Blade irl

Bruh!!🌸🌙

[bladieirl]

So.... They say we are bad, but then say some shit like "ur trauma probably isn't even real" BRO not everyone lies about trauma😭

Antis being ableist and then getting offended over us having assholes in our community (they also have those literally, my groomer was/is an anti bruv)

[bladieirl]

Best headcanon: Wanderer is a proshipper (I'm wanderer fictionkin it's canon)

[bladieirl]

Okay, so wtf this anti means

They also called "anti" a slur, im done with it..

No way they compared words that been used for a long time to oppress a minority, to a bunch of imature people.

[bladieirl]

Antis: we are good!!

Also them:

[bladieirl]

[leonsi]

it's kind of upsetting how little research antis want to put into their arguments. darkfic/proship content is not an unhealthy coping mechanism, and never will be, and sharing that content with others isn't unhealthy, either; it's a way to share experiences and thoughts and combat the isolation and general feeling of "i'm the only one that's been through this, so therefore i am gross/'messed up'," that comes with trauma (and specifically sexual trauma). reading and writing my own darkfic exploring some of the shit i went through/things similar did far more for my recovery than bottling everything up and keeping it to myself ever did, and it was certainly a better alternative to the actually unhealthy coping mechanisms i've used. (well... unless the fifteen year olds want to argue with several professionals, anyway.)

plus, telling proshippers who create content to vent that a) their thoughts are wrong, and b) they shouldn't be sharing those thoughts with other people because "they'll hurt minors," or "they're gross," just feels so icky. forgive me if this is too bold a claim for fuckin tumblr drama, but it parallels a lot of things people who seriously fucked me up have said while they were fucking me up, because things like that rely on the victim feeling guilty, ashamed, and most importantly staying isolated and quiet. Spouting out poorly-researched claims like this and pushing what is essentially a puritan moral code onto everyone around you, even in the name of "protecting minors and survivors," is doing WAY more harm than good.

but... what i say doesn't matter, does it? we don't really count as survivors unless we stay quiet and alone, just like antis want, right? eat my dick.

[bladieirl]

THIS. Brilliant words.

[bladieirl]

Saying that comshippers deserve their trauma is victim-blaming💞🩷

[bladieirl]

Telling comshippers to kys isn't gonna heal their trauma, you're just being ableist🦴💌