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pls enjoy my shitty blog ty

[notthedisneyyourelookingfor]

[repair-bear]

IS THAT A GIF IN A GIF IN A GIF

[aidashakur]

[egg-ii-deactivated20190112]

Autistic Person: When there is a lot of stimuli that I have to process at once from the background, sometimes it can be hard to hear and understand what people are saying when they speak to me. I may ask you to repeat yourself because I was unable to process the information the first time, but I am interested and engaged in what you have to say.

Allistic Person: This is an absolutely ridiculous request. I’m offended that you have a condition where you can’t socially interact just like me. Fuck you.

[midnigtartist]

Local father attempts parenting for the first time (x)

[bisexualmoses]

[fistinginferno]

jack black is literally the only human that never needs any context for me. I could see him going anywhere and doing anything. like if i got abducted by aliens and saw him just wandering around the spaceship putting bugle chips on his fingers to make it look like he has claws i would be like ‘that’s some classic jack black right there’ and not even question it

[geekdawson]

one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have. 

no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation. 

no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying. 

no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.

no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.  

a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age. 

Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse. 

I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships. 

The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery. 

[biseksuwal]

[ratcreep]

I am HEAVILY cursed and I blame 13 year old me

[tendiademsart]

you ever meet a group of idiots that just fumblefuck their way into your heart?? A print i made up for metrocon! It’ll also be available at ANIMATE! Florida.

[toadistic]

Little Scoliosis Things

- moving makes your back hurt

- sitting still makes your back hurt

- only lying on the hard floor gives some relief

- making porn moans when you stretch

- ‘Can you give me a massage?’

- pins and needles in your arms and legs

- wearing baggy shirts

- constantly grumpy because of pain

- some fool: ‘Just stand up straight!’

- asking your friends if they want to feel your weird curvature

- you have one bony hip you could stab somebody with

- always out of breath

[ondoinganevildeedblues]

son i have a waifu you might think is pretty “kawaii”, and her name is responsibility-chan 

[ruinedchildhood]

[bokumetsu]

[steerclearofhere-deactivated201]

someday this picture will be on the tumblr radar with millions of notes. and then it will be so big to where it will destroy all of tumblr thats what i believe

[bepeu-deactivated20171202]

i need a group chat with my parallel universe me’s im getting worried abt them

[wrenwalker]

@napoleonbrolo sent me this and it changed my life