Hold still.

Save a blood bag, be nice to me. Mid 20s. Enter freely and of your own will. If I reblogged you, you made me blush.

[nekomimidusteon]

(attempting to flirt with the girl who pinned me on my back, head hanging off the bed for easy access to my throat) damn are you the sword of damocles because ur hung and threatening imminent demise.,..,.,.

[bayesic-bitch]

it seems like in bdsm the "rewards" and the "punishments" look very similar. this concerns me a great deal, because it points to a system of misaligned incentives. if we're not careful, it's even possible that a rational actor could deliberately violate regulations, because the penalties for rule violations are in fact incentivized. one shudders to think of the consequences of such an arrangement

[malignedmare]

the only thing better than winning is knowing that you cant win no matter how hard you try

[sp1c3-r4ck-synd1c4t3]

Horny people legally cannot consent. Horniness is a clouded state like inebriation. If you are partway through sex and you realize you might've become horny, it is illegal to continue. If you have ever made someone horny, you are a bad person.

[chainsawstrap]

And why are we cruel to brats? I dont mean in the way they like or ask for. I mean why is bratting equitable to annoyance, to being poorly disciplined, to being a bad sub?

Bratting is an action a sub can take to initiate scenework without directly asking, something we afford dommes the ability to do pretty handedly in many dynamics.

Bratting is a statement of trust that a sub does not have to be “good” to be wanted. That they can push back and it will not harm their dynamic or standing.

Bratting is a way to play, the same as any other form of submission, the same as any form of domming. But it is talked about as a lesser form of submission, as poor form, as an insult.

And people will justify this as “well that’s what they want” when discussing total strangers. From Dommes and subs who i know hate being treated as pleasure dispensers by strangers.

Do you want your sub to be scared to say no? Do you not want them to tease and play? Are you scared of having someone ask you to earn their submission, to show you can make them, to let them fight and be overcome and be cared for after?

[corpse-toy]

sliding you a note that says "do you fantasize about putting me under extreme physical, emotional, and/or mental duress? circle yes/no" with a bunch of hearts doodled around it

[sapphling]

has anyone ever noticed that being hurt feels kinda good

[froglocker]

Giving in does feel good as fuck sometimes

[ace-trainer-alice]

In any case, the other best trick to pull with love potions is the whole "one of these glasses is spiked, one isn't" and then secretly spike both of them. Personally, I can handle quite a bit of magically induced desperate devotion towards you, I know how to navigate such things, but can you handle it towards me? You're already trying so very hard to look away from me, and I think you'll find that biting your lip and tapping your foot quickly ceases to be an effective distraction. The more you fight it, the worse it'll get. Where I'm fully confident staring at you, stroking your finger, and hooking my foot around your leg. I already have plans to own you and keep you forever, what alternatives can you propose? First two wrong answers don't count.

[tired-and-a-mess]

Having a voice kink is so stupid like “omg when they talk 😍”

[ulysses-but-somehow-more-transer]

take my ass to torture city where the grass is ouch and the girls are hit me

[puppygirl-panopticon]

[att3ntionpl3as3]

You can apparently grab me at the base of my neck and ill just freeze and let you do what you want with me

[sinningfemme]

sorry for acting gross perverted obsessed & deranged. it’s cause i am gross perverted obsessed & deranged

[halochewer]

"humiliated boymoder gets her brainworms fucked out" is basically scripture to me

[ifitbleedsbiteharder]

i just fucking love playing hard into other peoples kinks i love it so much like oh honey im sorry i didnt know you had such a praise kink before i started gushing about how much i like how good a job you did, oh im sorry i didnt realise how much playing with your inner thigh while we were in public in front of our friends would mess with you, my fuckin dream job is being some kind of demon of lust sent to tempt people into fucking me

[ifitbleedsbiteharder]

I should stress, the appeal here isnt in pleasing you per se, its in making you lust after me, it's to turn your mind to the desire to have sex with me, its to make you unable to think about anything else, its about using your deep secrets i shouldn't know and silly manipulable brain to make me the centre of your mind, thats why im a demon

[anarqueeen]

Love when sex is spontaneous. Like so spontaneous you're on me before I even have a chance to fight back