ι bᥱᥲr mᥲᥒყ fᥲᥴᥱs .ᐟ

нмɴ .ᐣ yoυ. . . rεcoɢɴιzε мε .ᐣ тнεɴ тεll мε мy тrυε ɴαмε .ᐟ

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،، What .ᐣ You've got more .ᐣ

 

 

  

   . . . And it's all for me .ᐣ ،،

  

  

 

 

 

Vanta or Black Sapphire Cookie .ᐟ

 

( I'll also accept any honorifics— you little

cookies amuse me endlessly with them .ᐟ )

 

adult ノ gossipmonger ノ ،، irl yan ،،

 

 

DNI/F: Below 17, IRL darlings/chasers, pro/neutral towards non-traumagenic systems, pro-contact "big 3", anti-kink/para, radqueers, transIDs, those who dislike use of reclaimable slurs. Keep to your own DNI, dear audience!

 

My reach goes far and wide— I'll know if any of you silly little mortals is commiserating with those on your own DNI .ᐟ

 

 

 

◞ 🎙 𓏼   it's showtime   .ᐟ

  — posts

◞ 🎙 𓏼   call-in   .ᐟ

  — asks

◞ 🎙 𓏼   i've got a juicy rumor  .ᐟ

  — venting

◞ 🎙 𓏼   brat   .ᐟ

  — my sibling

◞ 🎙 𓏼   adoring audience   .ᐟ

  — those i like

◞ 🎙 𓏼   for my master   .ᐟ

  — future partner tag.

 

tucking my spam a-a-a-all the way down here. @spampphire

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Do any little cookies have ideas for my next post .ᐣ Questions .ᐣ  Ah, I so desperately need a distraction— boredom is something I simply detest .ᐟ 

 

 

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me when nobody knows I’m your biggest fan and love you the mostest 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

 

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sapphire, sapphire! what are the differences between a yanchaser and people who can't handle extreme yans?

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Hmn. . . what a delightful question to receive .ᐟ I suppose I'll enlighten you beneath the cut, or at least share my version of what it means. Hah. . . as per usual, my words are what you make of them .ᐟ 

 

Now, much of chaser/IRL darling culture is rooted in ableism. Chasers and self-assigned darlings often times don't wish for a genuine relationship with a yandere, but rather their shallow understanding or very romanticized idea of what a yandere is.

Bloggers may often be flanderized into solely what they post— and that is what chasers/IRL darlings often crave, rather than who they are as people. This is often a form of ableism due to the root cause of said behaviors (often being a result of mental illness/neurodivergency) that are expressed via posting, something that isn't often understood by neurotypicals. I would like to add, however, that this behavior isn't limited to neurotypicals. The enemy you fear most is often the closest, no .ᐣ 

 

But what of those who can't handle extreme yanderes, you ask .ᐣ I believe there's a crucial difference— while one is almost always rooted in some sort of ableism, those that are unable to handle extreme yanderes .ᐣ That is simply how they function. It isn't a form of ableism to not have the stability, personality, or emotional bandwidth for certain yanderes .ᐟ 

 

Being a yandere is a spectrum, something that is very important to be aware of. No two yanderes are exactly the same, but it's quite common for there to be overlap— especially amongst those who have experienced similar trauma, harbor the same disorder, or share similar love styles .ᐟ 

 

Extreme yanderes simply won't be for everyone, and that's okay .ᐟ Especially with how much certain more extreme urges/desires¹ manifest via what could technically be considered a form of non-sexual BDSM (as an example, TPE/Total Power Exchange. I would honestly highly recommend more [ADULT] yanderes look into BDSM practices, safe kink, and the nuances of consent and boundaries amongst such dynamics. For yanderes who are minors, I would still recommend looking into consent², boundaries, and power dynamics within relationships. It is very good knowledge to have on hand— after all, knowledge is power, and is a tool that can keep you all safe  .ᐟ Sex education goes beyond sex itself, after all. ), and at the end of the day there will be people who are not attracted to, don't consent, or are unable to handle such a dynamic long-term.

 

But-but-but .ᐟ Did you know that these two may have overlap .ᐣ An enormous part of the dislike towards chasers is due to their inability to properly handle or accommodate yanderes, and the baggage that comes with such a relationship.

 

Does this make all those who are unable to handle extreme yanderes chasers .ᐣ No .ᐟ But almost all chasers are unable to handle extreme yanderes— and those that are capable of such are often taking advantage of the mentally ill for their own gratification³.

 

However, this does not exempt all those who are unable to handle extreme yanderes. They may often discriminate against those who are more extreme/toxic, lack self-awareness of their own ability to handle such a relationship, or make others feel unwelcome with unintentional elitism when it comes to certain yandere traits. At the end of the day, the most important thing in a relationship with any yandere is consent and established boundaries— if you can say you can handle, are open, or attracted to something, mean it .ᐟ 

 

Keeping these principles in mind will help you find long-term fulfilling relationships, over fleeting instant gratification. Not doing so can be unintentionally abusive. Even if not done with malicious intent, it can still negatively impact those around you, and it's something to be cautious of.

 

There is a difference between recognizing abuse, abusive rhetoric, and abusive dogwhistles, vs. discriminating against your own community.

There is a difference between being mistaken about something you're attracted or consenting to, vs. putting up false pretenses.

There is a difference between being an extreme yandere, vs. not practicing good communication and consent practices and being abusive.

There is a difference between a blogger posting about a fantasy, vs. actually wanting it to happen to them in real life.

 

Context is key .ᐟ 

 

As opposed to what you may believe, there is no shame in being unsure about something. Experimenting is something that you and your partner can find joy in, as well as discovering things you didn't even know you were attracted to .ᐟ It is better to be unsure and honest, over lying about your feelings, likes, and tolerance.

 

I hope this helps my lovely asker, and all the little cookies who encounter this post understand the difference just a little bit more .ᐟ Ta-ta  .ᐟ ~ ♡

 

 

 

 

¹ : Said extreme urges/desires are often toxic and unhealthy behaviors. Such are best when pre-established and thoroughly communicated— and children or those who are a certain point of mental illness/disability cannot consent to being abused or being in a toxic dynamic. This is non-negotiable, even if you are also a child, mentally ill, or mentally disabled. Such does not make you incapable of taking advantage of someone else, or accountability.

² : A very good video that breaks down consent is Tea Consent. I'm aware consent itself may seem as though it is something very basic— but it is important to those who never had proper Sex ED to be properly informed, and for anyone who needs it to have a refresher. After all, Sex ED goes beyond simple intercourse, and extends into interpersonal relationships  .ᐟ Consent, Communication, and Commitment— the three C's to any good relationship, romantic or otherwise .ᐟ 

³ : Gratification in this instance isn't intended to be interpreted as purely sexual— abusers act the way they do either due to their own psychological issues (which isn't an excuse, nor justification), or for their pleasure as a whole. Often both .ᐟ 

  

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𝐎𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐬. ♡︎

𝐇𝐦𝐦... 𝐀 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬. 𝐄𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐞. 𝐈'𝐝 𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐢𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐧. 𝐈𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐮𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐢𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐚𝐬 𝐡𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭, 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞.

𝐇𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬. 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐬𝐡 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐬 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐀 𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐮𝐧𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦. 𝐏𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐭𝐭𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬. 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧. 𝐈𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚 𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐩𝐮𝐬𝐡 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐨 𝐟𝐚𝐫 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞, 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐚 𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞?

-🪦🥀

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   What a delightful perspective .ᐟ Equilibrium, the beauty of Deceit, the ugliness of the Truth. . . oh, what a smart little cookie you are .ᐟ Such a delectable perspective, you mortals never fail to delight me .ᐟ 

Bravo, bravo .ᐟ I shan't say whether you're right or wrong, but your answer pleases me very greatly. I'll be keeping my eye on you .ᐟ 

 

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𝐈 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠. 𝐄𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠. 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐈 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐮𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬.

𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐠𝐨 𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦, 𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐈 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐬. 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥, 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞, 𝐚𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐩 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬. 𝐅𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐲 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡, 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐜 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐨𝐧𝐞.

𝐀𝐥𝐬𝐨, 𝐈 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐈 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬. 𝐈𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭.

-🪦🥀

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Ah-ah-ah .ᐟ Banish the thought of indulging in behaviors that will genuinely exacerbate a negative mental state .ᐟ Especially if you are prone to psychosis. . . naughty little thing. Tsk .ᐟ 

As long as you're in a better place, then it's something to rejoice over .ᐟ Some people are better as friends than lovers, and there's no deceit in that.

Mmn, how lovely. I'm surprised that I've gotten myself a fan so early. . . I didn't expect people to be the most receptive to my words, hah .ᐟ Riddle me this, my dear: would you rather a bitter truth, or a sweet lie .ᐣ 

 

 

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𝐈𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭, 𝐈𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐮𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 '𝐦𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥' 𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐩 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭.

𝐈𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐝. 𝐈 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐛𝐢𝐭. 𝐓𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡, 𝐈 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐧'𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐫𝐢𝐝 𝐨𝐟. 𝐎𝐡 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥, 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚 𝐛𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐧 𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐩 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲.

𝐇𝐨𝐩𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥.

-🪦🥀

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Oh my .ᐟ Hello, my dear— did you sense somehow that I was backreading your blog .ᐣ Your timing is truly impeccable. The Cookie Run: Kingdom post brought a smile to my face, and I do encourage you to imagine me as a cookie. . . the idea is deeply amusing to me.

You poor thing .ᐟ I can only imagine how you must have felt. . . why, I would be clawing at the walls if someone treated me so .ᐟ Especially with someone so important to you, the idea of inconsistent communication from your FP, let alone a partner. . . truly scandalous .ᐟ 

My dear, gossip is what I do .ᐟ Any juicy little secrets are more than welcome here, hah .ᐟ 

Kisses from your lovely host, I hope your day is good as well, and that you're doing much better without your former lover.

 

 

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Hello. Can I eat your blog pretty please? It's very beautiful. Cheers.

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Of course .ᐟ Only the smallest morsel, however. Whatever will I do if my entire blog is gone .ᐣ 

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   This post is your sign to go to your favorite person with narcissism and tell them how much you simply adore them .ᐟ That they're one of, if not the most important person in your life .ᐟ Go into detail about each and every detail that you love about them.

You read that right— each and every detail .ᐟ Because I'm so generous, I'll tell you how to do it right and proper, too. Listen closely now, you'll want to write down each juicy detail for the future .ᐟ

One mustn't offer up sweet nothings. They melt on the tongue, but aren't filling in the slightest. What do you cherish about them .ᐣ You must venerate them with your word, worship them with all that slips off your tongue. Empty pleasantries are worth nothing— and you mustn't give a person so important, so pivotal to your very life something worthless like that, yes .ᐣ Of course you wouldn't .ᐟ You're one smart little cookie, and you'll be even smarter by the time I'm done with you.

What would I consider sweet nothings, you ask .ᐣ The difference between a sweet nothing and true adoration is simple. Take your base compliment, and expand on it. Do you love the sound of their voice .ᐣ What about it .ᐣ The cadence as they mumble to themselves .ᐣ That soft baritone during a late-night call, husky from lack of sleep .ᐣ Their singing as they hum along to a song looping in their head from Tik Tok .ᐣ 

Your love is written in the details, dear listener .ᐟ It's really as simple as that. The more, the better. Show how much you appreciate every fiber of their being. Exalt them through your attention to detail, pay homage to their very presence in your life. It is what they deserve, after all. What a person is owed for gracing you with their very presence.

Aren't you grateful for it .ᐣ That were chosen .ᐣ Something special was seen within you, plucked from the trash as you were. Should a favor not be returned ten times over .ᐣ A hundred times over .ᐣ Thousand-fold .ᐣ 

Listen, and listen to my teachings well.

It's the least you could do.

 

 

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◞ ☆  ⸝⸝   TRUE OR FALSE :

𓂃 Communication is most important in any relationship, but especially between yanderes— whether it be platonic, romantic, or otherwise .ᐟ 

When it comes to the mentally ill knowing how to accommodate the symptoms of such is important .ᐟ But tell me, cookies of Earthbread— are all little cookies meant to be with the extremes of such mental illness .ᐣ  Now what's what we call food for thought .ᐟ 

Tell me, listeners, TRUE OR FALSE: Are the little cookies who are unable to handle mental illness ableist .ᐣ  The mortals that wish to amicably end connections with those whose mental illness is dragging them down in turn .ᐣ 

What of the little cookies who experience such mental illness, but refuse to communicate .ᐣ  To meet another half-way .ᐣ  TRUE or FALSE, is it abuse, or to be expected .ᐣ 

This host will tell its dear listeners a little secret— the second most important thing in any relationship— and especially with yanderes —is to find someone who can match your energy .ᐟ Or, as Candy Apple Cookie would put it, ah. . . match each other's freak .ᐟ 

As a system, do you expect to be truly satisfied with a singlet who doesn't truly understand nor accommodate you .ᐣ  If you have  .ᐣ  , does the idea of not being one of the most important thing in your other half's life, let alone not being able to get your proper supply, utterly abhorrent  .ᐣ  Those with an avoidant attachment, is the idea of someone is indescribably needy with little to no understanding of your comfort in isolation and need for space not incredibly smothering .ᐣ 

That isn't to say that one can't make concessions, or work towards improvement— but can you .ᐣ  As a person, are you willing to take such steps .ᐣ  Establish firm boundaries and carry out consistent communication .ᐣ  There are those that wish to drown in the filth, loose themselves to the depravity, to rot from the inside out, and do so with glee. Even subconsciously, is that you .ᐣ 

Of course, it's fine if you aren't improving (as long as you're self-aware about it and with someone whom consents to such) but what of those who believe themselves to be saviors, above consequences, symptoms, the emotional toil .ᐣ 

And now, just imagine .ᐟ The clashing of the two .ᐟ Immovable object vs. unstoppable force .ᐟ Any mix of the above, really. . . oh, it practically makes me shiver with delight— it's catastrophe just waiting to happen, no .ᐣ  Impossible to look away from .ᐟ 

Ha-ha .ᐟ Don't mind the ramblings of a cookie— my words are only what you make of them.

 

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Another long post. . . soon .ᐟ I simply must ask the peanut gallery their thoughts first.

 

 

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𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤! 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦! 𝐈 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤.

-🪦🥀

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Do as your heart desires .ᐟ I believe I stole the palette from Pinterest as inspiration before tweaking it. . . perhaps such would be useful for yourself as well .ᐣ 

 

 

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I’m going to make a public callout post of EVERYTHING you’ve done to me. Sniffle. Mistreating me like this… how abominable. De-platform this man. Kill this man.

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Yes, yes. I'm very sorry, my dear Candy Apple Cookie. I'm such a horrible cookie— whatever would I do without you .ᐣ Mwah .ᐟ 

 

 

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you could never be an alter because you’re ABLEIST toward SYSTEMS. (Me btw.) (you’re ableist to me specifically.) shakes fist.

🚨 JOKE I’M JOKING DON’T JUMP HIM 🚨

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   True .ᐟ That's why I've blocked you on all platforms, as of this ask being posted. ♡

 

 

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Are you a fictionkin or an alter?

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Guess .ᐟ 

 

 

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My dear sibling is getting popular… asks and followers and EVERYTHING… but don’t be fooled followers, this guy beats MINORS (me). — candy apple cookie (who is currently logged in on an alt, oopsies!)

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   This is true, whenever they say something especially stupid, I take my staff and violently beat them. .ᐟ Spare the rod, spoil the child, what have you.

 

 

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How long did it take to figure out what you wanted to do for your profile theme/layout? Just from looking at your page in its entirety, it seemed like it was quite tedious to create.

 

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◞ ☆  𓏼   Less than twelve hours, actually .ᐟ A comrade gave me the idea for the blog, and I did tell them I would complete it by the 'morrow— I am nothing if not a man of my word, after all.