Blue without the clues

23, INFP, she/her || EXO-L, Harrie, ZB1 stan

[wrenchswango]

guys I think everything is going to be okay

[full-metal-furies]

omg yes i thinkso too!!!

[wrenchswango]

[pinkdiamondprince]

Trying to figure out if you’re ace or aro can be so goddamn hard because it’s like, trying to find the absence of something. Imagine you’re at a pond and you want to know if there are any turtles, or fish. Say you find a turtle and you’re like “great! Now I know there are turtles.” Or a fish, now you know for sure there are fish. Or you find both, and now you know for a fact there are both turtles and fish in the pond.

But like, if you don’t find any turtles it might be that there are no turtles or maybe you’re just really shitty at looking for turtles and maybe you THINK you saw a turtle over there or maybe it was just a stick. Maybe there are only a few turtles. Maybe you need to do something special to find the turtles. Maybe a bunch of these rocks are actually turtles but you couldn’t tell them apart. Maybe there are no turtles. You have no idea. Meanwhile some people are saying “Oh there have to be turtles! You’ll find them eventually ;)” or “How many turtles have you found in your pond?” or “Try planting some vegetables at the shore to attract the turtles.” Or “Oh no! What disaster happened to your pond that there are no turtles?” And you’re just standing there wet with an empty net and a tired expression.

But whatever because whether there are turtles or fish or not your pond’s ecology works just fine without them because that’s what eco-communities do they form a system around what they have. You aren’t missing anything if you don’t have turtles you just have a pond system without turtles. If someone tried to change you by pouring a bunch of turtles into your pond it would probably fuck something up.

So you don’t have to be entirely sure. You don’t have to search every inch of the damn pond before you can decide there are probably no turtles. If you want to take the aro or ace label because you think it fits go for it. And if you do find your turtles you can rename the pond. That’s fine.

[bluewithouttheclues]

I think we need to talk more about the scars that your 'friends' give to you.

As someone who had experienced some 'bad friendships', it's just so weird having friends that act like... real friends. Did you really texted me just to ask if I'm okay? Why did you remember that I had a test today? What do you mean you want to make plans with me?

I was talking with my best friend the other day after dance practice while we were waiting for the bus I have to take to get to my house - the bus stop is close to her house, like a 5 minute walk. I was getting worried because it seemed like all public transport had disappeared from this damn city and it was getting late for me to make it on time for lunch. Suddenly, she told me to walk a little bit because she called me an uber close to her house so i wouldn't have to wait anymore, she also reminded me to text her so she knows that I got to my house safely. I didn't even see when she used her phone.

I almost started crying right on the spot.

[zb1s]

JIWOONG + MATTHEW + GYUVIN ✧ Say My Name 🥣

[bluewithouttheclues]

I love the fact that Matthew has absolutely no filter (in non-malicious way!). Since Boys Planet, he gives me the feeling of being the kind of person that wears his heart on his sleeve and that it's a refreshing quality for a rookie idol. He seems really sweet with everyone but he also has this chaotic energy that makes him so endearing and funny to watch.

You just can't help but love him.

[zb1s]

[230425] ZB1 TWITTER UPDATE (translation cr. julyhours)

[maxashli]

They're just sooo pretty

[pi-cheolins]

ZB1 - 9 planets  ✧  Kim Jiwoong : neptune 8/9    

[pi-cheolins]

ZB1 - 9 planets ✧ Seok Matthew : earth 3/9

[thebvbbletea]

ZEROBASE1 (ZB1) Final Lineup

— And for other contestants you guys did so well and we'll see each other again in the future ♡

[bluewithouttheclues]

You did it, my little sunshine, I'm so proud of you, good work.

[bluewithouttheclues]

As someone who has had Matthew as her one-pick since the start of the show, I'm really exhausted.

[seokmatthewz]

SEOK MATTHEW ✧ SAY MY NAME ✧ BOYS PLANET EP.10

↳ #jiwoong1stwin

[what-even-is-thiss]

No, common misconception. You actually become asexual by beating Cupid's ass in a wrestling competition.

[athena-theunicorn]

because today is international ace day, nobody is allowed to feel sexual attraction. put it away. you dont need it today.

[bluewithouttheclues]

Now, I'm on EP. 12 of The Glory (2022-2023) and I have to say that the bond between miss Kang and her daughter is both beautiful and heartbreaking.

Hyeon-nam does everything for her daughter, the only light of her life, even if it means risking to go to jail or lose her own life (by the hands of her husband or Yeon-jin). On the other hand, Seon-ah supported her mother unconditionally. She is so young and she was clueless about Dong-eun's plan but she followed everything without question for the sake of her mother. When Dong-eun told her she had to leave the country, her first worry was leaving her mother alone because she knew that her father would get more violent without her in the picture. Needless to say, Seon-ah's text message and Hyeon-nam's letter broke me to pieces, I started sobbing.

The love that they have for each other is so strong and deep that if you compare them to Dong-eun and her mother... it's like a punch to the gut.

[wulfhalls]

commits medical malpractice comes home to cook dinner for his girl displays behaviour is insane he really said malewife maliciousness malpractice! 10/10 character