pixie dust @bonbonfairy - Tumblr Blog

call me bonbon or bee (i love pet names like babygirl, puppy & princess & little girl & kiddo)

in my 20s & she/her & bisexual (VERY strong preference for women)

i do not post or send photos of myself. i never will. i only minimally describe myself/what i'm wearing if i feel like it. please do not ask for pics. just don't ask and don't insist by asking every day. the answer will always be no, you have to respect that boundary or you'll be blocked.

come chat and send me asks! i'll answer when i can & want. don’t pressure me.

i do not belong to and I am not owned by anyone (not looking to be).

fatphobia is NOT tolerated. fat people are loved and respected on my blog.

ask before sending nudes. unsolicited pics are not acceptable.

original posts will be tagged with bonbon speaks.

THIS BLOG IS FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE 18+. DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU'RE FATPHOBIC.

kinks: being submissive (0% brat but 100% good girl), daddy & mommy, edging!!!, praise, dominance in & outside of sex, guided masturbation!!!, affection & care, mild dumbification, free use/being used, cum dump, piss play/being pissed on, breeding, light bruises & marks, somnophilia, monsterfucking, worship, light degradation if paired with praise

limits: being anything else than submissive, anal 99.9% of the time (please stop disregarding this limit!), rimming, ass eating, alcohol/drugs/weed, knife, blood, vore/gore, guns/other weapons, too much degradation without praise because i'm sensitive, rough throat fucking & intense choking & breath play, scat/vomit, diaper play, drinking/swallowing piss, feet, feederism, no aftercare because aftercare is important.

ps: all mentions of cock/cum/breeding include straps & dildos & girl cock & fake cum. all variations are adored on my blog!

if you're only talking to me in hopes to get me to send you photos or do a few seconds of small talk before you send me dick pics, just don't. i'm not interested. i don't care what your dick looks like and i don't want to see it. if you asked once and i did agree, you must ask again. ask for consent every time. don't ask to send your nudes every day, i will most likely say no. DO NOT SEND ME NUDES WITHOUT ASKING FOR CONSENT FIRST. MATURE CONTENT & TRIGGER WARNINGS. not all posts will be tagged but this blog includes various kinks like cnc, violence, somno, public, abuse, corruption, etc. MINORS DO NOT INTERACT. this blog is anti body shaming, fatphobia, racism, homophobia, transphobia and many more.

#pinned.

savvygemineye

justsomeguycore

ever since i was a little girl i knew i wanted to isolate myself before others could exclude me

onlyonekenobi

i am a lover. but underneath that i'm a hater. and then underneath that i'm a lover again

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deathwish616-deactivated2022080

One more “🥺” and you’re getting bred twice with no pulling out inbetween.

#🥺🥺🥺

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pansyproud

when i say i want to be bred, i don’t mean one creampie and done. give me round after round of your cum. give me so much of your seed we’re using it as lube. i wanna feel the burning heat against my cervix, filling my little pussy until it’s pouring down my thighs, pooling on the sheets, and don’t forget to plug my cunt up after so i always know who owns me

maddiesfreaky

greedysadistpapa

"Just friends right?" While I'm pinning you down and stuffing you with another load

greedysadistpapa

Conditioning you to love smelling my cologne when I'm fucking you to the point where you're a horny mess when I wear it in public

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5 Tips for Vetting a Dom

Here are some tips I came up with after reflecting on years of dating shitty men (& a few good ones). Some of these apply to dating in general, even outside of a D/s dynamic, & could also apply to all genders.

Notice how much interest he shows in getting to know you. This is a narcissist test as much as it is a misogynist test. Does he tell endless stories about himself and ask few questions about you? Does he make assumptions about you based on your gender or kink identity? Nope, next!

Notice if he has an interest in learning. You don't need someone with a ton of experience in bdsm. It's more important that they're willing to learn & change. In fact, if he thinks he has nothing to learn because he's so experienced, that's not a good sign. Every D/s dynamic is different, so having experience doesn't mean he'll know the best way to be a Dom for you. If he's open to new perspectives from others in the community (and open to learning about your specific preferences), that's a good sign!

Notice how he responds to criticism. Does he apologize & own up to his mistakes or does he make excuses & defend himself when he does something that offends or hurts you? Even an apology says a lot - is he sorry for how it affected you or just sorry because it's "not like him" or makes him look bad?

Notice if he expects deference before you've consented to submitting to him. This one might be a personal preference, but I find it off-putting when a guy expects to be called Sir by every sub who crosses his path. If you want someone fully committed to you (and I know not everyone is into monogamy), then wait for a Dom who sees those labels as sacred & earned.

Figure out if his idea of D/s aligns with yours. One of the most important aspects of this is how much you both want D/s in your lives. It could be from just in the bedroom to 24/7 or anywhere in between. Don't succumb to pressure or change your preferences for anyone! There will be someone who wants what you want out of D/s and bdsm.