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I love you, there’s no doubt of that... but, you make it so hard for me to stay. You love me but, as much as you like the freedom within me, you also wish you could capture my free spirit and make it more suitable for your religion.
How to Deal with Emotional Abuse
1. First, recognize when you are in a controlling, manipulative, disrespectful or punitive relationship. Usually, the person will be highly critical of you and their comments will have emotional undertones. There is usually also a threat of rejection or abandonment.
2. If you can, walk away from the relationship. It’s unhealthy to be caught up in emotional games where you are the pawn, and you feel trapped and abused.
3. Establish boundaries. For example, don’t allow the person to engage you in critical conversations and emotional put downs. Walk away from any outbursts and emotional displays.
4. Agree to what you will, and will not, accept in the relationships. State these in clear and explicit terms.
5. Put your needs and values before their needs and values (as they will be unlikely to respect these in you first.)
6. Make sure that “no” means “no” … and don’t accept small compromises.
7. Don’t allow yourself to get drawn into any arguments. It will likely go downhill, and you will end up feeling bad.
8. Surround yourself with people who see your gifts and strength – and remind yourself that their viewpoint reflects reality.
If you still talk about it, you still care about it.
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So Instagram decided to share my [alternate] account with my regular account followers. Personally I see this as a invasion of privacy, I know it uses an algorithm to show you accounts you might like, but sharing your alternate account indicating it is you other account seems and feels to me like a invasion of privacy. I created that second account the very same way I created this Tumblr; as a way to fully express myself beyond a surname, trusting I would have privacy. Now a bunch of people I personally know, know about my [personal feelings] and other things I’d prefer them not to know. Why am I writing this? Serving two purposes: First, because I need to express my anger and other emotions. Second, because what just happened to me can happen to anyone. Sadly we need to be more than careful and can’t trust in the simple privacy settings of many social networks. If we want to create an alternate private account we need to literally create another ID (meaning another email, etc) to prevent a social network suggesting it to your contacts, and that is not ok. We have the right to have privacy without an Algorithm just deciding it’s moment to share that account with your contacts. It is not ok to [expose] you in that way. Many of us, the people who create alternate accounts, do it so we can express ourselves freely, anonymously, feeling “safe” under a nickname.
Today I’m a black bird with broken wings. Today I’m trying to fly through the shadows of a gloomy forest. Today I’m a spectrum of what I once was. Today I’m trying to stand back and pull myself back together. Today I’m trying to learn to fly again. Today I’m trying to find the exit to the charming light of the sun.
PLL #ENDGAME Theory
A.D = Avery Drake
It all starts at Radley - all roads lead back to Radley, Dr Cochran said he delivered “two (Cece and Spencer) of Mary’s babies” suggesting she possibly had more.
I think the night Spencer was born, a second baby was born. Veronica was outside Radley in a car while Peter was inside.
After Spencer was born, a second baby was born; one that Peter hadn’t accounted for, he couldn’t face having to deal with two children. So he pretended that just one child was born - Spencer, Spencer only escaped being left in Radley because she was born first.
The second child born was Avery - Avery Drake. We have seen her multiple times, but only once as a child. Remember the dancing girl from Spencer’s dream?
Avery spent the first part of her life in Radley, where she gets to know Cece, without realising they’re related, and Bethany Young, the three become very close friends.
Eventually, Avery shows she should be allowed out of/ runs away from Radley, the same way Cece was, however she chose not to spend her time in Rosewood. She spent her time in Courtland - where she made friends with Sara Harvey.
Avery was part of the group that Emily and Hanna met, however she was not at the meeting because she was preoccupied with Radley/the A Game.
We were told Avery was struggling with the disappearance of Sara, but she knew Sara was safe the whole time - she was worried about Bethany, after she vanished on labour day (when Mona hit her over the head and Melissa buried her alive)
Both Avery and Cece struggled with not knowing what happened to Bethany - until Mona arrived at Radley. Mona revealed to Avery about Spencer, and Avery clocks that she’s spent her life in a mental hospital while her twin had a luxury life, this is enough to drive anyone crazy.
Due to the sub-conscious guilt of deep down knowing she killed Bethany, while on her meds, Mona lies and says that it was Spencer and her friends.
That is Cece and Avery’s motives to play the game with Mona.
Mona = Black Hoodie
Cece = Redcoat
Avery = Black Widow
Sara Harvey had no reason to disguise herself, Spencer’s twin does.
Although Cece and Avery kept themselves hidden from Mona, they begun to fear she may remember them from her time at Radley and reveal them to the girls, so they stole the game off her.
Avery and Cece continued the game with the soul purpose of revenge for the girls killing Bethany.
For unknown reasons, they decided to end the game in 6x10, however, Cece agreed to take the fall for Avery so that Avery could enjoy her life free. Cece lied about her story in order to protect her, and Sarah Harvey agreed to join as she was friends with Avery and heard her story.
After Cece gave up 5 years of freedom for Avery, to then be murdered, Avery started the game again in order to avenge her death.
Avery has lost the only things she ever had; Bethany and Cece. She has nothing left to live for, and that’s why she’s ending the game, after she finds out who killed Cece - she has nothing left to lose.
A.D = Avery Drake.
ADDITIONAL CLUES:
Notice how all the liars have only one eye shown, but Spencer has two - hinting she has a twin.
The scene in which A is seen in the zoo, she matches Spencer.
Vuelve a ser viernes, lo que, en la mayoría de los casos, significa que nos entran unas ganas irrefrenables de perdernos en un sitio como este. Nos referimos a algún punto inconcreto cerca del mar, pero pasar la tarde viendo las cosas tan interesantes que compartís tampoco nos parece un mal plan. Lo que está tan claro como estas maravillosas aguas es que vuestra capacidad para crear no conoce límites. O, al menos, no hemos conseguido encontrarlos. Aquí van tres muestras de cómo poner parte de uno mismo en una pequeña parcela de internet:
En el espacio de photo-em podemos darnos un paseo virtual por el firmamento y la tierra de Monterrey a través de las fotografías de su autora, Emily Torres, que lleva su cámara desde calles remotas hasta festivales de música.
¿Qué mejor forma de descubrir nuevos destinos que de la mano de alguien que ha visto mucho mundo? Si buscáis cosas que hacer y lugares en los que comer en vuestro próximo viaje, encuentroslejanos os ofrece una buena lista de rincones con encanto.
Para dar con la inspiración, a veces es importante observar y analizar lo que hacen otros. Eso es justo lo que podemos encontrar en publicidadcreativa, un blog que recopila algunas de las campañas de marketing más curiosas de las grandes marcas.
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August 13, 1899: Master of Suspense Alfred Hitchcock Born
On this day in 1899, film director and producer Alfred Hitchcock was born in London. Considered to be a pioneer of the suspense and psychological thriller genres, Hitchcock set precedents in the filmic techniques of camera movement, composition and editing.
Hitchcock’s filmography includes popular classics like Psycho and Vertigo, but he also worked as “treatment advisor” (or film editor) on an unfinished Holocaust documentary commissioned by the British Army in 1945.
The project was abandoned until 1985, when FRONTLINE acquired the footage and broadcast the film as it was found, unedited, with missing sound tracks and the original typed narration script, under the title “Memory of the Camps.”
Watch “Memory of the Camps” here.
Photo: Library of Congress