you can call me bunny/toy (mutuals might get an actual name to call me by). switch, but i'm probably going to largely be sub-posting on here. over 18. blog runs on a queue that is poorly maintained. genderqueer, aromantic + acespec, hopeless romantic, scene slut, the living embodiment of a cheap playboy bunny halloween costume. osdd system but we're all kind of the same guy so it's probably not gonna come up that often.
dni: cis men unless you pass the vibe check (read: i follow you first). anyone right-wing. centrists are on thin ice. radfems of any kind. minors (obviously, this is a porn blog. keep it to yourself until you're old enough to be interacting with it legally). bambi sleep enthusiasts (godspeed, but as someone who's already got other people in their head i need to not get into that at all costs). misogyny kink blogs. detrans/dykebreaking/acebreaking/any other de-queering kink blogs. ai users/ai image posters. anti-rpf shouldn't nessecarily not interact but you're probably not gonna have a fun time here. misgendering & malgendering will get you blocked, no exceptions. this blog is run by an anti-binary, queer, disabled pagan; if you have a problem with that, then fuck off.
music you should listen to if you like this blog
turn-ons/things i'm likely to post about:
hypnosis (this is what 90% of the posts on this blog will be about in some form)
bimbofication (this is also a VERY big one)
dollification
petplay (i am a bunny. weh <bunny noise)
hornyposting about a bunch of emo boys in shitty bands. i will not be apologizing for this
a lot of run-of-the-mill bdsm stuff. specifically the b and the sm
monsterfucking (mostly vampires but that's just because they're edgy and have knives in their mouth. i do also want to fuck the non-human monsters. i'm not a poser)
soft limits/things i MIGHT post about but probably won't want involved in play:
intox (wonderful in theory but i don't tend to have great reactions to being inebriated)
puppyplay (all my love to the pups in the crowd but i'm so un-doglike it's actually kind of ridiculous)
most things involving bodily excretions that aren't blood or spit
hucow
hard limits/turn-offs:
forcefem/forcemasc (the only force-presentation my genderqueer ass is down with is force-emo and if you try to forcemasc or forcefem me i'm strapping you in the sexy mad scientist brainwashing chair that i stole and i'm making you watch release the bats on loop until your brain breaks. genuinely all my respect to those of you who are into it but if anyone tries to do it to me again i'm Killing You) (this could probably be shortened but i think i'm fucking hilarious)
feet (all my respect to the foot lovers in the crowd but this one is unfortunately an ocd thing)
incest/fauxcest (see above. you'll find there's a lot of things that i don't have any material problem with but my ocd takes several issues with)
ageplay/ddlg (also see above but less ocd and more "i was a victim of csa and do not want to get triggered so i'm just avoiding that entirely". if you post about this and i blocked you that's probably why. sorry)
FAQ:
are you (male/female/afab/amab/tma/tme)?: i'm doing great, officer, how are you? (i do think these terms can be used in constructive and useful contexts, but i am not likely to nor do i want to discuss those contexts on my silly weird porn blog. if you're really curious; i have tits, but it's none of your business how i got them, and you're not gonna see what's in my pants anyway, so why do you care? you're probably not even seeing the tits)
what are your pronouns?: come up with something and see if it sticks. gender is fake (if you're really uncreative it/its is always a good fallback option)
can i call you a man/woman/boy/girl? i'd prefer if you didn't but if there's not a good alternative i'm not gonna stop you. other gendered terms are fine but please avoid the like. gender terms. if you're looking for an alternative to good boy/good girl specifically the preferred option is good bunny. very evocative
why is your blog title about putting pants ON: ironic for a porn blog i'm aware but it's a line from my favorite movie
why are you posting horny rpf/homestuck fanart/fiction on here?: https://wikipedia.org/autism <note to self: replace this with actual link
didn't you have (kink) on your turn-offs/limits at some point?: people grow and change and also i am in therapy for the aforementioned* ocd. so probably yeah
why are you trying so hard to make yourself look cool: mean but fair. would you believe me if i told you it was masking (it is) (i'm very autistic if it wasn't already glaringly obvious)
are your dms/asks open?: yes, but due to the aforementioned autism my responses may be weird and/or barely there. i'm usually better at responding to asks than dms
were you joking about the force emo thing: not in the slightest. get more emo NOW
happy disability pride month to mean cripples, nasty addicts, people with down syndrome who arent nice and talk constant shit, wheelchair users that WILL run you over, autists that dont care and arent about to pretend to, people who lie to their psychiatrists, people that sit on the floor in public places with no benches, amputees that lie profusely about "what happened", ; to the "noncompliant", the "drug seeking", the "mean", the "difficult" and the "undeserving", and so on and so forth, i love us all and we deserve the world actually mwah mwah
to people that hide contraband in their assistive devices. to people that do party tricks they arent supposed to and people who will spit on you if you ask them to do party tricks. to people that weaponise the infantalisation of disabled people for their own purposes (theft et. al.). to the people who "misuse" their medication and people who dont take it at all. to my mother, who takes out her hearing aids when she doesnt want to hear shit anymore but will still pretend to be listening so you dont catch on. to people who sleep all the time and to people with "abnormal" circadian rhythms who are unwilling to alter their sleep/wake cycle to best appeal to societal (and moral) expectations. to people that complain loudly about inaccessibility and refuse to try and "make it work". to people that charge money for invasive questions and people that pretend not to understand the question at all.
The Trump administration is cynically exploiting calls for stricter AI regulation to pass broad censorship measures at the federal level.
So, in terrible news, Trump's trying to pull some strings to pass this massive internet censorship bill, featuring all the kinds of internet censorship we're terrified of, including mandatory ID for accessing basically any website, specifically to crush state regulation of AI, because apparently this man will always see the moral bottom of the barrel and start digging.
So, if you live in the US and hate censorship and AI you know what to do, contact your congresspeople and tell them do not fucking dare let this through or so help us god...
IMPORTANT UPDATE: The bastards just worked out a deal on the package, and they're going to try and ram it through the House in the next couple of weeks.
So, if you've been waiting to call, the time is NOW. Do it ASAP, be polite, be informed, but light up those phones like a Christmas tree!
Talking to allo people who haven’t really interrogated how society has told them to view sex feels like that bit in SpongeBob where Patrick keeps failing to put his hand on the lid
Sex is just a thing. No it’s just an activity. It doesn’t have to be… no listen it’s just an activity. An activity. It’s just a thing. A thing. No it’s not the same for everyone it’s just an activity. No it’s a value neutral activity. An activity. An activity.
I’ve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.
“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”
I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.
Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.
Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.
Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.
Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it I’m not gonna tell you that you’re wrong for feeling that way. That’s normal. It’s not a universal experience though. And if you can’t accept that, then too bad. Other people’s personal realities don’t exist to confirm your personal worldview.
Okay your punishment is that you have to tell me exactly what is you desire. No keysmashes, whines, or hiding your face. Your punishment is to tell your dom in clear and explicit detail what you want from them
I hope all the subs reblogging this adding something about how they couldn't handle this, realize they're only making themselves more appealing bait for exactly this treatment
Ahh. I don't know about this. This should be the standard. You as a sub are responsible to be able to communicate your desires and what you want from your partner. While I agree it is very very sexy to being forced to confess your deepest darkest desires without being able to hide (like duuh very sexy) but it really should be a pillar of the partnership to be able to do so outside punishment.
Forget autopilot. Your safety doesn't depend on a "protective subconscious." It depends on you, conscious and active. Agency is something you do, not something you magically have.
Negotiate from clarity. Your first line of defense is explicit negotiation before entering trance. Limits, desires, safewords. If you can't speak clearly outside, there's no safety inside.
Train your "NO". Practice rejecting suggestions and using your safeword inside trance, from day one. It's a muscle that strengthens with use. An ethical hypnotist will celebrate you for it.
Know and fortify yourself. Work on your self-knowledge and self-esteem. Fawn responses or trauma make it harder to hold boundaries. Your psychological well-being is your fundamental shield.
Claim your power (and your responsibility). You are the person ultimately responsible for your safety. Empower yourself with knowledge, practice, and the choice to play only with people who respect your active agency, not those who promise magical protection.
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