BEING GAY AND CUTE AF

Im Bella 19 june11th She /her Pan/Demi

[p13rr0t]

the more I try to get into art college the more I realize why Mona was like that

[billaballabella]

I could make a certain joke...

But I won't

[mortimermcmirestinks]

[hairscare]

being an intersex person who isnt a waifish hairless elf devoid of any visible sex characteristics i honestly think if i was a fictional character id be denounced as a transphobic stereotype

[hairscare]

when intersex people have mixed sex characteristics and hormones 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[luke-shywalker]

hey it’s ok if you lost your ai virginity back when you were uneducated. a lot of posts go like “reblog if you have never ever used generative ai and never ever will!!!” but it’s ok if you have used gen ai before and it’s even ok if you used to think it was cool, back before you understood what it really was and how it worked, either because no one had taught you about it and you discovered it on your own or because the only education you had received about it was from the tech bros. you’re not a burger with a bite out of it for having used ai. ok

[dnealians-nemesis]

It is 100 percent okay to stop using it today and join the "boo AI" club.

This isn't a purity thing. This is a "everyone stand with us against destroying the environment and giving asthma to poor people" thing.

Did you know that when one community says no to an AI data center, they specifically search out communities with fewer resources? Communities that can't defend themselves? And the pollution 100 percent affects their health and wellbeing, in addition to burning through our already scarce drinking water.

You can stop using character.ai today. You can say "I listened to the facts and stopped." And another thing: don't you think it's a bit more impactful to have used it, stopped, and then you're in a position to say how little it helped? How doing things for yourself improved your life?

[yeahwrite]

also posts in the spirit of "if you've used AI even ONCE your soul is tainted!!!!" can't be great to those with OCD

[rosavaya]

“Many people seem to think it foolish, even superstitious, to believe that the world could still change for the better. And it is true that in winter it is sometimes so bitingly cold that one is tempted to say, ‘What do I care if there is a summer; its warmth is no help to me now.’ Yes, evil often seems to surpass good. But then, in spite of us, and without our permission, there comes at last an end to the bitter frosts. One morning the wind turns, and there is a thaw. And so I must still have hope.”

— Vincent Van Gogh

[anarchistmemedistro]

[mentalhealthmemesofficial]

[notthegrouch]

“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning.” 

- Vincent van Gogh

[billaballabella]

...yea..the world can change everyone can and even good can get better :3

[depsidase]

[billaballabella]

"Not every statemnt that trans women are valid needs a statement that trans men are too" Maybe if you didnt say shit like that it wouldnt.

But Transmen keep getting the short end of the stick.

Transmisogny is treated a serious problem but Transmisandry / Transandrophobia is laughed at.

And BTW BOTH ARE BAD!

And it breaks my heart that so many big Trans femem creators let their hate for having had to present Male and for the Patriarchy Catch trans men in the cross fire.

Youre nt gonna dismantle the patriarchy by shooting at people affected by it too. Much less your own kind.

If youre Trans and Treat Transmisandry as a Joke youd be better of as a terf. ( That last part might be a bit extrem but you get the intente)

goodnight Tri state area.

[billaballabella]

Grugg :3

[billaballabella]

petulant childa

Thats not a question also you mispelled child.

:3

[billaballabella]

you are a very kind girl, i hope you will be forever strong and happy and the world doesn't break you

Thank you :3 i promise it wont

[the-blue-fairie]

Original comic by Rasenth

[ebenana]

Leelah Alcorn was a trans girl, a teenager, who sadly committed suicide nearly 10 years ago. I'm happy that her comic touches the hearts of so many people, years after her death.

I saved screenshots of her blog and last message to the world. Her parents had a lot of control over how she was perceived after her death, but it was also to prevent deletion by Tumblr itself. Even back then, Tumblr has been shadow banning trans women on this platform.

My heart goes out to all trans women who are struggling with society's expectations of who they are supposed to be and who they are allowed to be. May you find peace, growth, and respite from whatever you're going through. You deserve happiness, most of all. Thank you for living, thank you for being here with us.

[billaballabella]

I felt the need to reblog this from myself

[goodgirlfemme-deactivated202605]

i will never engage in “callouts” of trans women and i think anyone who claims to be an ally to trans women shouldn’t either. i think you should just leave trans women alone. like just as a general rule.

[goodgirlfemme-deactivated202605]

stop looking at the behavior of every transfem with an internet presence with a microscope. stop the harassment campaigns that don’t hold anyone accountable or accomplish anything except putting a trans woman in danger. you are not just isolating her but also sounding the alarm to powerful groups of people who want to make her life hell. trans women are highly vulnerable, and it’s worth extending her a little grace instead of throwing her to the wolves because she did something you didn’t like

[pocket-deer-belly]

there is not a single one of these harassment campaigns that has cared about any actual victims of harm. it's all about socially isolating her and making her fucking radioactive to even vaguely associate with. it's all about spotlighting her and not caring what happens next, so long as she dissappears. stalkers will promise you head to toe that this time it's different and it's not transmisogyny to point out that a trans woman can be a bad person while hitting every possible transmisogynist talking point. they are fully aware of the spectre of the transfeminine sex pest and want to use it to ruin her life.

[billaballabella]

Transgirl here. I wanna add Transfemmes can be Bad people.. BECAUSE EVERYONE CAN BE BAD PEOPLE AND OVERGENERALISING AN ENTIRE GROUP AND THEN USING A BUNCH OF STEROTYPES AGANIST THAT GROUP IS NOT OK.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

great job not reading the post

[billaballabella]

I was agreeing with you. But theres some trans women that hav geniuenly done bad Stuff but their transness and badness arent related.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

theres a time and place

i want you to think about this very hard. who benefits when you say "some trans women are genuinely bad"? who does that help? what even is "genuinely bad stuff"? what is the point of you and people writing callout posts keeping actual offenses so vague and unspecified? and why do you feel the need to bring up "genuinely bad trans women" on this post specifically?

because right now, this discussion is not about whether or not some hypothetical people are bad. this is a discussion about how transmisogynistic harassment campaigns are always wrong and exist only to excommunicate trans women from the internet, thus depriving them of what is likely their only source of connection and companionship. they do not prevent crimes. they do not help victims. in fact, most of the targets of these attacks are victims of stalking, abuse, or csa themselves

while you might think you have good intentions, you are only contributing to transmisogyny by repeating the same talking points used by people who contribute to these harassment campaigns. and the worst part is i dont think you even realize you're doing it

think before you speak. please

[billaballabella]

Youre eright im sorry.

I had already discussed this with a friend of mien who agree dtheres a time and a place. for things liek that

Sorry about it i Tend to overfixcate on tiny details especialyl with Morality.

I actually agreed withyour point though.

I was just slightly bothered cos soem trans women have doen bad things ( LIke Chris-chan, Sophie Labelle or Blairewhite) but i admitedly took it to far mb

[goodgirlfemme-deactivated202605]

i will never engage in “callouts” of trans women and i think anyone who claims to be an ally to trans women shouldn’t either. i think you should just leave trans women alone. like just as a general rule.

[goodgirlfemme-deactivated202605]

stop looking at the behavior of every transfem with an internet presence with a microscope. stop the harassment campaigns that don’t hold anyone accountable or accomplish anything except putting a trans woman in danger. you are not just isolating her but also sounding the alarm to powerful groups of people who want to make her life hell. trans women are highly vulnerable, and it’s worth extending her a little grace instead of throwing her to the wolves because she did something you didn’t like

[pocket-deer-belly]

there is not a single one of these harassment campaigns that has cared about any actual victims of harm. it's all about socially isolating her and making her fucking radioactive to even vaguely associate with. it's all about spotlighting her and not caring what happens next, so long as she dissappears. stalkers will promise you head to toe that this time it's different and it's not transmisogyny to point out that a trans woman can be a bad person while hitting every possible transmisogynist talking point. they are fully aware of the spectre of the transfeminine sex pest and want to use it to ruin her life.

[billaballabella]

Transgirl here. I wanna add Transfemmes can be Bad people.. BECAUSE EVERYONE CAN BE BAD PEOPLE AND OVERGENERALISING AN ENTIRE GROUP AND THEN USING A BUNCH OF STEROTYPES AGANIST THAT GROUP IS NOT OK.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

great job not reading the post

[billaballabella]

I was agreeing with you. But theres some trans women that hav geniuenly done bad Stuff but their transness and badness arent related.

[goodgirlfemme-deactivated202605]

i will never engage in “callouts” of trans women and i think anyone who claims to be an ally to trans women shouldn’t either. i think you should just leave trans women alone. like just as a general rule.

[goodgirlfemme-deactivated202605]

stop looking at the behavior of every transfem with an internet presence with a microscope. stop the harassment campaigns that don’t hold anyone accountable or accomplish anything except putting a trans woman in danger. you are not just isolating her but also sounding the alarm to powerful groups of people who want to make her life hell. trans women are highly vulnerable, and it’s worth extending her a little grace instead of throwing her to the wolves because she did something you didn’t like

[pocket-deer-belly]

there is not a single one of these harassment campaigns that has cared about any actual victims of harm. it's all about socially isolating her and making her fucking radioactive to even vaguely associate with. it's all about spotlighting her and not caring what happens next, so long as she dissappears. stalkers will promise you head to toe that this time it's different and it's not transmisogyny to point out that a trans woman can be a bad person while hitting every possible transmisogynist talking point. they are fully aware of the spectre of the transfeminine sex pest and want to use it to ruin her life.

[billaballabella]

Transgirl here. I wanna add Transfemmes can be Bad people.. BECAUSE EVERYONE CAN BE BAD PEOPLE AND OVERGENERALISING AN ENTIRE GROUP AND THEN USING A BUNCH OF STEROTYPES AGANIST THAT GROUP IS NOT OK.

[wolfertinger666]

god, people who police other queer artist art for being "problematic" and not depicting queerness with sunshine and rainbows is ANNOYING

[wolfertinger666]

it's like that person Calling me weird for having a trans character in my story get semi deadnamed in a flashback.

lemme pull you closer:

artists are not entitled to depict their experiences in a sanitized and clean way to make you and the broader audience comfortable. they are allowed to show the hardships and ugliness of their life, it's what makes art. this way of thinking snowballs into the many censorship laws effecting queer creators the hardest TODAY. make your own shit or go.

[wolfertinger666]

tbh, I really wish stories can have fucked up elements in them without people doing a huge moral panic over it thinking nothing bad should be depicted unless that means you condone it (NOT TRUE)

it sucks that if you want to make art that appeals to your niche while being a therapeutic outlet for your experiences you gotta tone it down or else people who only consume queer media from corporations will be on your ass.

[asterosian]

The whole debacle is. Well. Let me break this up into a much smaller series of statements and maybe it’ll make what’s going on on tumblr clearer. This is important to me because I think it illustrates well what I think of the entire discussion surrounding whether or not transandrophobia exists and whether trans men and transmascs have male privilege or not.

Staff is transphobic. We’ve all known this for a long time now.

A forcefem blog run by a transfem who thinks transmascs are all evil privileged transmisogynists gets popular

One random person accuses the popular forcefem blog promoting incest

Staff deletes the popular forcefem blog

Staff does not get blame or criticism for this

Trans men and transmascs who use a word for their oppression are blamed for this

A popular forcemasc blog starts getting hate, death threats, and demands to “delete out of solidarity” (this would achieve nothing except silencing more trans people)

The random person who accused the forcefem blog of incest starts targeting the forcemasc blog too

The forcemasc blog either gets deleted or goes private (hopefully the latter)

Staff is still ignored entirely in this

A self-identified TME creates a list of “transmisogynists” to mass report; the list contains multiple transfems

Staff is still ignored entirely in this

Trans men, transmascs, and their supporters are now basically expected to shelter themselves from an oncoming storm of harassment while extending positivity towards each other and proving their innocence

Staff is still ignored entirely in this

Staff are the ones who can delete your blog

Staff is responsible for blogs getting terminated

Staff is still transphobic

Remember this next time trans people are chased off the internet or laws are passed and someone has the impulse to blame other trans people

[ionized-angel]

lets not forget this Absolute Banger. but pointing out how fucking disgusting it is to say this about headmates is just Pedojacketing ig

[billaballabella]

Tldr: THIS IS FUCKED.

Why, forcefem likers.

I mean i like it too but.. Dotn force it on Transmasc, doofuses.

Plus what the Pop blogger said is just... Disguting

[roadhogsbigbelly]

i think the reason "fiction affects reality" trips so many people up is because they think it means "engaging with media that depicts uncomfortable subjects will taint your soul" when really all it means is that "fiction is meant to reflect certain ideas of the world intentionally or not, and it's going affect your perception of it, if you don't go in with a healthy bit of skepticism"

[roadhogsbigbelly]

like playing a first person shooter isn't going to turn you into a school shooter, but that doesn't mean that Call of Duty isn't like. explicitly military propaganda.

or (for a more specific but also weirdly common example) enjoying horror movies isn't going to turn you into a serial killer, but if you watch a lot of horror where the killer is "a gender confused man who kills women whilel dressed in drag, because his repressed female split personality hates his attraction to women because it gives her gender dysphoria" than you should like. be a bit criticial of what you're enjoying. or something like that.