i'll try my best

astra - they/them - bpd, hpd, median system - main blog is thegaycar

[roseys-deactivated20181203]

no offense to positivity but i love holding grudges and i’m not going to forget about someone who hurt me

[zizzys-art]

A comic about cutting ties

[archived-zombbean]

Thats so sad ziz!!

[klefable]

not to sound bitter but i hope hurting me haunts you for years

[flowerbomb-borderline]

shoutout to everyone with bpd who tries so hard to maintain relationships with people, despite the ever present paranoia that no one genuinely cares about them; you are strong as fuck and i’m proud of you. know that most of the time those thoughts are wrong, people do care about and like you.

[iguanamouth]

[cwote]

Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain yourself or make sense of it. Simply trust what you feel.

[boydaisies-deactivated20170620]

Shoutout to the people who are traumatized by an event that didn’t bother them at first By something that they didn’t realize hurt them By something that happened when they were young and naive and didn’t know what to do so they forced the memory out of their head By something that only started affecting them recently You are valid and I love you

[pbkdf2]

[rockinrye]

if you’re someone who is mad (read very) sensitive/caring especially when it comes to being empathetic to or protective of other people’s feelings, don’t martyr yourself. don’t let people treat you shitty just because you feel like telling someone about themselves would make things worse. don’t absorb tension because you dislike confrontation. don’t be silent about your hurt feelings to protect theirs. your feelings matter just as much as anyone else’s and you shouldn’t ever have to shoulder the burden of pain to salvage a relationship whether it be platonic or romantic. internalizing hurt because you don’t want the person hurting you to be uncomfortable does no one any good. they get to go along knowing or not knowing they’re hurting you without any consequences. meanwhile, you’re being crushed. their is no honor in sacrificing your well-being (or sanity) for someone else’s.

[caringcoffeechats]

You’re not fake simply because you act differently depending on the person you’re with. Different personalities bring out different aspects of your personality. You’re complex and multidimensional; it’s beautiful.

[queeranne]

I needed this

[cocvino-deactivated20160219]

[borderlinevoid-blog]

Someone: *gives me attention*

Me: my paranoia says "no" but my bpd says "yes"...

[jodiefoster]

i need validation in an i.v.

[extwin-deactivated20151228]

[timeaway]

I only need to be told im beautiful and loved 1500 times a day I think thats reasonable

[khanos-deactivated20170219]

allow yourself multidimensionality, you are not one emotion, one trait, one story. you’re a million experiences and a million pieces

[demiiwhiffin]