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shout out to anyone who has seen me get stupidly emotional and insanely insecure but has stuck around anyway

flamingogroove-deactivated20201

my rational self: this will without doubt scare this person away, and they’ll not want to be my friend anymore, if i do this thing

my toxic bpd ass: do it twice, just to be sure

rosiitea

lesbiangaara-deactivated2017052

hey kids if ur parents are abusive, dont be surprised if they suddenly change all their behaviors when u finally move out, if they start acting very nice and never even allude to all those times Before when they were treating u bad. this is a form of gaslighting and if u plan to keep distant from them as an adult, this may well be the defining characteristics of ur interaction w/ them. it’s tough to navigate this, because u will almost definitely wonder: was i abused? listen… when u sit in ur own home someday, maybe w/ a loved one, and things feel good, and the past feels far away, ur abuse was not made up. ur parents really did those things, and whether or not u want to keep them out of ur life or form a new dynamic w/ them, that’s up to u. but never let them make u believe they were always good to u.

sovietshopaholic

Holy fuck, this

nudiemuse

Yup but only barely nice in my case.

bredlederblog

‘but never let them make u believe they were always good to u.’

Also another tip: interact with a child of whichever age (three, six, hell even 12). And then try to imagine literally behaving exactly like your parent towards the kid.

And when your blood starts boiling, and you realize with a sense of fury (and horror) that your parent had behaved wrongly to someone as young and dependent as that child (and later saw nothing wrong with it). It makes it so much easier to accept that your abuse DID happen, and that your parent really hasn’t earned the right to be forgiven.

mental-ch-illness

we’re deleting nts

reblog to delete all neurotypicals

bpdminds

Someone: *doesn’t invite me somewhere* Me: ;-; Someone: *does invite me somewhere* Me: ;-;

c-ptsdofficial

the post: *is relatable*

neurotypicals: what a dank, obviously exaggerated, meme. i, a connoisseur of dank memes, shall completely disregard the url and/or specifications of the post and reblog it

the post: *is not relatable*

neurotypicals: this is abusive and fucked up and i will not stand for it