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[doseofdavis]

Does anyone remember when Dylan Hafertepen killed two of his partners because of his kinks and need for control and then we just all stopped talking about it?

[cubvet]

The reason why we did was immediately after the Australian news special where jacks mom confronted Dylan not only killing her child but stealing the inheritance that was supposed to take care of his autistic brother and then smiling at her face after learning how much he stole (I think it was 6k?) the tumblr porn ban happened and we all lost our shit thinking the site would drown in 7 days and we just had that much time to find another site to transfer and post on. And then after the holidays wanna say like 75-50% of people leave, like it’s so quite now with such little traffic.

So yeah let’s bring this shit back up now that we kind settled though I would recommend we also talk about this on Twitter and Facebook so we can get more people involved cáuse tumblr is even less of a presence now.

[fullbushfever]

Wore this under my clothes all day. Felt sexy.

[artimues]

Holy fuck. So fucking delicious

[gaygingercub]

Fucking sexy. 😈😈😈

[mrgnileather2016-deactivated202]

Sexy Santa for Eagle LA toy drive

[mrgnileather2016-deactivated202]

New boots from Stompers @leatherwerks

[mrgnileather2016-deactivated202]

Crap sleep but time for a quick pre-meeting workout.

[mutabear]

“Damn boy, you are really going wild for your dad’s musk today. Normally my workouts will make you horny, but nothing like this. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining. You know how horny physical activity gets me. But it really feels like my pheromones are pushing you into overdrive. It’s not going to be enough for you to suck my dick today, is it? I’m going to need to throw your ass on the bed and go to town on you. Let me relax and turn on the game and you can get back to sucking my dick. After you have a load or two of cum in your belly, and I’m caught up on football, we can head back to the bedroom and I can fuck you until you don’t remember your own name.”

[aninactivebloggfgfgf]

An Open Letter to Tumblr about the Adult Content Ban and How it is Hurting Your Users:

Recently, Tumblr was removed from the Apple app store due to an incident involving child pornography. This incident is incredibly unfortunate, but it doesn’t stand alone. Tumblr was also removed from the app store due to the large influx of porn bots and pornographic spam, users claiming to be proud to be pedophiles, blatant Nazism, racists who are not deleted for sending hate and harassing users, and more. I myself reported someone for harassing me, but because I had blocked the person and couldn’t access the messages where they harassed me, they were still able to send me anonymous asks. Your support staff, with back doors to the website (presumably), claimed they could not access the messages, and I was left SOL. Many features on this website do nothing to actually protect your users from harassment, racism, homophobia, transphobia, Nazis, pedophiles, predators, porn bots, and more. 

You claim in your statement to us that you “have been working on these problems for a long time”. This is blatantly untrue. Please do not lie to us and patronize us. We’ve been here. We’ve seen you do nothing over, and over, and over again. 

We complained to you for months and months about the rampant porn bots, and you did nothing except add a report button on mobile which only reported sensitive content or spam at best. You could have addressed this problem with an effective algorithm, but you did not. We complained to you about being harassed and sent hate speech for being LGBT+, and you did nothing. We complained to you about blogs being randomly deleted, and sometimes you’ve restored them, other times you have not. We complained to you that there were people proudly claiming to be “Minor Attracted Persons”, or pedophiles, and you did nothing. We complained to you about people proudly claiming to be white supremacists, and you did nothing. All of these things are “against the community guidelines”, and yet over and over, you have not found effective ways to handle these problems or suppress the feeling of welcome that these users claim to get here. You have had a long time to work on these problems, but you haven’t addressed them. To say you have is untrue. 

 Multiple other social networking websites, such as Wordpress, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, and others have effectively dealt with rampant pornography, racism, pedophilia, and other problems without causing massive issues for their users who are not misusing the platform. They are continuing to find new, effective ways to deal with these issues without causing problems for their userbase as a whole.  There is no reason that you are unable to do this effectively other than that you wanted to do it quickly. You have once again chosen your stock holders over your users. And we have had enough. 

You have already started to ban “Adult” content with a new algorithm. Here are screenshots of just a fraction of the posts you have flagged as containing adult content:

Your new system of simply tackling everything at once is not working. At all. And each of these screenshots is proof of your utter incompetence. None of these posts contain pornographic acts, “female nipples”, or any community violation of any kind. 

We, the users, have been asking you for months to deal with these problems - particularly, the porn bots and bots that spam. In order to block a bot from a side blog, I have to do it manually, even though they are in my side blog’s feed. This is a huge issue for mobile - only users. They keep cropping up in droves, taking over our posts and tricking google into making it look like a legitimate blog linked to a pornographic website. We have complained to you for months and months now, and your solution to simply “ban all adult content” is ineffective. I agree that children should not be able to access pornography - but this is not how you tackle a porn bot problem. Your system is utterly useless, allows for racists, pedophiles, porn bots, and Nazis to remain untouched. It also harms sex workers and real people who may use this website for some forms of adult content responsibly. Moreover, as seen above, it harms plenty of users who have in no way violated your terms of service.

 If you keep this up, you threaten your website and company as a whole. Many of us are backing up our blogs and planning places to go to. 

You already have a content filter for “sensitive” content (content inappropriate for younger viewers). You could have improved this, instead of attacking your entire user base. It seems to be a very lazy “solution”, if you could call it one at all, and one that harms your entire userbase.

If you are going to keep this filter in place and make Tumblr, a website that has never been known for being family friendly and has never claimed to be, you are going to lose millions of your users. We are already planning our exodus. It isn’t hard to follow. Censor us, and we will go somewhere else. That is not a threat. It is a promise. 

Sincerely, 

The users of your website. 

@staff @support

[aninactivebloggfgfgf]

They flagged this post immediately and I’ve submitted it for review… this is… quite a week.

[aninactivebloggfgfgf]

If you believe these words, reblog it, please. I want this to be right in their face because I couldn’t email them directly. 

[honedperfection]

December 17th - a rescue plan

Some good news, I’ve been talking to two developers now and got them working together, we just had a meeting with the guys behind an existing large (millions of users) site similar to Tumblr, with a vibrant and open-minded community, and more importantly, it has open-minded owners who believe in free speech. They think we can get something done here to rescue the whole community.

I’m not allowed to reveal the site name yet. I can tell you it’s mainstream, open to everyone, open-minded and welcoming. (It’s not WordPress or any site owned by Facebook or Twitter. It’s not Pillowfort, that’s in closed beta. It’s not Ello, that’s mainly for artists. It’s not kinkspace or fetlife, those are too specialist. It’s not jux, that seems to be closed. It’s not Soup, that seems still in development and too small.)

One of the reasons for delaying the announcement for next few days is they don’t want a “land grab” where people take the names of current popular Tumblr users over there (cyber squatting). So they are looking at ways for existing Tumblr users to keep the same names on the new site.

More info over the days to come.

The plan is, broadly:

1. By December 9th, announcement of the new site and how to secure your username there

2. By December 10th, an online tool for bloggers to copy their existing content to the new site automatically, with the same tags and captions.

3. Bloggers will need to copy their content across between December 10th and December 17th if they want to use the automatic tool.

4. My understanding is that after December 17th there will be no public access to any “flagged” posts on Tumblr, but the original poster will still be able to see the flagged post (for a short time at least). Therefore, the original poster may still be able to manually download a post to their own PC or phone, after December 17th, and manually upload it to the other site. But if you have lots of posts that will take a long time, it will be better to use the automatic tool before December 17th.

Please understand that these dates are approximate and may change for technical or other reasons.

There may be a few rough edges or not so perfect looking site design on the transfer tool. Everyone is doing their best. The main goal here is to help as many people as possible preserve access to their content, in the short space of time Tumblr has allowed us, and preserve as much as possible of the Tumblr community spirit somewhere new.

The new site will cater for photo, GIF, text and html posts. It will not offer video and audio posts, due to cost reasons - maybe in future, but for now you will need to preserve video and audio content yourself in some other place.

If your Tumblr blog has a mixture of original content and reblogs, or all reblogs, all of that can be copied over to the new site. Reblogs will become “your” original content if nobody else posted them yet, otherwise they will be shown as reblogs. The devs are looking at ways to preserve attribution of reblogs back to the original Tumblr poster, if that person also moves to the new site.

Important: your Likes cannot be copied from Tumblr to the new site. You will have to go find the same posts again on the new site, and like them afresh.

(Similarly, existing reblog comments, asks, messages and other user interaction on Tumblr cannot be copied to the new site - that’s just too much to do, in the short time available.)

If you want to preserve any of your existing Liked posts on Tumblr, you will need to either: (1) download the post to your own PC, or: (2A) reblog it now to your own Tumblr blog, and then (2B) use the automatic tool, before December 17th, to move your whole Tumblr blog across to the new site.

If you have Liked a lot of posts here on Tumblr, the gridllr.com webapp should be able to help you do steps 1 and 2A quickly, I mean download or reblog.

(Someone complained to me today about the appearance of Gridllr on a phone. It’s best to use Gridllr on a PC, Mac or Tablet with a large screen.)

If you have liked a post here on Tumblr and the original poster decides to delete it, or even to delete their entire blog, some time before December 17th, then that post will be permanently lost. So if you want to be sure to preserve any of your Liked posts, you should best download or reblog as soon as possible. If it’s reblogged to your own blog it is safe from deletion, at least for next few days.

Obviously, you will lose access, after December 17th, to all past posts you have liked, if Tumblr has flagged them as NSFW. Again, the steps (1), or (2A) and (2B) covered above will be the only way to hold on to these posts.

[coachcanbeverypersuasive-deacti]

Pass it on fellas!

[apimeleki]

Visit Original Link

[dionne-warlock]

[kingofeternalfreedom]

[papa-peach-deactivated20241019]

[maxtem19]

[cagedjock]

This is what it feels like having a Keyholder

[whitepeopletwitter]

[merciemadame]

[alphamagnvmopvs-deactivated2018]

Um Dominante não cria um submisso. Um Dominante guia um submisso ajudando a eles se darem permissão de tornarem-se que realmente são.

[mastersaysboysobeyoriginal-deac]

Never forget

[followyourslaveheart]

This is the truth!

[handcuffme-now]

A little bit of pet play is good for the soul

[jaycub04]

When you’re feeling all good and you take a “sexy” pic of yourself only to look at it and think.. I need to work on this, this, this, this… then I’ll be happy.

[littles-haven]

[darkknights1]

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[ukstudentalpha]

Protecting Real Submissives

I don’t know if this can be quantified but I’ve often thought it extremely important that the community come to the rescue of submissives with education and support. I’m a natural submissive and I now understand it’s a beautiful quality to have. I’m the caring loving pleaser and I’ll do anything for my dominant partner. But that can go wrong on so many levels for so many reasons. We are so vulnerable to real abuse that can be life-changing. Abuse that’s not a game or a fantasy. I’m HIV+ and I am because I a Dom took advantage of my submissive nature. As a submissive it’s counterintuitive to call the shots or make demands. You try politely but my submissive nature is true and honest it’s not a fantasy. It’s hard for me to disappoint a dominant man and I want to think he wouldn’t hurt me. But you see the posts and the fantasies on Tumblr focused on abuse. Real abuse of humans. Not fantasies but real abuse. It’s also very confusing as a submissive because we see these messages and as true submissives we let ourselves fall victim to thinking this is our lot in life and the actions prey on our core need to please a dominant man at any cost. I’m not a victim but becoming HIV+ was hard on me. I am a sweet nice submissive. I protected myself until I didn’t because I was pleasing a dominant man and I have to live with that decision. And then as an HIV+ submissive my self-esteem plummeted and I really started to let men abuse me and take even more advantage of me. As a sweet beautiful submissive, I had no understanding of my real value and it seemed there were no real dominant men around to help me understand that. And no education out there to help me understand it on my own. All this discourages a real submissive to enjoy the life he wants to as a submissive because it often results in abuse and lowered self esteem and real problems. When will the dominant men stand up and know they must help to protect and respect beautiful loving pleasing submissives like me. I’m not asking for control. But there are real negative consequences to the mixing of sub fetishes vs real sub living. It can’t all fall on the subs shoulders because we give up power and struggle to protect ourselves when we’re expected to listen and obey. Doms need to understand the power they have and help promote a positive use of that power. Thanks for breaking the cycles of abuse with your blog.

[davinci-london]

In the submissive’s role is to serve it’s the Dominant’s role to lead and protect.  So few ‘Dom’ guys get this because our view of Doms these days comes from porn, not real people.  The Doms in porn are lazy, self entitled and abusive.  

As a sub you need to ask yourself if you are obeying your Dom because you trust him or because you want to please him.  Trust deepens over time, if you don’t trust your Dom to protect you in a certain situation you are not ready to do it.  Naturally your Dom will be pushing you, but it is his responsibility to convince you that he can protect you before you move into a new space in the relationship.  

[cagedpussyboy]

💞💓💗so important to know all this. You can easily be convinced to do something you later regret as a sub because of al postings and suggestive ideas about Ds but: never let go of your standards. Ds is about respect never forget respect yourself, but embrace your submissive role.

I do hope your are doing better now. Hiv is my biggest fear in live too.

[mastertonysir]

So frequently, as a Dom, I find boys that have been abused and many of them have become poz because the wannabe that converted him didnt respect the boy giving himself and the wannabe didnt respect himself enough in the position of Dom. At no time, does Dom equal disrespect. Anytime a boy doesnt feel that a Dom respects himself to be the best that a sub should want, I say that the boy exercise his RIGHT to walk away. And hopefully he realizes it before that wannabe has harmed him

[breederofbetas]

When you boys come to me and say “no limits” like it’s a good thing? You’re setting yourself up for abuse. I think at this point EVERY submissive I’ve ever asked has had some examples of bad dominants and not all of them were as bad as this. I know the fantasy all too well, but i can only act out the fantasy once i know your limits and I’ve established what i  need to know for your safety. I wish i could say i was not exceptional when i look out for boys who serve me. I am saddened to say i cannot. Watch yourself and come to me if you have any questions about whether a dominant is behaving appropriately. I can help you formulate an approach if he isn’t.

[daddyexploresdomination]

This is a very important discussion. If you’ve been following me for a while you know my position on this: Dominants have responsibilities to their submissives. Any good leader knows he must ensure the welfare of those he leads and this extends into the home and the bedroom. We teach children to take care of their toys. A full grown adult male Dominant should be able to do the same with his.

[dirtydaddythings]

I am sharing this not only because the message is important but also the responses. The Daddies and Doms chime in to make it clear: this is not how it’s supposed to be and I agree with both post and replies. Heed these words.

[mindofasubmissive]

So much wisdom here y’all.

Subs. You must not be naive. You must not act in a submissive way just to fulfill the pleasure of serving a man without trust. You must not put your trust into someone too quickly. Abuse in the kink community is real for subs. Young subs, you may not listen to the wisdom of this post but I guarantee that there are men who will hurt you if you give them the chance. Whether that abuse is psychological, emotional, physical, sexual, or any combination there of it is not kink. Abuse is NOT kink. You have an obligation to yourself to protect your raw unabashed desire to submit. Abuse can change the way you interact in kink. Honestly, it can make you give up on the community all together. For me, it took 2+ years of processing and nearly no sex to come to terms with the fact that I can be a sub again and that not all men will try to hurt me.

For those who have dealt with abuse, I’m sorry. I love you. You are strong resilient beings. I wish you healing and a future of mutual respect with a true Dominant.

[hadriantemple-deactivated201812]

This is so incredibly important for kinksters to read. I know a boy who was sent to the ER and almost didn’t survive because the dom he was playing with was wildly irresponsible about anal play. I know another who was flat-out raped (not ‘play’ rape) by the first dom he met. And I’ve heard horror stories from others online.

Doms, remember the Spider-Man Rule. With great power comes great responsibility. The more power a dom has over his boy, the more responsibility he has to make sure the boy is not harmed by what he does.

Subs, I know it’s hard saying no to a dom, especially when you’re a novice and the need to please is intense. But you have to protect yourself until you find a dom who demonstrates he’s worthy of the trust and power you’re giving him.

[slightlyirreverent]

So much wisdom documented here. I will ad one admonishment: all of us, Doms and subs alike, we all must stop pretending and professing that submission equals weakness. To  accept that lie as truth only empowers unethical doms to believe they are empowered to do anything they wish to a trusting submissive and feeds the false notion in the submissive that he is powerless to stop the abuse and walk away.

[team-rocket-raccoon]

We are now in the wake of grief and tragedy because a beautiful submissive puppy was led astray by this notion that he was somehow less when he wasn’t owned, and his love for a manipulative narcisist cost him his life. Know your worth. Know your service is a blessing that you offer to your Dom(me). My dearest friend once told me that my submission is a gift not to be given lightly, and I have meditated on this wisdom ever since. Our greatest power is the joy we can bring to our Dom/mes, Owners, Masters/Mistresses, Handlers, Sirs and Misses. Our greatest challenge is remembering that whatever control we give to them, we always get to choose who we offer our submission to. That is always our right, the one power we can never truly surrender. Any so-called Dom(me) who takes your control without your willing surrender of it does not have your submission, they have your subjugation, and you are always worth more than that.

[brittron-deactivated20210419]

[muscledick69]

Being locked is the greatest thing in the world…naked uncaged.