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Me, in the middle of a conversation:
𝒽ℯ𝒶𝓁𝓉𝒽𝓎 𝒽𝒶𝒷𝒾𝓉𝓈 𝒶𝓇ℯ 𝒶 𝒻ℴ𝓇𝓂 ℴ𝒻 𝓈ℯ𝓁𝒻-𝓇ℯ𝓈𝓅ℯ𝒸𝓉
This may sound preachy, but if you’re in your teens or 20s please take care to develop the habit of speaking positively about people behind their backs. Gossip is unavoidable, and yes it does allow people to bond, and yes some people deserve to be shit talked. But I think being negative about things is literally just nature, whereas trying to be positive about things and people is a quality you have to be very intentional about . If this does not apply to you, good for you. But for most people I think it does. Im not lauding toxic positivity so much as saying that if there’s space to speak positively about someone behind their back, it’s better to take that route.
Sometimes I randomly remember how the most important people of my life from like 6-7 years ago are not in my life at all anymore and that's sort of terrifying and also crazy to realize how you actually can survive loss beyond your comprehension and find happiness stronger and more suited for you if you keep going
Forgive yourself
Very wise words ...
I’m like a hopeless romantic but for friends. A hopeless platonic.
2026
CREATE THE WORLD YOU WANT TO LIVE IN, NO MATTER HOW SMALL
READ VORACIOUSLY, WIDELY, DEEPLY, FOR FUN
WRITE DOWN YOUR THOUGHTS, PEN ON PAPER, WORDS AND IMAGES
STOP BUYING SHIT YOU DON'T NEED
MOVE YOUR BODY IN NEW AND EXCITING WAYS
DANCE AND SING LIKE IT MIGHT SAVE YOU, BECAUSE IT MIGHT
THERE ARE TIMES FOR SOLEMN CONTEMPLATION AND THERE ARE TIMES FOR MINDLESS ACTION, LEARN THE DIFFERENCE
DON'T BE AFRAID OF LOVING—EVERYTHING IS A PART OF THE WORLD
Social Butterfly effortless charisma ❤︎
Welcome Angels 🎀ᥫ᭡ im quite literally so naturally introverted and reserved and these are some great tips that’s I’ve learned throughout high school on how to connect and communicate with others as someone who is more quiet
BE CURIOUS ;
the most charismatic people are deeply curious, so remember small details and bring them up later. people feel special when they’re remembered.
❤︎ ask open-ended questions: what got you into that?” “how did that make you feel?”
❤︎ listen to understand, not to respond.
BODY LANGUAGE ;
before you speak your presence speaks and it’s obvious when you’re nervous or tense.
❤︎ relax your shoulders, stand tall
❤︎ gentle eye contact
❤︎ smile when talking
❤︎ nod while listening
SPEAK WITH INTENTION ;
❤︎ don’t over share useless information just bc ur nervous
❤︎ pause and take your time instead of rushing to fill the silence
CONNECTOR ;
social butterflies make spaces feel alive, which makes you memorable and magnetic
❤︎ introduce people: “you two would actually get along. you both love ___.”
❤︎ include quieter people in group conversations
❤︎ compliment people genuinely
SOFT CONFIDENCE ;
you don’t need arrogance, just comfort with yourself. trust that you belong wherever you are.
❤︎ be okay with not being liked by everyone
❤︎ don’t over-explain or apologize unnecessarily
have conversation starters (avoid boring yes/no questions)
full express yourself (authentically)
speak up in class at least once a day
if you’re happy for literally any reason no matter how “small” or “stupid” you’re winning in this world as far as I can tell
caring for little plants? old video game? a cat you love? a silly tv show? Isn’t it great when people know what causes them joy and they embrace it?