make! your! sub! speak! positively! of! themselves! before! you! let! them! cum!
adjust language for pronoun, title, and pet name preferences as needed but things like
- “who’s my beautiful girl”
- “i am, i am”
- “you’re what?”
- “i’m your beautiful girl”
- “say it again, what are you?”
- “i’m - ah - a beautiful girl”
- “that’s right, beautiful girl. now be even prettier and cum for me.”
are everything, don’t let up on asking, repeat the phrase you want them to say often, and don’t let them cum until they’re kind to themselves. you can work as much teasing as you want into this, make them say it until they convince you they mean it, make them say all sorts of good things about themselves. the point is for your sub to associate loving themselves with the dopamine rush of their orgasm (i would not recommend doing this if you plan on ruining their orgasm, let this chemically play out all the way through for your sub), and this can be such a gift for dom’s too because you’re helping your sub see themselves the way you see them and making them more confident in themselves, especially as a creature of beauty, pleasure, and desire - not to mention the wonderful bonding opportunity this all can be for you both
tl;dr: take the praise kink to the next level by pulling an uno reverse card and making ur sub praise themselves
