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What’s the best way to start a conversation?

Most people are too shy to start a conversation, some can’t take especially to their crush, to someone you knew, or someone that is hard to approach. People tend to fiddle their hands just so that person ask them why they are fiddling. some people tend or attempt to grab the attention of that person so that person start the conversation rather than you who wanted to talk to them so badly. But it’s actually annoying especially the grabbing the attention part, that person might think you’re just an attention seeker.

You have to be yourself to start up the conversation so that it will boost your self confidence. so there’s nothing to be afraid or to be shy to talk to them, even the one who is hard to approach. Some people just really want to talk, especially when they are alone, so its good and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Just mentally prepare yourself and start up the conversation by greeting them with simple hello, with a simple hello goes up the conversation even further like asking questions, knowing your hobby and interest, as long as not too personal or else they might think you’re a creep or a hit man who grabs information to kill its target. And make sure you’re not too talkative or lead the conversation, that person wanted to say something as well, manage your limit of talking so that person have a chance to speak, as long as you’re not afraid to start up the conversation, you’ll be fine.

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Does god wants me to be happy?

In every struggle, in every obstacle, in every difficulties that you encounter, is that god’s love? For you, what exactly is god is telling you, tells you to be happy? Or tells you to be sad? Or tells you to suffered from what god has given you. But how about you? Have you ever ask yourself why you’re living?

Sometimes no one ever thought of that, like “why am i breathing? why am i still alive? for all that i have suffer, why am i still alive?” Deary, you are leaving because god give you life. Sometimes it depends of how you feel and how you live, that makes you question yourself that “does god wants me be to be happy”. And indeed he wants you to be happy for what he give you, and that is life. He give you life to see you move, he give you life to see you encounter and dealing of all obstacle that you ever encountered, he give you life just to see your face, and the reason why he wants to see your face, is to see yous smile. Even in times where sad things happens all the time,he wouldn’t mind seeing you sad, because in a second you’ll be smiling, as long as if you face all of this difficulties that surround you, is your choice to be happy and god wants you to be happy.

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How to handle difficult people?

Aren’t they over reacting? Over small things and just makes the issue even worse? Likewise, they are hard to understand, they feel they were right and you were wrong. Sometimes having a friend like this is even more difficult, but its actually not that hard to cool off their heads. stubborn i might say, but still every person has a weak spot and sometimes they use this method to calm the stubborn person down.

They’re irrational, and making them even more pissed than ever, is that you disagree from what’s the person is saying. Rather than disagreeing, how about try to find they’re weak spot, and that is teasing. stubborn or difficult people can’t handle the tease and sometimes that will make them shut down and try to process from what you’re saying, but still the result are still the same like bad mouthing you and try to be more concise and defends themselves, but at the end they will really just going to forget what happened. And sometimes difficult people don’t usually show their emotions or what they really feel. you can only notice their grumpy face all the time. To help them open up, try talk to them in some comfy or chill atmosphere location. Like sometimes in a rooftop, park, or sometimes they want a place where no people can hear or see you two. They will literally open up to you especially when you guys are talking about their interests, favorites, etc. They are still hard to handle but once it last longer, they will change. depends on how you treat them but make sure you’re not too passive or else your just let them do what they want to do like blabbering nonsense and etc.

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