Touch Me Like I’m Something Good

Minors DNI. I can’t stop you, but I will block you. 18+, they/any, no more information than that. Healing from sexual trauma one fantasy at a time.

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

Welcome to my kink/horny blog 🔞

Asexual/aegosexual and with a lot of baggage around sex, but I love the idea of being softly dommed and taken care of and told what to do

… also maybe of being brutally tortured and interrogated for information but that’s neither here nor there we don’t have to unpack that rn

Expect d/s, petplay, shibari, whump/masochism, horny shit, and maybe more. Also discussion about sexual and nonsexual kink.

Follows from my main blog which has potato in the name

DNI (aka dont be surprised when u get blocked):

Under 18

TERFS/radfems

Anti “contradictory” labels (such as bi lesbians or gay transfems).

Anyone who sends me sexual messages or tries to start a roleplay. Sorry just not into it

Stuff to know about me:

I block liberally because its my horny blog and I get to choose who sees my stuff

My pronouns are they/any (they preferred, but I don’t really care)

Ace-spec but sex favorable/neutral (depends on the day).

My relationship with kink is complicated and often nonsexual, due to me being ace-spec. I’m not that interested in anything that actually involves my genitals. Don’t expect much of that here.

Genderqueer

Pan but t4t

Nebularomantic (my single microlabel which I love dearly lol)

NOT okay with DMs

Autistic, may use tone tags if I feel it’s needed

Spinterest in BDSM/Kink. I get really autistic about sex. 🔥🔥🔥

My tagging system

Original posts and reblogs where I add stuff: #my ramblings

Self explanatory: #nonsexual kink

Self explanatory: #nonsexual d/s

Self explanatory: #nonsexual pet play

Self explanatory: #shibari

Stuff explicitly about/mentioning asexuality (or my own posts when tagged for reach): #asexual kink

Kink resources, safety tips, and information: #safety n info

Affirmations and reminders: #reminders

Me getting weird about the idea of being interrogated: #Interrogation kink

[hellyeahscarleteen]

“Some Principles of Harm Reduction

Meet People Where They Are is one of the mottos of harm reduction. It means not only physically showing up to people where they are at and offering education and tools, but the phrase can also be applied metaphorically - it means meeting someone at the mindset they are operating from, meeting them at where they are operating. It means working from an open perspective and showing up for folks without judgement.

Any Possible Positive Change means just that. If a person is engaging with activities that may be risky, like having unprotected sex, as a harm reductionist I will offer them education and supplies that may help them to make a different choice. I am not going to tell them what that choice needs to be; I am just going to offer the education about risks and about options to reduce risk, and leave it up to the person to make their own choices about what changes they may make. For example, using a condom⁠ some of the time, or with some people, is less risky than never using a condom.

Nothing About Us Without Us - Peer Leadership This phrase is held true and dear by many communities including disability rights, sex worker rights, and the Harm Reduction movement. What these communities have in common is that they hold peer leadership as a central value. What this means is that people with lived experience of drug use, sex work, and often unhoused life, for instance, are central to the movement. Legislation and organizational structure and movement values all inform the input and vantage points of folks with lived experience.”

LaSara Firefox Allen, What's Harm Reduction?

[mrsweetea]

Post nut clarity but it’s actually just extreme gender dysphoria

[blackberrybites]

I need more of you to be into interrogation play because it’s so versatile and such an adrenaline rush

It can be bondage. Knife play. Gun play. Blackmail. Roleplay. Whatever you can think of.

Scenes can range from anything sexy and fun to forcing your brat into telling you if they had three proper meals today.

Versatile.

[hellyeahscarleteen]

Self-love. Solo sex. Jacking off, jilling off, whacking off. Paddling the pink canoe, pocket pinball, teasing the kitty, testing the plumbing, spanking the monkey, surfing the channel. No matter what you call it—or how goofy what you call it is—masturbation is one of the few things that almost everyone does, has done or will do. Here's some most basic things to know about it.

‘Tis the season for masturbation FA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA! Happy #MasturbationMay everyone!

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

Lately I’ve been getting into the idea of blowjobs. Not even really sexually but like… as acts of service. Being ace is wild. Like sure I’ll suck your dick and feel really happy about it but I’d also feel just as happy about giving you a massage or baking you cookies. I just want to make you feel good <3

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

When the interactive hypnokink roleplay website is inclusive <33

[da-crip-hilia]

Bruising really easily is like. On the one hand I am in a constant state of tissue damage and reminded of how my body is broken. On the other hand my partners can mark me verrryyyy easily :3

[the-chastity-princess]

I think we need to appreciate the potential eroticism of the Mobility Aid.

Everybody loves to talk about a sub grinding into a boot, but please Imagine a pretty thing at your feet, grinding into your cane, making them arch into it at an awkward angle but them happily doing so all the while.

My cane is metal and it absorbs cold so easy, but can you not imagine grinding into it? The Cold hard metal against the clit, against a throbbing Tdick, against a hard cock and seeing the way they shiver and whine at it? As I grin down at them and coo pretty words to encourage them to keep going?? Get more horny about mobility aids right now!!!!!!!

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

Remember when I rambled about the intimacy of someone (consensually) touching your cane

Uhhh yeah I found this in my sketchbook. Forgot I drew this but it still goes hard

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

Sexy things about being hypermobile: can bend in fun positions. 🔥🔥🔥

Not sexy things about being hypermobile: can’t finger myself because my finger joints keep dislocating. Can’t orgasm because I’ll dislocate my knees and shoulders when my muscles spasm. Cant hold a vibrator for longer than a few minutes because my fingers will get stuck/cramp up. Can’t handle a bunch of positions because my lower back is too weak so they’ll hurt (and not in the fun way)

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

Uhhhh one other sexy thing about being hypermobile: my connective tissue disorder happens to make me bruise extremely easily. Which uhhh you could potentially use to draw bruises onto my skin just with the pressure of your fingernails

[aroaceboytoy]

being a virgin with an extremely high sex drive and a lot of kinks is so funny. i’m a slut (non-practicing)

[lemmeshethemtiddies]

femme: “oops sorry i got lipstick on the blunt haha! <3 here you go”

her pathetic masc: “can yuo put thatou t on me”

[elliespectacular]

"you wouldn't want that in real life" yeah i know it's called playing pretend, try to keep up

[bloodiedsoftepilogues]

Lately I’ve been getting into the idea of blowjobs. Not even really sexually but like… as acts of service. Being ace is wild. Like sure I’ll suck your dick and feel really happy about it but I’d also feel just as happy about giving you a massage or baking you cookies. I just want to make you feel good <3

[cavalecavale]

the one and only tip for sex with a trans guy is to treat his dick like a dick. be fucking vocal about it. no matter its size, bottom growth or not, post op or not, flesh or silicone or anything. fuck it, fingers can be a dick too.

take it in your mouth and suck it properly. gag around it. clench around it. if you're bottoming, describe precisely how well it's filling you, how wet or tight you feel around it, how you feel it throbbing. say shit like I want you to come inside me. if you're topping or siding, jerk it off like you fucking mean it. make your lover watch and praise how big and hard it is for you. *actually call it a cock out loud and fucking worship it*.

try now, thank me later <3

[hellyeahscarleteen]

How to Shop for Accessible Sex Toys When You Live With Chronic Pain

Living with chronic pain has taught me how to help myself and others achieve pleasure using accessible sex toys.