not shown—homemade peanut butter frosting)

[bigguyalex]

I'm convinced nothing grows a man's gut faster than baked goods -- well, especially with a cup of heavy cream to wash it down and some encouragement to go ahead and just finish the whole pan

[bigguyalex]

Dear FFA, I come pre-fattened, but that doesn't mean you can't fatten me some more

[bigguyalex]

I just want to give my appetite free reign with a woman who always thinks I should take another bite. I want to let myself grow with a girl who always thinks I'd look cuter with a couple more inches around my waistline. I want to be softened and fattened by a lady who thinks there's no such thing as too much squish to sink into.

[verytinybun]

[bigguyalex]

The perfect strategy for the most successful feedresses. Soon a feedee begins to associate eating with sexual pleasure.