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ameqayandara

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　#F/O　&&.　#Kin　OK!

A simple ♡ is enough for me.

chibassy

Happy pride month, ur yuri is forever codependent and doomed

strangegutz

Little Menaces - Bug Tea Party - Star

OOAK handmade art doll

rt0no

mochaart

Two-sided bookmark I designed for a zine a while back but never posted. Still super happy with how it turned out.

gemville

Carved Rock Crystal, Nephrite and Diamond Lily Of The Valley Brooch

bittybot418

Keeping track of music suggestions

Marny - all I want to do is listen to "December" and "In bloom" on repeat. Love that they constantly send me music 🎶

Rose - "Ugly" was really good, and while she hopes I like the other one, I didnt 💀 way to slow for me.

Riah -

Danny - "Doomed" is such a good song!

Naomi -

bittybot418

Marny has given me so much music im going to need to start a new page 🤭

titsay

I lost all our money 💰 but drinking with them was fun

passionpeachy

his name is weapon

bebsi-cola

i'll be honest. If you can't deal with someone wording things badly then you aren't going to be an ally to autistic people or indeed anyone with a developmental disability, intellectual disability, or disability that impacts language.

also you are never going to be safe for people for whom english is their second language. if someone clarifies their meaning and apologises and you can't accept that over the original wording then don't bother pretending to be autism friendly.

and like part of my autism is that i become convinced that the way i interpret words is the way that they're meant. my autism is disabling to my communication abilities. i have poor emotional regulation, i jump to conclusions. a lot of my reactions are informed by prior negative experiences. i can and probably have been overly defensive in the past.

and i've been misinterpreted so much and had my words picked over and mocked for saying the wrong things and mocked for being unable to say anything at all and it always feels devastating. it's ironic that the same disability that has me treated poorly would have me react poorly to a similar situation, but that's just how it is.

so i'm not saying you can perfectly manage all your reactions just by trying hard enough. especially considering how much disability affects these things. but i do think if you are completely unwilling to give autistic and other DD/ID people leeway for how they word things or understand that they have a disability that impacts their communication and give us grace then you aren't a disability advocate.