addicted to life

27, she/her ✨ army × stay

[blueprintji]

changed my username, I was nocoolurlfound

and well, now I found a cool one lol it's short for 'blueprint jisung' I like how it sounds 💙

[johnross-7]

[chernozemm]

The peace in my soul is unparalleled.

(app is scrollguard, screenzen is good too)

[chernozemm]

by the way, you CAN take control back from the social media black hole. i started small this January, cutting back more and more, and it really has improved my overall contentedness and happiness. its wild to be exposed to hundreds upon hundreds of little thought impulses that mostly are designed to either make you feel envious, angry or incomplete.

you can 100% install apps like scrollguard or screenzen and let them block your access to reels/stories. you can experiment with the anti-scroll timers to set reasonable limits around app usage: maybe you focus it on the time before bed and right after waking up, or during work or whatever works! It's not about perfection it's about stopping those apps from doing what they are streamlined to do: keep you scrolling indefinitely.

and you can definitely disable your YouTube history. the landing screen is so much quieter this way and it forces you to be mindful of why you're on YouTube anyway, cause you gotta think of stuff you wanna watch and then search for it. Added bonus: yt doesn't get data on your preferences.

The social media landscape has unfortunately poured all its resources into a) keeping you right where it wants and b) feeding you exactly what it wants so then it can c) sell you stuff. Or get your data. It's profit all around except for you.

And since I got this pop-up while typing:

I think I'll post this and go do something else

[landflman2]

[heymacy]

HEATED RIVALRY SEASON ONE + hall of fame text posts

[heymacy]

HEATED RIVALRY SEASON ONE + hall of fame text posts

[minyoonjin]

Yoongi and his cat Tang 🥹

[250318]

[achillesinhighheels]

[250318]

[moniquill]

[anexperimentallife]

[andthentheywilleatthestars]

[pseudomasochist]

I have started unironically doing this. It is DEVASTATINGLY effective. You make friends SO easily.

Stop wishing people would do this and be the person who does this.

[blueprintji]

me: oh my god I really want to kiss this guy why can't we meet up yet

me when it's finally possible to meet up with the guy: oh my god no I'm scared why do we have to meet up alone now

and why do I find him so cute but want to scream when he's just too cute and a walking green flag yelling WHY DO YOU HAVE TO DO THAT at the screen

I am cooked baked and fried like potatoes I guess???

[250318]

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[flodaya]

[ticklefighthockey]

kinda love this dynamic where ilya's like i get to have sex with anyone i want anytime i want and i also get to tell you about it while you visibly try to repress your feelings. but the second i think you might be having sex with someone else i am going to absolutely fucking spiral. epic crash out. because when I have sex it is empty and meaningless and utterly devoid of real emotional intimacy but you are a rule-following little dweeb who would still be a virgin if i hadn't deflowered you when we were like 18 so i fucking KNOW it means something to you!!!!!! the hypocrisy is delicious