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BNHA Boyfriend according to your zodiac sign
Aries : Aoyama Yuga
Taurus: Iida Tenya
Gemini: Kirishima Eijiro
Cancer: Fumikage Tokayami
Leo: Ojiro Mashirao
Virgo: Bakugo Katsuki
Libra: Hanta Sero
Scorpio: Midoriya Izuku
Sagittarius:Â Shigaraki Tomura
Capricorn: Â Kaminari Denki
Aquarius: Shouto TodorokiÂ
Pisces: Dabi
Jisung being acknowledged as the most handsome member, itâs what he deserves đ
Bonus: Jisung accepting his position as the visualâŚtoo well XD
THIS WAS SO CHAOTIC I CANT BREATH THEY ARE SO PRECIOUS
is your heart fluttering again?
Jeong Joon Hyung: The Boyfriend of a Feminist
1. Joon Hyung is not a guy you have to change for. He likes you, as you are. Pimples on nose and all. It always irked me that dramas like She Was Beautiful or 200 Pound Beauty or every other teeny bopper romcom in the States - looking at you Sheâs All That - always has this makeover scene where the frumpy heroine becomes a bombshell goddess.Â
Bok Joo doesnât have that moment. She doesnât have a montage where her hair becomes all silky and sheâs wearing heels and she takes off her glasses and why sheâs a goddess.
Joon Hyung saw a Bok Joo that was in sweats, a weightlifter, with calluses on her hands. And he liked her for it, because what happened to Joon Hyung was not that Bok Joo became pretty and bam he liked her.Â
What happened to Joon Hyung was that he got to know Bok Joo. How she was a kind daughter, a loyal friend and a good person. He got to know a Bok Joo who made his heart warm and that was what made her beautiful to him.Â
Not her physical appearance.
And I donât know about you, but thatâs just really lovely for me.Â
2. Jealous Joon Hyung is not asshole Joon Hyung. Most K-drama guys become macho-men Iâll pee over you like a dog because youâre mine when they get jealous. Jealousy, by itself is not bad per se. But jealousy that leads you to treat characters as objects (see Lee Min Ho in BoF, Heirs and now LotBS) it crosses a line from awwww so cute to ewwww Iâll get a restraining order on you.Â
This is why jealous Joon Hyung is my favorite guy. Joon Hyung gets jealous because he likes Bok Joo and some other guy is chummy with her. But his response is:
a. To ASK Bok Joo, not to DEMAND Bok Joo not to see this guy again.
b. And when he realized his jealousy stemmed from loving feelings for Bok Joo instead of cooking up a sick reason to keep other guy away, he tells her straight. Iâm jealous because I like you. Give me a chance. Itâs all up to you. Do with me as you please.Â
This is whatâs good about them. Even jealousy is healthy for them, itâs a driver for them to address how they feel.Â
3. Joon Hyung is not a knight in shining armor. He thinks Bok Joo is strong enough to fight her battles, but that doesnât mean he canât support her.Â
He looked after her dad.
He did not kick up a shit storm when they had to be apart because sheâs training for the national team. Instead he understood that to Bok Joo being an athlete comes first, and her family second and heâs happy to be there to help her with it. Thatâs what makes Joon Hyung such a loveable guy. He doesnât demand that he be the center of your universe. He just wants to share the world with you.Â
And after all the macho men who think itâs romantic to tell a girl to ignore her family and dreams and responsibilities and look at me, only look at me, Joon Hyung is a refreshing reminder that love is not selfish, love is not an or but an and. And that when you truly love someone your life opens up to include them in it.
boyfriend material of the year
My First First Love s2 [Spoilers]
I donât understand why some people pretend that My First First Love wasnât about tae-o and song-iâs journey to figure out their feelings for each other. Do-Hyun was always meant to be the external factor, the push for tae-o to figure out his feelings just like se-Hyun took that spot from song-iâ perspective. I think even one of song-i friends told her on ep1 sheâll realize her feelings for him when someone else comes.
Song-iâs feelings for tae-o were always there but manifested through actions. How she always put him first, cares about him in a way that as do-hyun described is devoted [noted how that word was used by song-i as well to describe the girl he wants for tae-o on the beach]. Doing things for him that seemed natural for her just like putting notes on tae-oâ food on the fridge. As Hun told her, when it comes to both of them she needs to think whoâs first and tae-o was always a priority. The type of bond they share is difficult to break, not even by their partners.
Tae-o is more emotional and since we are seeing it from his perspective is easy too miss the signals on her part. But the actions were always there, something that even do-hyun could see, but choose not to acknowledge or thought he could change over time.
i think s2 was a moment of grown for tae-o and do-hyun. Tae-o let go of his selfishness - admitting his feelings for song-i was also big for him, it showed him that he canât keep seeking that validation he was searching by dating se-hyun. By the end we saw a more mature version of him with his goofy/happy side. And as do-hyun put it, he allowed himself to dream, and to see that his emotions werenât as controlled as he thought they were, that thereâs things he needs to do in other to grow.Â
I honestly also believe that song-i is more herself around tae-o. She seems happier, like a big weight has been lifted off her shoulders. I donât dislike the relationship w do-hyun because it was mature and something she needed at the time but ultimately it wasnât going to work out. First relationships are always exciting but it wasnât her first âfirstâ love. it was always tae-o.Â
(And letâs be honest and say Ji soo and Chae Yeon have better chemistry)
Itâs a beautiful night,
weâre looking for something dumb to do.
Hey baby, I think I wanna marry you.
Thatâs how I know you are the one.
why havenât we memed the original barbie movies yet???
like
they
have
so
much
potential
like
ahhhhhhhh
tbh the most memeable on is princess and the pauper.
This post is send by the gods to us blind fools
my sister and I used to watch the movies with the sound turned off and split up the characters between us to silly-synchronize as we watched. when the songs came on we turned the volume back up to make up song lyrics as we went along. they were SO WELL FIT for parodies?!! shame we never recorded any of that. it was glorious.
Movies to watch.
The DreamersÂ
Interstellar
Good Will Hunting
Cruel Intentions 1-3
Restless
Maleficent
The Girl Next Door
Fear
Her
Ex Machina
Sheâs the Man
Three Meters Above the Sky
Sheâs All That
Me and Earl and the Dying Girl
Like Stars on Earth
Speak
Ex Machina
Ferris Buellerâs Day Off
Divergent Series
Twilight Series
Taxi Driver
The Revenant
Virgin Suicides
Harry Potter Series
East of Eden
Crazy, Stupid, Love
Rebel Without a Cause
Mad Max
Weâre the Millers
Bridge to Terabithia
Whatâs Your Number
Love, Rosie
Stuck In Love
The Crush
The Breakfast Club
All Nicholas Sparks Movies
Grease 1-2
Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Juno
Clueless
Heathers
Dirty Dancing
Poison Ivy 1-4
Not Another Teen Movie
Dazed and Confused
Say Anything
Psycho 1-5
10 Things I Hate About You
Gone With The Wind
Some Kind Of Wonderful
Pretty In Pink
Sixteen Wishes
Pulp Fiction
The Boy In Striped Pyjamas
Never Been Kissed
Now You See Me 1-2
Gone Girl
500 Days of Summer
All About Eve 1950
Sixteen Candles
The Art Of Getting By
The Proposal
The Martian
Forgetting Sarah Marshall
Sleepless In Seattle
Ferris Buellerâs Day Off
V for Vendetta
White Chicks
The Philadelphia Story 1940
Nothing Hill
Back To The Future
When Harry Met Sally
The Outsiders
Of Mice and Men
Stand By Me
50 First Date
The Delinquents
Dead Poets Society
Canât Buy Me Love
Dog Day Afternoon
Roman Holiday
Only Lovers Left Alive
The Outsiders
17 Again
Awakenings
American Psycho
The Great Gatsby
Revolutionary Road
The Last Picture Show
Basic Instinct 1-2
Memento
Imitation Of Life
The Hand That Rock The Cradle
Transporter 1-4
Blackboard Jungle
Girl Interrupted
Giant
Trainspotting
Schindlers List
The Talented Mr. Ripley
18 Again
The Diary OF A Teenage Girl
Romeo and Juliet
Private School
Canât Hardly Wait
Whatâs Your Number
Top Gun
Charlie St. Cloud
Pride and Prejudice
Back To TheFuture 1-3
The Boy Next Door
To Kill A Mockingbird
E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial
The Blues Brothers
Weird Science
The Godfather
Adoration
The Heiress
Catch Me If You Can
Perfect Sense
Fast Time at Ridgemont High
Private Lesson
The Karate Kid
Mission Impossible 1-5
Sense and Sensibility
Princess Diaries 1 and 2
Breakfast at Tiffanyâs
Fatal Attraction
Shameless
Leon The Professional
A Street Car Named Desire
The Wild One
Crybaby
The Perks of Being A Wallflower
American Beauty
Black Swan
Boy Meets Girl
Whatâs Eating Gilbert Grape
West Side Story
Lolita
Brokeback Mountain
Perfect Sense
Vanilla Sky
Silver Linings Playbook
Submarine
Miss Peregrineâs Home for Peculiar ChildrenÂ
Basic Instinct
The Good, The Bad, The Ugly
The Chase
American Beauty
Revolutionary Road
Some Like It Hot
Home Alone
Donnie Darko
Edward Scissorhands
Varsity Blues
The Basketball Diaries
Warm Bodies
Apocalypse Now
Old Yeller
Billy Elliot
Better Off Dead
A Single Man
Fight Club
Endless Love 1981
Matilda
Percy Jackson 1-2
How To Lose A Guys In 10 Days
Sleeping With The Enemy
Flipped
Almost Famous
Mortal Instruments: City Of Bones
13 Going On 30
Wild ThingsÂ
iâll admit it, to all the boys iâve loved before is v good. but i think weâre all forgetting about the classic fake dating movie:
astrological movie masterpost
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any genre film based on sun/moonÂ
aries sun/moon: âboyhoodâ (growing up and all the rash and/or unwise decisions that come with that. competitive upbringing)  âthe aviatorâ (a frenzied soul who fakes it till ya make it. big dreams, a big persona, and a pioneer to an industry but deeply troubled behind it all), âthe wolf of wall streetâ (honestly this movie was so fast-paced and mad that i could only take it in small doses. everyone is selfish and turns on a dime)Â
taurus sun/moon: âthe grand budapest hotelâ (a film rich in aesthetic. a hotel owner who is a professional lush sets out on an adventure as he is being pegged for murder. a tale of paintings, pastries, and paramour), âbig stone gapâ (excessive family. stubborn and perseverant. a bit apprehensive of change), âtodayâs specialâ (a chef gets back to his roots and has to learn why he was passionate about food in the first place and how to savor every second)Â
gemini sun/moon: âferris buellerâs day offâ (witty and incredibly adaptable. can make friends with anyone, anywhere. being childlike and curious, enjoying the little things), âblack swanâ (ambiguous film where you donât know what to believe), âthe truman showâ (his whole life has been unknowingly documented. everyone is just playing a role. media manipulations) Â
cancer sun/moon: âtake careâ (feeling like an inconvenience. wanting to be taken care of. guilt trips), âlymelifeâ (putting family and âhomeâ into perspective. awkward, at times endearing, a bit hectic), âhigh fidelityâ (old fashioned guy. stuck in the past wondering where it went wrong), âthe other woman (2009)â (learning to be a mother. the emotional rollercoaster of trying to love and be loved)Â
leo sun/moon: âconfessions of a teenage drama queenâ (i meanâŚdo i even need to explain this lmao), âbeachesâ (pride and loyalty. learning to love without having to be the only one receiving love), âanywhere but hereâ (self-centered mother who wants her to be a star. fixed opinions but is powerful & warm), âgreaseâ (good girl, bad boy. popular. all love their hair lol)
virgo sun/moon: âbeyond the lightsâ (never feeling good enough. a mother who compulsively criticizes her. the theme of ~what happens behind the scenes~ and going back to the basics), âshort term 12âł (wants to service everyone else but forgets about themselves), âthe internâ (an observant elderly man is methodized and eager to work, always there for advice & support), âas good as it getsâ (a bitter man who struggles with OCD overcoming his fears and unleashing his compassionate side)
libra sun/moon: âlegally blondeâ (a bit superficial. values doing the right thing. people think sheâs air-headed but is actually more âin the knowâ than given credit for), âcanât buy me loveâ (getting caught up in the popular crowd. pretending to be something youâre not), âheâs just not that into youâ (most confusing movie ever. literally nobody can make up their mind lmao)Â
scorpio sun/moon: âst. elmoâs fireâ (this film has literally everything scorpio and/or related (8th house) in it; secrets, betrayal, intimacy, transforming, debt, etc), âstealing beautyâ (uncovering mysteries, forbidden affairs, paranoia. a taboo film), âlila & eveâ (crime drama. goes to show just how far two resentful mothers will go)
sagittarius sun/moon: âbruce almightyâ (humorous. has the theme of âluckâ and âhigher powerâ) âaway we goâ (redefining what âhomeâ means. traveling across the country, new experiences, lots of bad jokes) âfunny faceâ (an amateur philosopher has strong opinions for the modeling industry, wants nothing more than to travel for lectures), âgood will huntingâ (a genius and self-righteously so but doesnât know how to truly appreciate life)Â
capricorn sun/moon: âuptown girlsâ (learning to adult from a surprisingly mature child. a mother who is too concerned with her career to pay attention to her daughter), âthe pursuit of happynessâ (suffering hardships, feeling down & out as he climbs his way up the totem pole. a tale of being a father being able to provide), âthe devil wears pradaâ (another tale of climbing your way to the top, along with the cost of it)
aquarius sun/moon: âscott pilgrim vs the worldâ (not your average film, includes an alternate dimension. has its technological, futuristic quirks. becoming superior to the rest and standing out in the process), âmona lisa smileâ (50â˛s women gaining new perspective from a âsubversiveâ professor), âthe martianâ (innovative, humorously noble, feeling castaway, âspace pirateâ)Â
pisces sun/moon: âthe imaginarium of doctor parnassusâ (a fantasy world with a damsel in distress but everything isnât as it seems),  âbecause i said soâ (milly is bright-eyed and a bit hopeless. her mother pays favor to her. always ends up doing what other people want because although she is highly spirited, she can be a pushover), âamelieâ (imagination, imagination, imagination. sets out to help others by being a bit manipulative in the process), âbig fishâ (reality vs fantasy. idealized & exaggerated upbringing)
romance films based on venusÂ
aries venus: â10 things i hate about youâ âsheâs all thatâ (both films show they can treat romance as a competition but once they are in love, will do whatever they can to keep it alive), âtwo night standâ (hasty romance. lessons of ârushingâ. a candor appreciation for another), âbeginnersâ (being honest with yourself. âa movie with an unflinchingly tough heart.â)
taurus venus: âdirty dancingâ (stubborn, sensual, and learning to position yourself securely lol), âthe great gatbsyâ (wealth. everyone indulges themselves, goes overboard out of love), âhappily ever afterâ (sudden yearning for stability, excessive in more ways than one)Â
gemini venus: âsave the dateâ (a girl who is scared of commitment. covers up her fear with humor. âword vomitâ through the whole movie lol. works at a bookstore. has a sister dynamic in the film of the one who is a bit silly & immature and the one who acts like she knows everything), âhow to lose a guy in 10 daysâ (a two faced romance. lighthearted mind games and calling each others bluff), âgarden stateâ (a lost fella falls for a quirky compulsive liar. a surprisingly intelligent and outlandish film)Â
cancer venus: âcloserâ (kind of shows more unhealthy traits of this placement but shows they just want to be in comfort with you but can guilt trip people and ask for reassurance where its not needed), âa walk to rememberâ (two lovers jaded in their own right find love. trying to protect one another from getting hurt and hurt each other in the process), âbrooklynâ (building a life together. choosing between a lover at home or a home within a lover)Â
leo venus: âelvis and anabelleâ (a radiant beauty queen has a near-death experience that alters her way of existing. brings a boy out of his shell through theatrics and love), âtake this waltzâ (she meets a man and starts rethinking her own loving marriage, does she want more? demanding, bold, and has a childishness to it), âanomalisaâ (uplifting one another, making each other feel extraordinary)Â
virgo venus: âpeople places thingsâ (a man of many standards and subsequently hypercritical in the name of love), âme before youâ (taking care of another. breaking free from routine), âwhen harry met sallyâ (constant challenging of standards. loving the little things), âenough saidâ (looking beyond imperfections. practically endearing)Â
libra venus: âhitchâ (got his heartbroken. now runs a business as a âlove doctorâ where he gives men the push to pursue love through setting a meet-cue. but when he falls for a girl he has no idea what to do), âalfieâ (a womanizer who refuses to be seen as a regular person who experiences the everyday woes that we all do. says heâs âalways okayâ), â27 dressesâ (jane is a âmoreâ evolved version of this venus. loves love, is a major people pleaser. her sister on other hand pretends to be whatever her partner wants, is a major socialite)Â
scorpio venus: âlove actuallyâ (falling for what you canât have and having difficulty expressing it), âno kiss listâ (liking someone you canât have and making that person feel like you canât like anyone other than them), âchasing amyâ (obsessive. sabotaging a relationship out of fear), âa dangerous methodâ (a forbidden and intoxicating affair with a patient), âlast nightâ (temptation and affairs)Â
sagittarius venus: âbegin againâ (greta is independent, blunt, and spontaneous. teaches dan and his daughter a few important lessons. love is a learning experience), âdefinitely, maybeâ (flashbacks to 3 romances, all with women who either write, travel, and/or simply free-spirited. habits of running away. being judgemental of how to live life. expanding horizons. shamelessly honest), âthey came togetherâ (clumsy, a straight up mess. light-hearted. mocks romance films)Â
capricorn venus: âtimerâ (doesnât see the point of a relationship if they arenât âguaranteedâ. uses a timer to tell you when youâll find your soul mate), âmeet my valentineâ (a family man who finds out heâs terminally ill is determined to find a loving provider to replace him), âbefore sunsetâ (an assertive romance, at times a bit cynical, but cheeky and loving)Â
aquarius venus: âfriends with benefitsâ âno strings attachedâ âsleeping with other peopleâ (all the couples in the films were meant to keep things casual but got messy in the process), âfrequencies- oxv: the manualâ (s/o to @astr-logy for the recommendation! a film about being outcasted, breaking the world & love down to an equation, feelings of not feeling)Â
pisces venus: â500 days of summerâ (tom is a prime example of the idealization and fantasy romance that can come with this placement), âpractical magicâ (loves unconditionally but there is a tragic twist. two sisters - one who has a homemaker persona and one devastatingly bored of the mundane), âlisten to your heartâ (a deaf girl, who is a bit of a damsel in distress as her parents crush her dreams, and an amateur piano composer find inspirational love)Â
romance films based on venus in the houses
venus in fire house (1st, 5th, 9th): â50 first datesâ, âthe holidayâ, âdeadpoolâ (a stretch? no), âbefore we goâ
venus in earth house (2nd, 6th, 10th): âeverything before usâ, âfriends with moneyâ, âchocolatâ
venus in air house (3rd, 7th, 11th): âceleste & jesse foreverâ, ânick and norahâs infinite playlistâ, âherâ, âthe beauty insideâÂ
venus in water house (4th, 8th, 12th): âthe time travelerâs wifeâ, âeternal sunshine of the spotless mindâ, âstuck in loveâ, âcandyâ, âcometâ
action/drama films based on mars
aries mars: âdeath proofâ (daredevil central. going toe-to-toe with a killer), âcrankâ (a film literally about keeping your heart rate up. will die without an adrenaline rush), âspring breakersâ (living in the moment. playfully deviant and childishly so), âthe challengerâ (learning to fight for whatâs worth it; choosing your battles)Â
taurus mars: âmatildaâ (all the antagonists were greedy slobs who put themselves on a pedestal by making everyone else feel inferior), âthe shawshank redemptionâ (avoids conflict, plays his hand slowly, no stranger to money), âamerican hustleâ (luxuriating in âsinâ, glorifying the hustle, high-resistance characters)Â
gemini mars: âpirates of the caribbeanâ (jack sparrow is a character thatâs easy to be allured to but difficult to trust. never seems to be who he appears and covers everything up with slurred antics), âseven psychopathsâ (comical murder film where even has a darker or lighter side than you thought), âthe prestigeâ (two illusionists go head to head to out-trick another. the huge secret of âdualityâ)Â
cancer mars: âpunch-drunk loveâ (stereotypical âniceâ guy with a lot of problems and insecurities. falls into a weird blackmail ploy), âmad max: fury roadâ (emotionally raw. recklessly protective. driven by the familial and home), âmr nobodyâ (recounting of memories. driven by pure emotion)Â
leo mars: âhot rodâ (acts like a big shot, always attempting to prove himself worthy), âguardians of the galaxyâ (everyone has a major ego and wants to show off. music reminds me of the 80â˛s which reminds me of hair which is leo lmao), âfrankâ (i feel like many would believe this to be a more aquarius film with its long-standing reputation of being one of the most unconventional films of all time but the film is about fame, how to get there, how to stand out, and being histrionic in the making)Â
virgo mars: âpay it forwardâ (actions geared toward helping others, insecurities and not wanting others to feel sorry, a need for efficiency), âcaptain america: the first avengerâ (modest, just wants to contribute. high energy, lots of stamina âi could do this all dayâ), âcyberbullyâ (theme of words cutting deeper than youâd think)Â
libra mars: âmean girlsâ (acts nice & unassuming only to better manipulate a situation), âgangster squadâ (puts justice into their own hands. has people in pocket and knows how to work a room to use people to oneâs disposal), âv for vendettaâ (another film of putting justice into your own hands. created a tragic scenario to trick evey into learning no matter what one goes through, the right thing to do is the only appropriate way to live)
scorpio mars: âheathersâ (conniving & hypocritical. veronica isnât a saint herself but disproves of people who are cruel and sets out to teach them a lesson), âmr & mrs smithâ (secretive. both know theyâre spies but never tell each other & donât feel neither has the right to be; in the same field of work but criticize each other for it), âdjango unchainedâ (rescue and revenge. will exploit anything or murder anyone to get back to his lover)
sagittarius mars: âmaidentripâ (a young adventuress sails across the world), âartifactâ (documentary film giving insight into the truth of the music industry. pretentious, pseudo-intellectuals), âthe believerâ (heavily controversial film. audacious in the name of beliefs and what one believes to hold verity)Â
capricorn mars: âerin brockovichâ (a relentless environmental activist sets out a case against a gas company where their supplies have left residents fatally ill. demands respect), âwhiplashâ (pushes limits beyond limits. ambitious to the core and seeks to achieve aspirations continuously), âamerican psychoâ (a successful banker has an alter, killer ego who relishes in all that he does & âachievesâ)
aquarius mars: âthe big lebowskiâ (acts above violence and just says âfuck itâ to everything), âequilibriumâ (feelings are literally outlawed but an enforcer soon falls victim to rebellion), âterminatorâ (a cyborg on a mission. a young boy fighting against the technologically advanced)Â
pisces mars: âsnowpiercerâ (sacrifice, clairvoyance, spiritualism. as pete travers said, âa slambam sci-fi thriller with a brain, a heart and an artful sense of purposeâ), âfight clubâ (gasp. shocking it isnât aries mars, right? the story is about a man wanting to escape his everyday life, has an addictive personality, and finds himself immersed in this extracurricular activity), âphilomenaâ & âof mind and musicâ (one defines true forgiveness. looking past all the tragedy and finding the beauty)Â