Queen Of The Nonbinary Fae

leah // she/her // 18 // aroace // multifandom

[officialfaeriequeen]

logging off indefinitely

you can find me at my new blog @reinanova if you’d like to follow me there!

<3

[caelpictor]

Oof

[adhdcognizant-deactivated202110]

[liberalsarecool]

#FightFor15 #MinimumWage

[thefullestm00n]

[theweefreewomen]

[ID: a twitter thread by  Gon with the wind….like Ging @Satirony:

Marriage betweeen a man and woman was built in a way that benefits men far more than women. This is well studied.

If you’re a man marrying a woman, you need to be cognizant of this and make sure you *overcompensate* in order to make things as egalitarian as possible.

I emphasize overcompensating because there are aspects of relationships between men and women that far more often than not result in women doing more, because we live in a patriarchal and misogynistic society.

So you need to make sure you’re consciously doing more to compensate for the unseen things that she will most likely be doing.

And this is especially true in societies in which women also work outside of the home (so the past several decades in most Western societies).

And I refuse to have a dynamic that my parents, like a lot of late Baby Boomers, had.

One in which both the man and woman work outside the house, but the woman still does most of the child rearing and cleaning at home.

I know somebody is eventually gonna assume I’m saying this with ulterior motives and ask something stupid like “did she pick you?”

The answer is yes, she did. I’m married. Now go reflect on your inadequacies as a partner.

below is a shared gif of a woman taking a sip from a martini glass. end ID.]

[solarishashernoseinabook]

In practical terms this means:

know who the family doctor is (as well as dentist, optometrist, etc.) and when everyone had their last appointment so you can schedule the next. This goes for pets as well

know your kids shoe sizes. Seriously, I had a coworker complain that her husband got too-small boots for their kindergartener.

do grocery shopping

based off the above, be aware of everyone’s allergies/intolerances/diets/personal tastes

know how to cook and do your fair share

know how to do laundry, dishes, etc.

know when the bills are due and pay some of them

take an active role in planning holidays, vacations, etc. and budgeting for them

know your kids friends so you can arrange playdates

know their babysitter so you can arrange childcare

if your spouse does the cleaning most often, know when they tend to clean and help out. Do they sweep every day? Do they mop once a week or once a month? Help with that

know the location of everything in the house (cleaning supplies, kitchen utensils, tax forms, etc.) so that if your spouse is away, you can run the household solo without having to ask constantly where everything is

take an active interest in your spouse’s life and your kids lives

[jetix]

Get rid of "Read" indicators on all messengers ever lol

[jetix]

Its stupid were at a point where people are anxious to just open and read a message without the other person throwing a fit if they arent responded to immediately

[aubrey-plaza]

okay everybody go home this is the best one

[twitblr]

Lil Nas X stays based, a precious national treasure indeed (x)

[prismatic-bell]

Listen, okay?

This particular rabbi is a conspiracy nut. Even other orthodox rabbis don’t like him.

Kindly stop making this out to be a Jewish thing. We shut down our synagogues before anyone else shut down anything, there are a huge number of Jews working in healthcare, we gave up EVERY MAJOR HOLIDAY IN 2020 (unlike Gentiles who couldn’t even handle Christmas), and we have been urged to get the vaccine. IT IS OUR GREATEST COMMANDMENT TO PRESERVE LIFE.

If this dude was a random gentile, you wouldn’t care, and you know it. Stop sensationalizing.

[black-to-the-bones-deactivated2]

[education]

After reading the newspaper, tear it to small pieces and plant it.

It’s a mixture of recycled paper, water and small flowers or herbs seeds. The eco-friendly newspaper has had a huge success, a circulation of over four million copies a day across the country and revenues of about eighty million yen, equivalent to over $700,000. The initiative has also involved schools, in order to raise children’s awareness on environmental issues and teach them the importance of recycling. Source

[milfkarlmarx-deactivated2021081]

in movies couples always split up bc one of then wants kids and the other doesnt and then at the end they get back together bc the one who didnt want kids wants them now and that means theyre fixed and normal i hate that

[milfkarlmarx-deactivated2021081]

like its always framed as the person not committing to the relationship enough and like!! no!!! theyre committed to the relationship theyre just not commited to taking care of a whole ass person who relies on them for everything for 20+ years!!! like!! get a turtle or something jesus christ

[milfkarlmarx-deactivated2021081]

just ONCE i want a movie where a split up couple has to take care of some kids and at the end oke of them goes listen joey that shit sucked. im sorry for yelling at you kids are a full time job and youre right we cant take that responsiblity can we get a dog tho

[bulletnotestudies]

*click for better quality*

My other masterposts: • extensions pt.1  • study sounds • dealing with failure • how to gain traction • how to study when you’re struggling

[marvelsmostwanted]

This is exactly how every former member of the Trump administration should be treated. They should not be hired by anyone, especially news outlets, and they should not be taken seriously even as political pundits. They should be treated as people who knowingly enabled a threat to democracy and nothing less. Fascism is not socially acceptable. Ban them, blacklist them, ignore them, shame them. Do not indulge their conspiracies and lies when that’s exactly what led us to this point.

[freedominthedarkmp3]

Obsessed with this title askfjdha

[childweanedonpoison]

EN translation of the title from Italy: “Does the Covid 19 vaccine make you gay? You wish! Unfortunately, science does not work miracles.”

[llesbianfarmer]

straight people will never understand how therapeutic it is to hear the words “her girlfriend” or “his boyfriend” or how I ascend to heaven when I hear “her wife” and “his husband”

[queerbookdragon]

Female customer: “I don’t have a rewards card but my partner might.”

Me, ears perking up: “Great! Can I have their name?”

Customer: “It’s Stephanie ____”

Me: stupidly wide smile and faint twinkle in eyes because holy crap I’m not alone

[kendrysaneela]

These two women came up to my register with their twins and they called each other honey and their kids called them both Mom and my soul ascended to the heavens i was so happy

[overlyactivepingpongball]

When I worked as a contractor I knocked on a heavily pregnant woman’s door and she said she’d “have to talk to the missus” in a heeeeavy outback accent and I actually forgot how to speak for a second and had to explain that I’m not homophobic I’m just super gay and hearing her say that launched my souls directly to nirvana

[oculianthracina]

My soul when I see Queer people visibly and openly living their best Queer lives:

[laughconfetti]

LGBT visibility is so important for this reason and more.

[butchfagminotaur]

tumblr’s search feature is great

[alwaysuncanny]

Gotta make room for new mistakes in 2021!

[scifiscribbles-deactivated20210]

awww this is actually really sweet <3

[portraitoftheoddity]

^ From a therapist-friend, in case any in-therapy-friends ever worry about this. 

[quiteliterallyhotsauce]

[findingfeather]

And this is because it would be really shit of them to open up your entire brain into hysterical Upset and then boot you out without helping you find equilibrium, but there is probably someone right after you. Just to fully articulate.

[star-anise]

Yeah exactly. When I do therapy I always keep an eye on the clock so I know when I have enough time to keep opening up big issues, vs. when I have to work on getting them back to stable so they don’t leave my office and walk straight into a wall.

[im-in-way-2many-fandoms]

Thank fucking God holy shit